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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I regularly get messages from hot as fuck men who I see as "too hot for me." There is one guy in particular who I have spoken to off and on for quite a long time and he is adamant he wants to meet me but I just look at him and think he could have any women he wanted, why me?? I am no stunner, could do with shifting a few stone and my life seems to revolve around my kids and work atm with hardly any free time to meet. I don't have confidence issues as such but I do seem to have this thing in my head atm about why the fuck are men who I see as "out of my league" wanting to meet me. Ah well....got that off my chest.... back to the 'Bow   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get this too. I have confidence issues and always think they must be taking the piss. Yet all the guys I'd like to play with who ain't exactly God's gifts turn me down lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I regularly get messages from hot as fuck men who I see as "too hot for me." There is one guy in particular who I have spoken to off and on for quite a long time and he is adamant he wants to meet me but I just look at him and think he could have any women he wanted, why me?? I am no stunner, could do with shifting a few stone and my life seems to revolve around my kids and work atm with hardly any free time to meet. I don't have confidence issues as such but I do seem to have this thing in my head atm about why the fuck are men who I see as "out of my league" wanting to meet me. Ah well....got that off my chest.... back to the 'Bow "
You are not alone in having those thoughts about why would they want to be with me....
Someone I had a very brief chat to about it just said because it a their choice to be with you and you should accept it not do as I did and start with wouldn't you rather be with....
You have a lot of great qualities so accept that he wants to meet you and just go for it. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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And as I realised recently after going to my first social and not drinking, I have a lot more confidence after a few pints. Maybe I will ask him to meet me in the pub  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think its a natural trait of human nature that we always put ourselves down and think something is not good enough for us or we dont deserve it .. but thats where the alpha male or female comes in and says fook it i am worthy ... never know till you try i say .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And as I realised recently after going to my first social and not drinking, I have a lot more confidence after a few pints. Maybe I will ask him to meet me in the pub "
You don't need a drink to good company or be yourself.
Would it help if I said I think you are out of my league? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Snap miss p I'm exactly the same.
That's why I don't meet your so called fitties
I go for what I think I could pull on a night out
But after a few beers I think im a super model and will approach these fitties hahaahah |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love all kinds of men but this one is probably as near to my ideal man (physically anyway) that I've ever spoken to on here"
Well go for it biatch
What's the worst he can say??? |
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"I love all kinds of men but this one is probably as near to my ideal man (physically anyway) that I've ever spoken to on here"
Sounds like you should arrange a social with him and see what happens |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I love all kinds of men but this one is probably as near to my ideal man (physically anyway) that I've ever spoken to on here
Sounds like you should arrange a social with him and see what happens "
Message me who it is and I will get him to the singles social |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Go for it!!!!!! He's interested in you if you've been in contact that long!
I get what you mean though. I get it too..all the time...I pulled out of meets because of it and vanilla dates. .but it's daft..
My biggest one is because I go for the muscly loom. .body builders etc I think why would they want to go with someone overweight but every one has said similar..that just because they are athletic / fit doesn't mean they go for same..lots have said they like my smile/character etc etc ... they no doubt have seen how infectious your personality is and like your curves! You have to go!
Two years ago I blew out a guy because he was "too fit" and it turned out to be one if my biggest mistakes ...
Go for it girly!!!! Xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We all get the same insecurities, but after 6 years here & ongoing fun with some of the fittest guys about I've ceased to analyse it. If they want to have fun & I do as well I go in with the initial mindset that its a one off & once they've seen me at my grungiest I reckon they won't be back. Invariably they do come back & I'm not going to think too long n hard about why, so long as we're pleasing each other who cares. MissP you are one very sexy lady & more to the point one of the most naturally sexy women I've met in a long long time. Now go ride him like a tiger  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Go for it!!!!!! He's interested in you if you've been in contact that long!
I get what you mean though. I get it too..all the time...I pulled out of meets because of it and vanilla dates. .but it's daft..
