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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago
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This site is confusing the F out of me I'm debating weather to stick it out or or nip the bud lol!
Dunno if I'm the only one feeling like this I'd like to hear you opinions or better still stick a  up if you think I should just give up HAAA!!!!! |
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over a year ago
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4 weeks and verified that's good going considering a lot of guys takes months to get verified ... I guess with this site you get out of it what you put in, maybe go to socials or chams get chatting to people like that then see what happens  |
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"4 weeks and verified that's good going considering a lot of guys takes months to get verified ... I guess with this site you get out of it what you put in, maybe go to socials or chams get chatting to people like that then see what happens "
No onenhas patience these days, its a swinging site not a meet now site as said, socials are they way to go. If you live in rural mid wales you learn patience. Looking forward to my 1sy social next month |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"4 weeks and verified that's good going considering a lot of guys takes months to get verified ... I guess with this site you get out of it what you put in, maybe go to socials or chams get chatting to people like that then see what happens
No onenhas patience these days, its a swinging site not a meet now site as said, socials are they way to go. If you live in rural mid wales you learn patience. Looking forward to my 1sy social next month"
Are you going to Newport social?? i'm hoping it'll be my first social too well as long as they say yes to me |
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Sum pll hav been on here for months or yrs n they havent got no pics or verifies yet. Stick with it hun, a lot of ppl go 2 socials n chams if its there sort of thing, but other just meet women on here by just messaging them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Swansea will be my first, also going Bridgend. Couldnt make Newport away with work. "
ah right abit far away for me for them socials but i'm sure you'll meet loads of fab peeps there |
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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago
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"Sum pll hav been on here for months or yrs n they havent got no pics or verifies yet. Stick with it hun, a lot of ppl go 2 socials n chams if its there sort of thing, but other just meet women on here by just messaging them."
Suppose you right it's just a waiting game lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sum pll hav been on here for months or yrs n they havent got no pics or verifies yet. Stick with it hun, a lot of ppl go 2 socials n chams if its there sort of thing, but other just meet women on here by just messaging them.
Suppose you right it's just a waiting game lol "
try chams one friday night it aint as scary as you think lol keep an eye on the forum for when there are a group of us going |
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Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys "
and your point is???? isn't fab about pretty much the same thing I mean i'm here to push boundries and try new things and if that means going to chams to try it then so be it, its not after all a dating site.  |
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"Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys
and your point is???? isn't fab about pretty much the same thing I mean i'm here to push boundries and try new things and if that means going to chams to try it then so be it, its not after all a dating site. "
Thats is what this site is about, clue is in its name. But everyone can see swinging differently, as long as all safe and other peoples boundaries respected |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Haha serious???? I thought I was on the wrong site then hehe... anyone know for any kebab shops near castle coch o wha lol"
i'll have mint and salad on mine please  |
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[Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys
and your point is???? isn't fab about pretty much the same thing I mean i'm here to push boundries and try new things and if that means going to chams to try it then so be it, its not after all a dating site. Its not a dating site true, but this site used 2 b fun 2 b on until the timewasters, liars n cheats joined on here, if u wanna go 2 chams thats up 2 u , but not everyone wants a lot of ppl 2 sleep with ] |
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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago
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"Haha serious???? I thought I was on the wrong site then hehe... anyone know for any kebab shops near castle coch o wha lol
i'll have mint and salad on mine please "
Haaa. Mixed meat and chips il have all salad garlic mint and mayo |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"[Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys
and your point is???? isn't fab about pretty much the same thing I mean i'm here to push boundries and try new things and if that means going to chams to try it then so be it, its not after all a dating site. Its not a dating site true, but this site used 2 b fun 2 b on until the timewasters, liars n cheats joined on here, if u wanna go 2 chams thats up 2 u , but not everyone wants a lot of ppl 2 sleep with ]"
you really do have the wrong idea about chams its not all about sex and fucking anything that goes there its about socialising and making friends too, you might not have liked it there but don't assume that just because I go there I sleep with anything that moves because you'd be wrong... As for liars and cheats you get them in every day life its not just here that you get them. |
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"Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys "
Umm no. I go to Chams for the social side more than anything. I resent the implication that everyone who goes just fucks anything.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Um it was cause of me going to chams I have met the friends I have now and going to the socials ive made even more friends and I hardly ever have sex with anyone at chams well apart from a very good friend hehe no names and a meet I arranged there I love chams I go with friends to have a drink chill and have a laugh I never do merts off here because frankly you dont know the person like |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys
Umm no. I go to Chams for the social side more than anything. I resent the implication that everyone who goes just fucks anything. "
I've only had sex there maybe twice ever. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys
Umm no. I go to Chams for the social side more than anything. I resent the implication that everyone who goes just fucks anything.
