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over a year ago
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Don't forget guys, all well and good having safe fun but you can never be too safe - get yourself checked regular 
Writing this whilst waiting for my screening in the gum clinic... Dreading the 'so how many sexual partners have you had' question.
Hope she doesn't roll her eyes at me haha. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh I wanna go for the shock factor and ask if they'll supply protection for the camp... You know, well I've got up to 100 swingers coming to a party and well it's my birthday too so, you know 
I don't think they're that broad minded in the Rhondda haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Oh I wanna go for the shock factor and ask if they'll supply protection for the camp... You know, well I've got up to 100 swingers coming to a party and well it's my birthday too so, you know
I don't think they're that broad minded in the Rhondda haha "
what party ???  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"lol it would be fun
Oh if your all clear wanna come to a party round mine weekend
Haha. Entry upon clear results text?"
Ha ha you show me your text and il show you mine |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder how often fab members bump into each other at the clinic, 
I'm due to go next month. Should make a social out of it  "
Yeah I'd do that lol
Wouldn't be the first time I have been there with people off fab lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just go anyway
It doesn't hurt lol
Exactly, I play safe but still better to check "
I might pop to Swansea next week as I have nothing to do lol
Anyone fancy a social ha ha |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Far too many don't got for a MOT it's shocking!
Many also fail to realise you can catch things by oral too.
Staff are always friendly and never judge! They've seen and heard it all before. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely agree
I've spoke to loads of people on here and when you mention the orally part they seem shocked
But i wouldn't trust anyone unless I saw the text
How many people could know write
Yeah I've had my text lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The texts are easy to forward to regular playmates as proof you're taking your sexual health seriously. I've even taken guys to the clinic with me for their 1st time. It amazes me how many in this scene are too scared to go x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No better fun than safe fun and no safer feeling than knowing you're going down on something that's not potentially riddled with harmful infections and diseases haha.
I'd rather play with somebody that makes the effort to assure they have nothing harmful or potentially life threatening to me and are fearless in being able to talk about it too.
So easy to catch somebody out that doesn't get tested anyway
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous "
Too true!
But even the safest of people can catch things, there are some you can catch by skin contact alone, It's good being safe but you can never be too safe and I couldn't live with myself if I passed something on to somebody.
I know most are treated with a day or three days of medication but still... The bad ones are with you for life, and HIV isn't just for bendy men!
My goal in life is to never catch anything and so far so bloody good |
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous
Too true!
But even the safest of people can catch things, there are some you can catch by skin contact alone, It's good being safe but you can never be too safe and I couldn't live with myself if I passed something on to somebody.
I know most are treated with a day or three days of medication but still... The bad ones are with you for life, and HIV isn't just for bendy men!
My goal in life is to never catch anything and so far so bloody good "
I might dig my hazmat suit out of the attic,
"Can never be too safe" |
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous
Too true!
But even the safest of people can catch things, there are some you can catch by skin contact alone, It's good being safe but you can never be too safe and I couldn't live with myself if I passed something on to somebody.
I know most are treated with a day or three days of medication but still... The bad ones are with you for life, and HIV isn't just for bendy men!
My goal in life is to never catch anything and so far so bloody good
I might dig my hazmat suit out of the attic,
"Can never be too safe" "
No need to be silly about it, just being realistic - I see no joy in protected oral personally but everybody on here should be looking after and assuring they're as safe as they can be.
Use a rubber for penitration at a minimum and have regular health checks is all that's needed, a lot fail to do both!
If 30 people on here had let's say syphilis, and each of them had sex with 30 people in a year - that's 900 people potentially infected. That's without who those 30 people then have sex with.
Those stats alone should prompt people to go have a simple blood test and a few swabs. |
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous
Too true!
But even the safest of people can catch things, there are some you can catch by skin contact alone, It's good being safe but you can never be too safe and I couldn't live with myself if I passed something on to somebody.
I know most are treated with a day or three days of medication but still... The bad ones are with you for life, and HIV isn't just for bendy men!
My goal in life is to never catch anything and so far so bloody good
I might dig my hazmat suit out of the attic,
"Can never be too safe"
No need to be silly about it, just being realistic - I see no joy in protected oral personally but everybody on here should be looking after and assuring they're as safe as they can be.
Use a rubber for penitration at a minimum and have regular health checks is all that's needed, a lot fail to do both!
If 30 people on here had let's say syphilis, and each of them had sex with 30 people in a year - that's 900 people potentially infected. That's without who those 30 people then have sex with.
Those stats alone should prompt people to go have a simple blood test and a few swabs."
You'll have to excuse my humour, I'm too much of an immature comedian at times
Onto a serious note you do raise a lot of good points, there was a similar story in Africa where a college student was given HIV, which in turn spread like wild fire to 300 cases approx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous
Too true!