My biggest one is because I go for the muscly loom. .body builders etc I think why would they want to go with someone overweight but every one has said similar..that just because they are athletic / fit doesn't mean they go for same..lots have said they like my smile/character etc etc ... they no doubt have seen how infectious your personality is and like your curves! You have to go!
Two years ago I blew out a guy because he was "too fit" and it turned out to be one if my biggest mistakes ...
Go for it girly!!!! Xx "
we go for the same types missy - just enjoy abc go for it Hun. xxx |
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i have met you a couple of times before socials, before we all have had to many drinks, and as already has been you are a fun, bubbly and very sexy lady.
and if you think they are out of your league, it is because you are in a higher division and done be afraid to allow these guys and me to be promoted their with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I regularly get messages from hot as fuck men who I see as "too hot for me." There is one guy in particular who I have spoken to off and on for quite a long time and he is adamant he wants to meet me but I just look at him and think he could have any women he wanted, why me?? I am no stunner, could do with shifting a few stone and my life seems to revolve around my kids and work atm with hardly any free time to meet. I don't have confidence issues as such but I do seem to have this thing in my head atm about why the fuck are men who I see as "out of my league" wanting to meet me. Ah well....got that off my chest.... back to the 'Bow "
I am totally with you on this one |
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I guess we all get the same thoughts, im not the best looking guy and im no where near muscly but still try and talk to people who i think are "out of my league". If you dont ask you dont get, and you may never know what the outcome could be nothing ventured nothing gained good luck x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly it seems that age and body size is the main criteria on here. but when it comes down to a good meet that does not count.
Its all about the person to me (Buck) and have had rubbish sex from so called "hot" or large people and anything in between also great sex so just be yourselves and give people a chance that you wouldn't normally go for.
You might be surprised. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a lady on a sort of blind date off pof.when she turned up my jaw hit the floor she was stunning and much younger than me.
I thought oh well this is gona be a waste of time shes way out of my league.but we chatted all night constant and seemed to get on.
4 mths on im still seeing this gorgeous lady! So guess morale is have some confidence in your all round package not just looks attract people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I regularly get messages from hot as fuck men who I see as "too hot for me." There is one guy in particular who I have spoken to off and on for quite a long time and he is adamant he wants to meet me but I just look at him and think he could have any women he wanted, why me?? I am no stunner, could do with shifting a few stone and my life seems to revolve around my kids and work atm with hardly any free time to meet. I don't have confidence issues as such but I do seem to have this thing in my head atm about why the fuck are men who I see as "out of my league" wanting to meet me. Ah well....got that off my chest.... back to the 'Bow "
I'm with you on this and I often wonder why
I'm in a situation atm where I've been chatting for months but will not meet thinking the same
You go for it hun plenty who knows you here says nothing but good about
So not everyone can be wrong
go for it lol
I'll be watching this space hehehe  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Meet him op! If you have hit it off why worry! I used to have a lot of hang ups about my weight then one day I thought fuck it!! I'm a sexy woman and have no shortage in male attention! If there is a hot guy to be had then have him and enjoy!!! |
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We've had similar thoughts ourselves, lately. A few smoking hot couples have made contact with us and have asked to meet. We do the online equivalent of looking behind us, looking back and pointing at ourselves. 'Who, us?'
As others have said, OP, just roll with it. Nothing ventured ... |
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By *irt jnrCouple
over a year ago
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"I regularly get messages from hot as fuck men who I see as "too hot for me." There is one guy in particular who I have spoken to off and on for quite a long time and he is adamant he wants to meet me but I just look at him and think he could have any women he wanted, why me?? I am no stunner, could do with shifting a few stone and my life seems to revolve around my kids and work atm with hardly any free time to meet. I don't have confidence issues as such but I do seem to have this thing in my head atm about why the fuck are men who I see as "out of my league" wanting to meet me. Ah well....got that off my chest.... back to the 'Bow "
It's definatly a confidence thing. I just looked at your pics and 2 thoughts came in to my head straight away: 1 OMG This lady is smoking hot, and 2: forget it son, she's way out of your league.
