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Have I got anything to be nervous about?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Been on here a while now but still haven't been to any socials or made a visit to chams yet due to the fact I am really nervous and not sure what to expect, do I have to be nervous? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ye I get that vibe Hun but still doesn't stop me being nervous lol I'm a newbie and probably come across too eager in messages etc which I don't mean too and hardly get replies but it's my own fault so that's probably what's making me more nervous   lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Ye I get that vibe Hun but still doesn't stop me being nervous lol I'm a newbie and probably come across too eager in messages etc which I don't mean too and hardly get replies but it's my own fault so that's probably what's making me more nervous lol"
Well you have nothing to be nervous about with the socials because there are no expectations of you as no playing happens there anyway. There are a number of single people who attend and we have met newbies in a pub near the location and took them in so they don't need to go in alone.
Club scene I couldn't comment on for a single male. I just know it's very expensive for you to get into the club.
Little miss giggles runs the single social which you may consider looking at. Newport social is 30th of the month which is.one of the busiest social events x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I went to chams for the first time the other week. I was nervous as well, which is only natural.. The best way I can describe it is it's a bit like getting your first tattoo.
Everyone can tell you what it's like, but you have to experience it for yourself. And when you do go, it's nowhere near as painful as you thought it was gonna be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x"
We are always more than happy to meet anyone new so they don't have to go into the venue alone xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Exactly what Mike said.
Like anything new you can read up on it, ask questions and all that but unless you just grab the bull by the horns you'll never know.
In my experience you really have nothing to worry about, mostly everybody is friendly, just be respectful and friendly back and you'll stand well and be enjoy and wonder later why you were nervous. |
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"Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x
We are always more than happy to meet anyone new so they don't have to go into the venue alone xx"
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As lick says always happy to meet newbies b4 the social, as a single I'm shy all the time, but plenty of room in the dark corner lol |
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"Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x
We are always more than happy to meet anyone new so they don't have to go into the venue alone xxw
As lick says always happy to meet newbies b4 the social, as a single I'm shy all the time, but plenty of room in the dark corner lol "
shy u apps when???i missed that lol .. mwah xx  |
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"Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x
We are always more than happy to meet anyone new so they don't have to go into the venue alone xxw
As lick says always happy to meet newbies b4 the social, as a single I'm shy all the time, but plenty of room in the dark corner lol shy u apps when???i missed that lol .. mwah xx "
Lol it was back last week someone asked me for my phone number as I was leaving a club,, I went all shy,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x
We are always more than happy to meet anyone new so they don't have to go into the venue alone xxw
As lick says always happy to meet newbies b4 the social, as a single I'm shy all the time, but plenty of room in the dark corner lol "
Shy? When?
But we all know what you do in dark corners  |
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"Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x
We are always more than happy to meet anyone new so they don't have to go into the venue alone xxw
As lick says always happy to meet newbies b4 the social, as a single I'm shy all the time, but plenty of room in the dark corner lol shy u apps when???i missed that lol .. mwah xx
Lol it was back last week someone asked me for my phone number as I was leaving a club,, I went all shy,, "
That's a fucking first!!!! You have NEVER EVER been shy!!!
As your book suggests..... Lol  |
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"Go to the singles social in June. There'll be lots of people in the same boat  "
I was you ten months ago, mister nervous then went to my first single's social and wham bam i'm addicted to this haha. Seriously fella there is nothing to worry about in this scene i have honestly met some of the nicest and most down to earth people i have ever met, your be fine just be respectful your do well here. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the singles social in June. There'll be lots of people in the same boat
I was you ten months ago, mister nervous then went to my first single's social and wham bam i'm addicted to this haha. Seriously fella there is nothing to worry about in this scene i have honestly met some of the nicest and most down to earth people i have ever met, your be fine just be respectful your do well here. "
 I can honestly say that since attending my first social 6 months ago that I have made some true friends here who will be friends for life. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I think most people were the same, I walked into a pub in newport to meet the organisers of the social all on my lonesome as they were all tucking into there steak and chips and 2 hrs later walked into the social all on my lonesome only knowing one person when I.walked in...5hrs later I was walking out with 3 couples and ended up have one of the best sexual nights I've had.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think most people were the same, I walked into a pub in newport to meet the organisers of the social all on my lonesome as they were all tucking into there steak and chips and 2 hrs later walked into the social all on my lonesome only knowing one person when I.walked in...5hrs later I was walking out with 3 couples and ended up have one of the best sexual nights I've had.. "
Hey you found me eventually at one point in the night..x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Go to the singles social in June. There'll be lots of people in the same boat
I was you ten months ago, mister nervous then went to my first single's social and wham bam i'm addicted to this haha. Seriously fella there is nothing to worry about in this scene i have honestly met some of the nicest and most down to earth people i have ever met, your be fine just be respectful your do well here. "
You got addicted to the #teamginger babe xxx
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes that's true Lol"
Hopefully if you go this time you will come talk to us a little more lol. But then again you had been on the piss all day last time lol xx |
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"Thanks Hun I think that might a good option to get to know some people on here so I could maybe tag along to make me feel a little less nervous!
Ye I've heard the clubs are expensive to single males x
We are always more than happy to meet anyone new so they don't have to go into the venue alone xxw
As lick says always happy to meet newbies b4 the social, as a single I'm shy all the time, but plenty of room in the dark corner lol
Shy? When?
But we all know what you do in dark corners "
Yep stand there with all the str8 'ish' shy people lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Most people are nervous before that first visit. My first visit (and that was as a couple) we were both physically shaking. My advice would be definitely go with no expectations and allow yourself the luxury of if you dont like it you go home. Absolutely no pressure then. Enjoy! |
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