I've only had sex there maybe twice ever."
Snap! And only ever people I've gone in with ha. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Same and 90% of people with partners or wives are there with their partners or wives to have fun with other couples no1 fucking cheaters lol and if someone goes there who happens to have a relationship outside lf fab thats their business
as someone said FAB ISNT MATCH.COM! |
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"U can meet friends by arranging meets on yr own just by talking n messaging ppl on here u dont need chams or social events 2 meet ppl, i hav been 2 chams a few yrs back n i liked it there but back then all everyone wanted 2 do was fuck each other   "
I'm failing to see an issue with everyone wanting to fuck each other?
If that scenario played out in a club,and lets give this some thought..this would mean that everyone fancies every person in there,as unlikely as this occurring in a room full of people of all shapes,and sizes,taking into consideration everyone tastes,and fetishes',and the randomness of said crowd when you take in their personalities,if all of that alignment occurred in a club I was in I would have the fucking time of my life because that sort of event isn't going to happen to often in your life..sounds like you missed out on a right good night! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fuckkkkk I think I'm goin to have to show my face lol!!!!!!!!! Is most of them up for it then or do they have to have they partners watch and that lol"
There are a number of single guys in chams. And just because you go there does not mean that you are going to have any fun. If your lucky enough to be invited by a fem or a couple to join them then your in for a good night of not you could be wandering around with your towel and condoms all night like most do x |
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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago
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Lol il prob be the 1 walking around with the towel and condom on lol... nah I'm patient I'm here for the banta aswell so no rush I enjoy a good old chin wag and wind ppl up lol... good morning anyways x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"4 weeks and verified that's good going considering a lot of guys takes months to get verified ... I guess with this site you get out of it what you put in, maybe go to socials or chams get chatting to people like that then see what happens
Iv met a pretty good friend on ya I be honest. Iv spoke to loafs of people few messages then end of like no further...... got to point seems no new 1s on ya lol.
GIRLS IT'S HARD FOR A STRAIGHT BLOKE ON THIS SITE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND. Iv had more men approach me than women.... thinking mu profile pic maybe slightly gay looking lol.
Make room for the straight people. This site is like 70% men 20% couples 10% ladies lol     "
We understand more than you think. Why do you think we put filters on. Do the same and quit whining. What were your expectations if this site? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Well well well...
I must be the biggest slapper on this site if all they go to chams for is sex
I myself go to chams to socialise and if I fancy a nsa shag I will have one but that is very rare.i normally come home unshagged
It's got to the point on here I don't meet as like everyone keeps saying it's full of time wasters but by me going to a social or chams I know there are like minded people there.
And as for married guys you get them everywhere who's to say the guy you are chatting on here to isn't the guy im having a 3sum with his wife is??????
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry I'm going to bee stinky one and another mine in garlic mayo !
As for the other thing... Be polite, non pushy and in 6 months come back and say it didn't make a difference  |
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"4 weeks and verified that's good going considering a lot of guys takes months to get verified ... I guess with this site you get out of it what you put in, maybe go to socials or chams get chatting to people like that then see what happens
Iv met a pretty good friend on ya I be honest. Iv spoke to loafs of people few messages then end of like no further...... got to point seems no new 1s on ya lol.
GIRLS IT'S HARD FOR A STRAIGHT BLOKE ON THIS SITE YOU DON'T UNDERSTAND. Iv had more men approach me than women.... thinking mu profile pic maybe slightly gay looking lol.