So you see you are not on your own.
I guess if they are actively trying to meet you, they are varified and appear genuine, then it is, genuine.
Happy Swinging.
Warren |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Meet him op! If you have hit it off why worry! I used to have a lot of hang ups about my weight then one day I thought fuck it!! I'm a sexy woman and have no shortage in male attention! If there is a hot guy to be had then have him and enjoy!!! "
This!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr "
And I love you for it |
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr "
Don't be so hard on yourself. Both you and your mrs are lush!! xx |
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr
And I love you for it "
Loves you too we due to get pissed miss p lovely x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr
Don't be so hard on yourself. Both you and your mrs are lush!! xx "
This . Fucking love Mr n Mrs Filthys to bits |
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr
Don't be so hard on yourself. Both you and your mrs are lush!! xx
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Thank you xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr
And I love you for it
Loves you too we due to get pissed miss p lovely x"
Newport?? |
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr
And I love you for it
Loves you too we due to get pissed miss p lovely x
Newport??"
Yes I suppose I could get d*unk at Newport if you insist pml |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Now this may sound bad but I know I'm no looker but I will try my luck sober or after a drink I always thought if I don't ask I don't get x
Mr
And I love you for it
Loves you too we due to get pissed miss p lovely x
Newport??
Yes I suppose I could get d*unk at Newport if you insist pml "
Good....be lost without my smoking butty |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I thought that about stax before meeting him. 
For a split second I thought awwwww how sweet n then I clicked that you meant once you met me you no longer thought that lol "
Aww christ I am buckled by here |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought that about stax before meeting him.
For a split second I thought awwwww how sweet n then I clicked that you meant once you met me you no longer thought that lol "
Hehe hehe! !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I thought that about stax before meeting him.
For a split second I thought awwwww how sweet n then I clicked that you meant once you met me you no longer thought that lol
Aww christ I am buckled by here "
Creased also. |
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"I thought that about stax before meeting him.
For a split second I thought awwwww how sweet n then I clicked that you meant once you met me you no longer thought that lol "
Nope then It was "f**k he's hot...whys he even talking to me!"  |
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"I thought that about stax before meeting him.
For a split second I thought awwwww how sweet n then I clicked that you meant once you met me you no longer thought that lol
Nope then It was "f**k he's hot...whys he even talking to me!" "
Then you talked about that dream you had about....Ears and Apples!
And snorting Apple juice!
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"I'm the same I have a very little self confidence but when I've had a few drinks I think I can have anyone but u shouldnt think like that u should be able to have whoever u want he obviously likes the look and sound of u I haven't met u but u seem like a gorgeous girl from what I've read so go for it or u may regret it and good luck if u do xx
Mrs"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Reality check
It's because it's a swingers site, the meet means sex without the hard work
No one knows about it so there's no need to worry about anything |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"This is reason why said hotties don't go to socials or big gatherings, it's sex they are after"
Oh I dunno....I have seen a few "said hotties" especially at Newport....then again that may be the cider goggles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"missp and lush yer i am way to hot for you two sorry"
That's not what you said earlier twat
When you took me shopping and told me how super hot I looked |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I think life's to short
So from now on we should just feel comfortable with ourselves and if we like the look of someone just go for it x"
I agree with lush |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I regularly get messages from hot as fuck men who I see as "too hot for me." There is one guy in particular who I have spoken to off and on for quite a long time and he is adamant he wants to meet me but I just look at him and think he could have any women he wanted, why me?? I am no stunner, could do with shifting a few stone and my life seems to revolve around my kids and work atm with hardly any free time to meet. I don't have confidence issues as such but I do seem to have this thing in my head atm about why the fuck are men who I see as "out of my league" wanting to meet me. Ah well....got that off my chest.... back to the 'Bow "
I'd love to share a Bow or two with you Miss P, but you're out of MY league I think...hey ho, a bloke can dream... |
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So stop putting yourself down n go get him tiger 