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By *iffidus OP Man
over a year ago
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Do you think men are cowards in general? I'm not talking about fighting here. For example I've been casually seeing a woman for a couple of months outside of fab and I wanted to stop seeing her and it took me the last two or three weeks to summon up the courage to tell her I didn't wanna see her anymore but as soon as I did it was like a weight lifted lol. I stayed in a marriage I should have left years earlier again before I found the bottle to leave. In my experience woman are far more ruthless in telling you you've had your chips it's over lol.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm not.... I stayed in two shot relationships. .first one out of guilt I couldn't do it to him ...relieved as soon as I did. .
There are very often circumstances that prevent you from doing it. .for me it was the guilt of breaking up family...x |
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yes men are afraid when breaking up with someone, but not just because of cowards.
being caring and knowing you can be hurting someone. i grass greener, cold feet, being alone, not knowing future other reason too |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My sister finished with her partner back last year, took her ages to get the guts to do it, and because he was pissed at the time he totally forgot by the next morning and was carrying on as normal and she had to do it all over again. I was fucking howling laughing  |
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By *iffidus OP Man
over a year ago
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"My sister finished with her partner back last year, took her ages to get the guts to do it, and because he was pissed at the time he totally forgot by the next morning and was carrying on as normal and she had to do it all over again. I was fucking howling laughing "
Lmfao. What a nightmare. U over yesterday's exploits yet then missp? Back on it again now are ya? Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"My sister finished with her partner back last year, took her ages to get the guts to do it, and because he was pissed at the time he totally forgot by the next morning and was carrying on as normal and she had to do it all over again. I was fucking howling laughing
Lmfao. What a nightmare. U over yesterday's exploits yet then missp? Back on it again now are ya? Xx"
No am off the drink now til next Saturday.... I surpassed myself with last night's behaviour I need to grow the fuck up!!  |
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By *iffidus OP Man
over a year ago
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"My sister finished with her partner back last year, took her ages to get the guts to do it, and because he was pissed at the time he totally forgot by the next morning and was carrying on as normal and she had to do it all over again. I was fucking howling laughing
Lmfao. What a nightmare. U over yesterday's exploits yet then missp? Back on it again now are ya? Xx
No am off the drink now til next Saturday.... I surpassed myself with last night's behaviour I need to grow the fuck up!! "
I saw the status lol x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think that's just having a heart....Some guys haven't.
It's hard letting someone down when they've seemingly done nothing and you are just not feeling it!
On the other hand, if someone hasn't put in the effort/respect you deserve it's easy to drop them....kinda brought it on themselves.
None of its fun though.......being single is just so much easier! Ha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This ^^^^
When you know you deserve better it's time to say ta-ra
Only so many times you can put up with being cheated on...treated like shit etc... you end up losing respect for yourself .. sometimes it takes the other person to do it for you ... and as soon as they do you see the woods through the trees...
Relationships are drama ..although... .. i am trying to work my magic on one guy...I must be mental 
Aw biffy that's lush that your committing to miss p....!
She's doing something right. .. good blowie is she biff??  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This ^^^^
When you know you deserve better it's time to say ta-ra
Only so many times you can put up with being cheated on...treated like shit etc... you end up losing respect for yourself .. sometimes it takes the other person to do it for you ... and as soon as they do you see the woods through the trees...
Relationships are drama ..although... .. i am trying to work my magic on one guy...I must be mental
Aw biffy that's lush that your committing to miss p....!
She's doing something right. .. good blowie is she biff?? "
He's just using me for my money   |
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"My sister finished with her partner back last year, took her ages to get the guts to do it, and because he was pissed at the time he totally forgot by the next morning and was carrying on as normal and she had to do it all over again. I was fucking howling laughing "
That happened to me with my ex. Took another 5 months and endless arguments before I finally put my foot down. |
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"yes men are afraid when breaking up with someone, but not just because of cowards.
being caring and knowing you can be hurting someone. i grass greener, cold feet, being alone, not knowing future other reason too"
Totally agree with u on that  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I put up with a huge amount of shit from my ex of 8 years - I wouldn't say I was a coward, more too forgiving, but that was naturally the way I was at the time, end of the day we'd been together for a long time and been through the world of shit - but then come the time when enough was enough and by fuck did shit hit the fan.
I learned from it though, I'm certainly not so forgiving now, my bollox have grown and I simply take no shit now. |
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