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over a year ago
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Like peachy has said socials are a good way of getting yourself verified. Have a look in the forum there is a singles social being held next month.. the other social events you need 2 verifications in order to attend x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Or you could just go in the chat room and go on cam and talk to people and maybe someone will verify you
It's hard getting veris these days as you can't attend most of the socials without a veri
But a lot of people won't meet until someone has one
Catch 22
Try putting up a meet or seeing what's I. The meet section
Maybe you could meet someone for a coffee or a drink and go from there
Good luck x |
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over a year ago
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"Socials are the best way to go.
Plenty going on in S Wales and you can show your true personality  "
Yeah but you can't attend socials without veris these days |
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Lots of people are having to meet socially for a coffee and chat so keep looking.
My suggestion would also be have a bit more text in your profile and some public pics as people are more likely to reply to you then
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"Socials are the best way to go.
Plenty going on in S Wales and you can show your true personality
Yeah but you can't attend socials without veris these days "
Sounds like they're running a closed club (don't mention the C word !)
Yeah, I get it, only trustworthy, reliable folks, and after the recent "Outings" and Press interest, I can't really blame them  |
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"Socials are the best way to go.
Plenty going on in S Wales and you can show your true personality
Yeah but you can't attend socials without veris these days
Sounds like they're running a closed club (don't mention the C word !)
Yeah, I get it, only trustworthy, reliable folks, and after the recent "Outings" and Press interest, I can't really blame them "
The singles social I do you dint need veris.
That's why I started them so single people could attend a social without veris  |
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Going back a few months ago, before one of the Newport socials, over a few weeks I had messages off single guys asking to attend the social. No verifications. So I was prepared to give a Sunday up, arranged to meet for a social in a public place for a drink. 10 single guys said yes, great, put their names down, sounded really convincing saying they would be there as they want to attend organised socials etc. but guess what, NONE turned up, some cancelled on the day others just never even bothered to show. The only ones there, were myself, hubby, 2 cpls who are very good friends of ours and a newbie couple. We even spoke with the manager and he gave us a section of the pub. Imagine if us organisers added them and they never showed. That's taking 10 spaces off single men who are genuine, as single guy spaces do tend to become limited. I no all single men shouldn't be tarred with the same brush, but it is some arse wipes who give them a bad name, and it's not fair as the majority of them are lovely  |
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I ve just had a message asking can I veri them as he put it he d get to meet other hot females after meeting me ( thank you for saying that ) but really no - no meet or social no veri end of - then I got a barrage of abuse " another to the block list "
Guys no meet no veri end of |
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I have offered to meet single guys just for a coffee in town so they can get verified. When they realised it was just a coffee they weren't interested then. Can't help some people... |
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"I have offered to meet single guys just for a coffee in town so they can get verified. When they realised it was just a coffee they weren't interested then. Can't help some people... "
This happens all the time but I stick with it because every now n then you find a nice guy x |
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It boils down to how much effort you put into your profile, and how much effort you're willing to put in to the social side of things.
A LOT of single guys think it's instashag and the women will be falling all over them.
ps Wasn't having a go at any social organisers
Having done the Cardiff MidWeekers last year I know exactly how hard it is and the amount of crap any organiser has to put up with  |
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"I have offered to meet single guys just for a coffee in town so they can get verified. When they realised it was just a coffee they weren't interested then. Can't help some people... "
Yup. Even guys with veri's expect play straight off these days. Or worse chase me for months then when I finally give them a chance they duck out as they've only got 40 mins and literally want a suck and go. What the actual fuck is going on lately.  |
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The biggest piss off for me lately is the amount of guys who are purely motivated by the ffm, since when has that been a starting point? Surely the 1:1 & enjoying that should be the priority. I know I'm never going to recommend a random guy, I've never met to friends & for me, it has to be my choice to involve a guy in fun with my friends.
New guys nowadays seem to be on a fast track with no thought for mutual fun & satisfaction x |
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"It boils down to how much effort you put into your profile, and how much effort you're willing to put in to the social side of things.
A LOT of single guys think it's instashag and the women will be falling all over them.
ps Wasn't having a go at any social organisers
Having done the Cardiff MidWeekers last year I know exactly how hard it is and the amount of crap any organiser has to put up with "
i know you weren't having a pop at us organisers xx |
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"I have offered to meet single guys just for a coffee in town so they can get verified. When they realised it was just a coffee they weren't interested then. Can't help some people...
Yup. Even guys with veri's expect play straight off these days. Or worse chase me for months then when I finally give them a chance they duck out as they've only got 40 mins and literally want a suck and go. What the actual fuck is going on lately. "
Your guess is as good as any..when we went to the mid week social there were about 10/15 single guys that didn't turn up x |
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"I have offered to meet single guys just for a coffee in town so they can get verified. When they realised it was just a coffee they weren't interested then. Can't help some people...
Yup. Even guys with veri's expect play straight off these days. Or worse chase me for months then when I finally give them a chance they duck out as they've only got 40 mins and literally want a suck and go. What the actual fuck is going on lately.
Your guess is as good as any..when we went to the mid week social there were about 10/15 single guys that didn't turn up x"
Last single social I done I think if I remember right 36 single guys didn't turn up or even bother to message me to say they were not coming
But I stick at them as there are quiet a few gems out there |
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No guts no glory.
Thats what single males and some "supposed" couples should get taught.
Ive been here a long time, and it never bothered me having lots of veri's, as I have made the effort to make sure lots know me either by word of mouth or at events etc
What's the point in not turning up? Easy, they can't handle rejection.
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"The biggest piss off for me lately is the amount of guys who are purely motivated by the ffm, since when has that been a starting point? Surely the 1:1 & enjoying that should be the priority. I know I'm never going to recommend a random guy, I've never met to friends & for me, it has to be my choice to involve a guy in fun with my friends.
New guys nowadays seem to be on a fast track with no thought for mutual fun & satisfaction x"
Well said Peacy...the word MUTUAL is the bit most simply just don't understand.
It's a shame, as the selfish quick-fix brigade make life so difficult for the rest of us who DO understand that fun and satisfaction is a two-way street. |
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