But even the safest of people can catch things, there are some you can catch by skin contact alone, It's good being safe but you can never be too safe and I couldn't live with myself if I passed something on to somebody.
I know most are treated with a day or three days of medication but still... The bad ones are with you for life, and HIV isn't just for bendy men!
My goal in life is to never catch anything and so far so bloody good
I might dig my hazmat suit out of the attic,
"Can never be too safe"
No need to be silly about it, just being realistic - I see no joy in protected oral personally but everybody on here should be looking after and assuring they're as safe as they can be.
Use a rubber for penitration at a minimum and have regular health checks is all that's needed, a lot fail to do both!
If 30 people on here had let's say syphilis, and each of them had sex with 30 people in a year - that's 900 people potentially infected. That's without who those 30 people then have sex with.
Those stats alone should prompt people to go have a simple blood test and a few swabs."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous
Too true!
But even the safest of people can catch things, there are some you can catch by skin contact alone, It's good being safe but you can never be too safe and I couldn't live with myself if I passed something on to somebody.
I know most are treated with a day or three days of medication but still... The bad ones are with you for life, and HIV isn't just for bendy men!
My goal in life is to never catch anything and so far so bloody good
I might dig my hazmat suit out of the attic,
"Can never be too safe"
No need to be silly about it, just being realistic - I see no joy in protected oral personally but everybody on here should be looking after and assuring they're as safe as they can be.
Use a rubber for penitration at a minimum and have regular health checks is all that's needed, a lot fail to do both!
If 30 people on here had let's say syphilis, and each of them had sex with 30 people in a year - that's 900 people potentially infected. That's without who those 30 people then have sex with.
Those stats alone should prompt people to go have a simple blood test and a few swabs."
do you think it's going to make a difference posting it in here? I don't.
I worry about my own actions and my own health. Whatever anyone else chooses to do is up to them. Most of the welsh swingers who use the forums have been here for a long time and know the drill, without being preached to about safe sex!
You are just as likely to catch something from a non fab member as fab member. If anything, I'd go so far as to say vanilla people are more likely to play unsafe.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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It's hardly preaching, just stating facts, if my post prompted one person to go get checked who maybe hasn't or a newbie to fab or whatever then one less of a potential risk to others for the short term.
I've been asked to have unsafe sex on here many times so not all follow a practice that's good for everybody.
And as you pointed out correctly beyond here too. |
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"I've told people in past I get tested and they think it's because your a slag
My attitude is no I'm just keeping myself safe and gives me that peace of mind knowing I'm ok
I will be honest thou it feels like your waiting forever when your waiting for that text and I always get nervous
Too true!
But even the safest of people can catch things, there are some you can catch by skin contact alone, It's good being safe but you can never be too safe and I couldn't live with myself if I passed something on to somebody.
I know most are treated with a day or three days of medication but still... The bad ones are with you for life, and HIV isn't just for bendy men!
My goal in life is to never catch anything and so far so bloody good
I might dig my hazmat suit out of the attic,
"Can never be too safe"
No need to be silly about it, just being realistic - I see no joy in protected oral personally but everybody on here should be looking after and assuring they're as safe as they can be.
Use a rubber for penitration at a minimum and have regular health checks is all that's needed, a lot fail to do both!
If 30 people on here had let's say syphilis, and each of them had sex with 30 people in a year - that's 900 people potentially infected. That's without who those 30 people then have sex with.
Those stats alone should prompt people to go have a simple blood test and a few swabs.
You'll have to excuse my humour, I'm too much of an immature comedian at times
Onto a serious note you do raise a lot of good points, there was a similar story in Africa where a college student was given HIV, which in turn spread like wild fire to 300 cases approx
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Shocking isn't it. And the reason people should have concern for their own sexual health.
My friend has a crazy attitude towards sex and that he assumed everybody to have STI's - now he's a guy that preaches |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't forget guys, all well and good having safe fun but you can never be too safe - get yourself checked regular
Writing this whilst waiting for my screening in the gum clinic... Dreading the 'so how many sexual partners have you had' question.
Hope she doesn't roll her eyes at me haha. "
where's the "facts" in that?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Don't forget guys, all well and good having safe fun but you can never be too safe - get yourself checked regular
Writing this whilst waiting for my screening in the gum clinic... Dreading the 'so how many sexual partners have you had' question.
Hope she doesn't roll her eyes at me haha. where's the "facts" in that? "
May I suggest reading the whole thread where facts have been pointed out and people have shared their views and experiences.
I don't see why you've come onto a thread to pick holes in something that isn't in any way damaging, discriminative or anything bad to anybody.
It's a post about ME and MY trip to a gun clinic about MY sexual health and just so happens I take it seriously and feel OTHERS should too. |
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