Make room for the straight people. This site is like 70% men 20% couples 10% ladies lol
We understand more than you think. Why do you think we put filters on. Do the same and quit whining. What were your expectations if this site?"
I thought it was the freeads |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys "
Umm excuse you....Chams is for people who genuinely want to swing! The social side is so important for me to make sure you get to know the people before you commit to playing!! Last time I went I had an absolute blast and really enjoyed the night! BUT.....I didnt play with anyone...my choice! Some people really misunderstand the scene ;-/ |
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"Chams is 4 ppl who just want sex with other ppl's coz nobody tell anyone that they r in a relationship at these places chams is a swingers club 4 ppl who enjoy fucking other ppl's partners wether it b there gf/bf/wives or hubbys
Umm excuse you....Chams is for people who genuinely want to swing! The social side is so important for me to make sure you get to know the people before you commit to playing!! Last time I went I had an absolute blast and really enjoyed the night! BUT.....I didnt play with anyone...my choice! Some people really misunderstand the scene ;-/"
Couldn't have put it better myself |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me Chams is the whole social experience, if I'm there as a single female I generally only play with familiar fems, no males. If I'm there as a couple I feel more able to engage fully in the fun, but there's never an expectation to do so & I see many people there who don't play at all, I've been one of those who hasn't played, it is what you make of it X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This site is confusing the F out of me I'm debating weather to stick it out or or nip the bud lol!
Dunno if I'm the only one feeling like this I'd like to hear you opinions or better still stick a up if you think I should just give up HAAA!!!!! "
My advice to you would be to attend the Socials which are a great start for getting into the swing then when you feel more confident you can always pair up with someone to attend Chams sounds like you'd really like it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Just general stuff on this site. Like I said I'm new! I didn't know what FB was till last night. Just the basics I'm no expert on here and before you asume I'm uneducated I run two businesses.... Il get around to it. I just like a convo like most people are giving and advice witch is helping smile be happy
[I AM HAPPY HUN I GOT A WONDERFUL CARING MAN IN MY LIFE N HE KNOWS I AM ON HERE, JUST CHATTING 2 ALL MY FRIENDS ON HERE  AT THE END OF THE DAY NOBODY CAN MAKE U DO SUMTHING U DONT WANNA DO JUST B YRSELF ]
Thank you love... nice to see you found love
[ I MET HIM BACK LAST YR WEN HE WAS 24 HUN WE GET ON LIKE ANYTHING, HES PERFECT I WOULDNT CHANGE HIM 4 ANYTHING ]
I'm sure you said it was 7yrs ago you met him and had been chatting while seeing someone else
I hav known the one person for 7 yrs true but the one I am with i hav known 4 a year, i chat 2 other but i dont cheat in a relationship that wud b just cruel, nasty n spiteful n hurtful "
Are you on the right site here????
You do know it's a swinging site and people share husbands and wife's and partners????
And by the look of your status I guess this isn't the site your looking for |
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"Just general stuff on this site. Like I said I'm new! I didn't know what FB was till last night. Just the basics I'm no expert on here and before you asume I'm uneducated I run two businesses.... Il get around to it. I just like a convo like most people are giving and advice witch is helping smile be happy
[I AM HAPPY HUN I GOT A WONDERFUL CARING MAN IN MY LIFE N HE KNOWS I AM ON HERE, JUST CHATTING 2 ALL MY FRIENDS ON HERE AT THE END OF THE DAY NOBODY CAN MAKE U DO SUMTHING U DONT WANNA DO JUST B YRSELF ]
Thank you love... nice to see you found love
[ I MET HIM BACK LAST YR WEN HE WAS 24 HUN WE GET ON LIKE ANYTHING, HES PERFECT I WOULDNT CHANGE HIM 4 ANYTHING ]
I'm sure you said it was 7yrs ago you met him and had been chatting while seeing someone else
I hav known the one person for 7 yrs true but the one I am with i hav known 4 a year, i chat 2 other but i dont cheat in a relationship that wud b just cruel, nasty n spiteful n hurtful
Are you on the right site here????
