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over a year ago
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We have just had to decline a meet owing to the fact that the couple live less than 50 yds from some of our relatives. It's a first for us and we feel bad about it.
What would you have done ???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The same
I don't shit on my own doorstep so to speak
Won't meet people from the same village at least
Well i hope you dont shit on your doorstep  "
I'm not getting into that....  |
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"The same
I don't shit on my own doorstep so to speak
Won't meet people from the same village at least
Well i hope you dont shit on your doorstep
I'm not getting into that.... "
Well im getting funny visions now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"We have just had to decline a meet owing to the fact that the couple live less than 50 yds from some of our relatives. It's a first for us and we feel bad about it.
What would you have done ??? "
Interesting because my wife met someone close to home as it where but we all met away from home in a club. We would all lose out so mutual discretion observed. Hope you get that too many homes and aways sounds like an Aussíe soap! Mr W |
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This as happaned to us a few times,
We actually went with the well there on here for the same thing as us so went with it lol.
Thankfully we all seen the funny side of it and now meet up regularly with 2 couples, a single fem and a single male that lives really close to us. We all totally understand discretion and nothing as been said at all.
Some we play with, some we just attand socials together with as they are in our everyday normal lives,
Its worked quite well for us and theres been no dramas lucky  x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The same
I don't shit on my own doorstep so to speak
Won't meet people from the same village at least
Well i hope you dont shit on your doorstep
I'm not getting into that.... "
COUGH |
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"I won't meet local as I've grown up children and would hate than thought of them finding out
tbh its my guilty secret and that's how I like it x"
That's what we thought, and the shit would really hit the fan,let alone the doorstep if our relatives found out....  |
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"I won't meet local as I've grown up children and would hate than thought of them finding out
tbh its my guilty secret and that's how I like it x
That's what we thought, and the shit would really hit the fan,let alone the doorstep if our relatives found out.... "
yes and it only takes one to tell another and before you know its
common knowledge so just don't meet from in and around my area x |
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I understand all you with kids and relatives....but me and jackie actively try to convert our neighbours and friends to swing....apart from lady next door she's 87 lol |
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We aren't really bothered to be honest. I was talking to a guy on here and later found out his parents are best friends with mine. I was talking to another couple who turned out to be only a few doors down. At the end of the day all on here for same reason and you would think that discretion would be a key factor x |
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"I understand all you with kids and relatives....but me and jackie actively try to convert our neighbours and friends to swing....apart from lady next door she's 87 lol"
That's ageist!!!!
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"We aren't really bothered to be honest. I was talking to a guy on here and later found out his parents are best friends with mine. I was talking to another couple who turned out to be only a few doors down. At the end of the day all on here for same reason and you would think that discretion would be a key factor x"
Same |
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My mam knows
My colleagues know ...
Always been the crazier one in my family /work .. and nothing surprises them any more with me lol
Only one I would prefer not to know is my teenage son...however ...if he found out I'd explain it in such a way that me having nsa away from my home during my child free time is better than being in and out new relationships all of the time..exposing them to partners etc
We're close...a liberal family..whilst it wouldn't be the end of the world ....
Lots of ppl local to me have recognised and all have been polite and discreet x
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"My mam knows
My colleagues know ...
Always been the crazier one in my family /work .. and nothing surprises them any more with me lol
Only one I would prefer not to know is my teenage son...however ...if he found out I'd explain it in such a way that me having nsa away from my home during my child free time is better than being in and out new relationships all of the time..exposing them to partners etc
We're close...a liberal family..whilst it wouldn't be the end of the world ....
Lots of ppl local to me have recognised and all have been polite and discreet x
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Should read "whilst it wouldn't be ideal it wouldn't be the end of the world" |
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