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over a year ago
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99% of the time we plan in advance because of work and family. If we know we are gonna be free we usually start looking about a week in advance. We like the build up to the meet and find that adds to the excitement  |
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over a year ago
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I've always planned, but this week for the 1st time I did a spur of the moment meet which went really well. Don't think I'd make a habit of it though, too stressful x |
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over a year ago
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Better to plan but not into too much detail, would be like being told what a birthday present is before you open.
Some 'cover the basics' quick then meet, can be cool though.
Depends how you feel with a person (or how fecking horny you are) |
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"Better to plan but not into too much detail, would be like being told what a birthday present is before you open.
Some 'cover the basics' quick then meet, can be cool though.
Depends how you feel with a person (or how fecking horny you are)"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done both - my first ever mmf was a spur of the moment and to be fair I loved it!
I'm very picky and I've been lucky with majority of planned meets as I like to take my time and build up that anticipation. Only had one shocker! |
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over a year ago
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I've done both. Depends ont the mood really.
Spur of the moment can be really good, as its you both / all want something right there and there and then and it is more primal in some ways.
Planned meets have more anticipation, more tease for the build up and generally a more intense release when it goes well.
Of course spur of the moment with someone you had seen as a planned meet before shouldn't be missed the best of both, you know what you are getting way they like and you are all wanting it right now. |
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Throwing our tuppence in.... we always do planned but more so on the basis of getting to know someone first here and on kik/viber/whats app etc. Also spontaneous not always practical with kids work etc. Think once you get to know someone and meet them then as the previous poster says spontaneous meets can work. But hey like everything about life and the microcosm of the site everyone is different and as long as we respect each others wishes and be the people we say we are on here then no reason not to have fun either way. |
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The only spur of the moment meets I've had have been with existing friends 
Otherwise I find that it takes time to get to know someone, and single women especially like to be reassured that they're not going to be meeting a psycho  |
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