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How hard can it be to find our first single female? Really?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have been trying for around 2 weeks now to find a single female to join us for a pre booked hotel meet this weds but to no avail? Is it really this hard? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You would both probably be better of going to socials and getting to know people that way and maybe meeting women who you may be able to take things further with. Not many women are going to turn up at a random hotel to meet a couple they don't know  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I know what you mean hun but we have tried meeting for socials first but I think there are a lot of fake profiles here x"
I meant the organised socials that are held regularly throughout South Wales |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been trying for around 2 weeks now to find a single female to join us for a pre booked hotel meet this weds but to no avail? Is it really this hard? "
We've been looking for awhile! You'll get interest that never materializes, youll get fakes and youll get massive silent periods but eventually it'll pay off (we hope!  )
The main thing is not to settle! Quality over quantity  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Be patient. Most single females need an attraction to both parts of the couple and if that is not there, they probably would not meet. Good luck with everything xx |
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There's another thread like this running, this is our reply, it fits... This again? Some comments about "we tried for years" etc. Unicorns, hens teeth... jeez. I don't know if its just that Welsh girls are hornier, and meet more, but we find bi girls easy to play with, we have met loads. However, we don't play with "single bi fems". I know, I said we played with loads.... but we played with friends, it just so happens that they are single, bi, and female lol. Stop chasing labels, it never ends well. Get out their, make friends, and see what happens.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With so many couples,men even women the unicorn has the so many to pick from.
We have been lucky that we have met 4 since being on here when we first started out. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not from Wales but this attracted my attention as I am one of those elusive single bi fems
So to give you insight my inbox receives ALOT of new entries everyday i wouldn't like to put a number on it but needless to say I'm no supermodel but I can afford to be choosey
Sometimes all the attention is overwhelming and you just can't keep up with who's who
Also as the 1 who is single and honestly the most vulnerable in situations like this a time pressure of where and when can get alarm bells ringing.
Just be respectful with the right balance of naughtiness and mindful you won't be the only 1 interested and her time is precious and 1 day it will happen
Rhe |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think who ever or what ever you are looking for on here takes time. I am a fussy cow but will not change that just to meet some one. I think the old saying is apt... Good things come to those who wait! |
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We've had quite a bit of success with this profile and an old profile in terms of single fems. I always take the time to read their profile and reflect that in messages. If you're pushy alarm bells will start ringing and I'll never start talking about meeting straight away. Sometimes it takes months to eventually meet up but it's well worth it. A real flexible approach is needed because not everyone will have the same desires so you talk through them. I had a single fem account myself so I know how mind numbing the messages and requests can be.
I will often suggest a social meet first and if there's nothing there, then it's no pressure and we will just have a laugh and I make them fully aware of that. Or if they want to go away and think about it, that's great too.
Going to the organised socials as someone suggested is key too because it gives others on the circuit a flavour of you.
Rhi xxx |
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"Not from Wales but this attracted my attention as I am one of those elusive single bi fems
So to give you insight my inbox receives ALOT of new entries everyday i wouldn't like to put a number on it but needless to say I'm no supermodel but I can afford to be choosey
Sometimes all the attention is overwhelming and you just can't keep up with who's who
Also as the 1 who is single and honestly the most vulnerable in situations like this a time pressure of where and when can get alarm bells ringing.
Just be respectful with the right balance of naughtiness and mindful you won't be the only 1 interested and her time is precious and 1 day it will happen
Rhe"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's another thread like this running, this is our reply, it fits... This again? Some comments about "we tried for years" etc. Unicorns, hens teeth... jeez. I don't know if its just that Welsh girls are hornier, and meet more, but we find bi girls easy to play with, we have met loads. However, we don't play with "single bi fems". I know, I said we played with loads.... but we played with friends, it just so happens that they are single, bi, and female lol. Stop chasing labels, it never ends well. Get out their, make friends, and see what happens.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's hard getting the balance right ...being attracted to both m and f...chemistry ..very often I'll think oooh at the female but then the guy isn't my type or I'll fancy both but the conversation just doesn't flow..
It's difficult both sides of the coin...eager to meet a couple but struggling to find the right ones,xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's hard getting the balance right ...being attracted to both m and f...chemistry ..very often I'll think oooh at the female but then the guy isn't my type"
Makes alot of sense why it can be difficult to get meets! No-one should settle for anything less than what theyre after, couple or the single fem!
We've had a few offers that we havent really pursued because we haven't both been 100%. EVENTUALLY we'll find that person (hopefully  ) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's hard getting the balance right ...being attracted to both m and f...chemistry ..very often I'll think oooh at the female but then the guy isn't my type
Makes alot of sense why it can be difficult to get meets! No-one should settle for anything less than what theyre after, couple or the single fem!
We've had a few offers that we havent really pursued because we haven't both been 100%. EVENTUALLY we'll find that person (hopefully )"
You won't have any trouble with that profile! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's hard getting the balance right ...being attracted to both m and f...chemistry ..very often I'll think oooh at the female but then the guy isn't my type
Makes alot of sense why it can be difficult to get meets! No-one should settle for anything less than what theyre after, couple or the single fem!
We've had a few offers that we havent really pursued because we haven't both been 100%. EVENTUALLY we'll find that person (hopefully )
You won't have any trouble with that profile! "
Haha thanks Nawty!
Still searching for that elusivve first meet as a couple but we've both played before so know the score
We've got some socials coming up soon too (which I recommend everyone goes to!) so it should be a step in the right direction!
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"I think who ever or what ever you are looking for on here takes time. I am a fussy cow but will not change that just to meet some one. I think the old saying is apt... Good things come to those who wait! "
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