You do know it's a swinging site and people share husbands and wife's and partners????
And by the look of your status I guess this isn't the site your looking for
I do know its a swingers site hun, but everyone as got their own opinion on here, chams used 2 b gd going back 4 yrs ago where u cud go with yr partner n go in any room u wanted 2 without it being crowded in there |
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"Ummm thats still the case now durrrr called a private room people only go in with you if they are invited haha
I havent been since the last time i went there, like i said each 2 their own opinion |
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""Ummm thats still the case now durrrr called a private room people only go in with you if they are invited haha
I havent been since the last time i went there, like i said each 2 their own opinion "
your right there and alot of us are of the same opinion! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Just so you know
I was brought up with manners.
You are on a swinging site so if you see that as cheating there is something wrong.
I also said about ur status as why don't you go and buy your kid a pair of shoes?????
If I was to borrow a pair of shoes I'd ask for my size not a 2 3 or 4 |
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By (user no longer on site)
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""Ummm thats still the case now durrrr called a private room people only go in with you if they are invited haha
I havent been since the last time i went there, like i said each 2 their own opinion "
"I haven't been since the last time I went there"
Sorry...just tickled me :')
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just so you know
I was brought up with manners.
You are on a swinging site so if you see that as cheating there is something wrong.
I also said about ur status as why don't you go and buy your kid a pair of shoes?????
If I was to borrow a pair of shoes I'd ask for my size not a 2 3 or 4 "
I thought this. .. how can you borrow shoes two sizes either side of correct size
I do worry for the OP though... last week there were suicidal status..
Hunny why don't you take time out to look after yourself |
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""Ummm thats still the case now durrrr called a private room people only go in with you if they are invited haha
I havent been since the last time i went there, like i said each 2 their own opinion
"I haven't been since the last time I went there"
Sorry...just tickled me :')
Howling"
omg walking home laughing my head I look more crazy then the op actually is if thats possible :s |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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she obviously has issues that aren't being helped by being on this site or by posting on this thread. All her comments focus on the same issue, different partners. I can't see how anyone's comments are going to change such a skewed view, it's just fall out waiting to happen x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm pissing myself here poor play hard!!! I'm a bit concerned about what your next move is going to be!!!!! Don't jump whatever you do!!!!!
Your threads been hijacked......just in case you hadnt noticed
Fucking priceless |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Lets talk him back from the edge then & grab the thread back, getting back to your original question, we all have times when we wonder why we bother with the site, but you seem to be enjoying some good banter & attention here so why not come away from the edge & stick with it a bit linger, see how it pans out x |
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By *_Play OP Man
over a year ago
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"Lets talk him back from the edge then & grab the thread back, getting back to your original question, we all have times when we wonder why we bother with the site, but you seem to be enjoying some good banter & attention here so why not come away from the edge & stick with it a bit linger, see how it pans out x"
You my friend are one in a million!!! No 1 else would have stuck by me! ..... I'm planning on having fun not sexual but banter and take everything on the head! I'm a true proper welsh valley boy take alot to break me down lol! ... I will stay longer and I will Continue to be the way i am i love the banter and the forums. I'm enjoying this more than Facebook lol. Keep it alive and kicking. Bring the fun back in to swinging even though I'm new I see alot of frustrated ladies on here lol xxxxc |
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"Lets talk him back from the edge then & grab the thread back, getting back to your original question, we all have times when we wonder why we bother with the site, but you seem to be enjoying some good banter & attention here so why not come away from the edge & stick with it a bit linger, see how it pans out x
You my friend are one in a million!!! No 1 else would have stuck by me! ..... I'm planning on having fun not sexual but banter and take everything on the head! I'm a true proper welsh valley boy take alot to break me down lol! ... I will stay longer and I will Continue to be the way i am i love the banter and the forums. I'm enjoying this more than Facebook lol. Keep it alive and kicking. Bring the fun back in to swinging even though I'm new I see alot of frustrated ladies on here lol xxxxc"
Thats the ticket! Xxx |
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