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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"when messaging or arranging meets etc, how much does 'looks' come in to it rather than the mutual swinging connection? "
Looks is 95% for me. Even if someone has the most amazing personality if I'm not attracted I'm not attracted. End of. I can only think of one man I've met from here that's won me around from my 'type' by being an absolute gem! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personality is big for us. We are a large couple so the looks department is not our strongest point. We like to spend time with each other, laugh a lot, have fun. Then the sex is good. A meeting of minds you might say. No point being a looker if you can't get on. Depends what you are after really. Xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'd say they are both important because there has to be a physical connection but then if they have a crappy personality it wont work and its just not appealing to have sex with them......so probably personality is slightly more important |
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"I'd say they are both important because there has to be a physical connection but then if they have a crappy personality it wont work and its just not appealing to have sex with them......so probably personality is slightly more important " |
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over a year ago
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I'm no fine art painting, but i do have to admit that yes, I have gone for looks in the past, and been very disappointed.
Why have a meet with someone you don't gel with just because of their looks ?
I'm sorry but if we get along, then its a definite yes from me |
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"I'm no fine art painting, but i do have to admit that yes, I have gone for looks in the past, and been very disappointed.
Why have a meet with someone you don't gel with just because of their looks ?
I'm sorry but if we get along, then its a definite yes from me "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If looks weren't important then nobody would be asking for face pics and blind date would turn into blind shag
If any of us ask for face pics then the answer has to be yes it's very important
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" I'm no fine art painting, but i do have to admit that yes, I have gone for looks in the past, and been very disappointed.
Why have a meet with someone you don't gel with just because of their looks ?
I'm sorry but if we get along, then its a definite yes from me "
This. Also an attitude thing. If you walk in like you're gods gift then its unlikely I'd give you a second glance |
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Personally, I don't think it's shallow to base on looks.
I'm here to have sex with aesthetically hot men and fulfill my fantasies at the end of the day. Personality means nothing, I'm not looking to date them. |
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