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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Firstly, to clarify, this isn't me advertising for a fuck buddy. It's a genuine thread with some questions....
How does someone become a regular fb? Do you ask the question like " will you be my girlfriend? " type of question or does it just happen? What's been your experience?
What, in your eyes, makes the perfect fb?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me it has nothing to do with gf/bf that's something totally different. For me it's a person I've met several times, someone I trust, who knows me Well & I know them, we respect & care for each other & we communicate well.
What makes it different to a gf/bf is we don't socialise or meet outside the scene, we like to enjoy couple fun, parties, clubs n group fun & if either wants to meet others or needs a break we're cool with it because we talk & check out with each other all the time. To be fair I've had my fb for3 years now, so we do know each other well & we share the same outlook. Neither wants a conventional relationship, but we don't always s want to play alone. A good fb relationship takes time, effort & compromise x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"For me it has nothing to do with gf/bf that's something totally different. For me it's a person I've met several times, someone I trust, who knows me Well & I know them, we respect & care for each other & we communicate well.
What makes it different to a gf/bf is we don't socialise or meet outside the scene, we like to enjoy couple fun, parties, clubs n group fun & if either wants to meet others or needs a break we're cool with it because we talk & check out with each other all the time. To be fair I've had my fb for3 years now, so we do know each other well & we share the same outlook. Neither wants a conventional relationship, but we don't always s want to play alone. A good fb relationship takes time, effort & compromise x"
I didn't mean it in a gf/bf sense   I meant more, how do you go about it. As in do you as the question and talk about it or does it just naturally happen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can be either.
Depends on the dynamic between you. It might just be that one of you suggests meeting people together or you have gone to a club or party and ended up playing with others and it has gone well in a spur of the moment thing.
It might be that you discuss together.
Main thing is you both know what the other wants and expects from it like any relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think it's probably a gradual process
If you've met someone you get along with and have met a few times and played together and with others while together then it sort of happens naturally
The biggest problem seems to be emotions and that's something I think that gets in the way
As your not actually dating playing one or the other tends to have more feelings than the other which then becomes an issue
The whole issue is to me is a very difficult one as without some sort of understanding between both people and even then feelings change !!! It becomes messy as we have all seen if you've been on here a while |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I think it's probably a gradual process
If you've met someone you get along with and have met a few times and played together and with others while together then it sort of happens naturally
The biggest problem seems to be emotions and that's something I think that gets in the way
As your not actually dating playing one or the other tends to have more feelings than the other which then becomes an issue
The whole issue is to me is a very difficult one as without some sort of understanding between both people and even then feelings change !!! It becomes messy as we have all seen if you've been on here a while "
Very true! I just wondered what people's views were on it x |
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