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When did Fab stop being fun?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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More of a plea than a rant... I used to love the forums, but it makes for depressing reading lately.
Where has all the fun and banter and flirting gone? Too many snide comments and digs, ruined social events, and childishness from grown adults.
This site really is what you make of it. I love the South Wales scene, and I even look forward to swinging events much more these days than vanilla events (hence no bloody annual leave left already!  ) and I love catching up with certain people.
I'm not saying everyone has to get on, but let's reign it in a bit and keep it private, yeah? There is enough stigma and hassle towards the scene from the outside world, let's not poison it from the inside  |
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"More of a plea than a rant... I used to love the forums, but it makes for depressing reading lately.
Where has all the fun and banter and flirting gone? Too many snide comments and digs, ruined social events, and childishness from grown adults.
This site really is what you make of it. I love the South Wales scene, and I even look forward to swinging events much more these days than vanilla events (hence no bloody annual leave left already! ) and I love catching up with certain people.
I'm not saying everyone has to get on, but let's reign it in a bit and keep it private, yeah? There is enough stigma and hassle towards the scene from the outside world, let's not poison it from the inside "
Agreed. I have looked from the outside in for quite a while totally intimidated by the way some people spoke to others on here. Wih some support I am going to attend some socials and i am still optimistic that i will enjoy meeting people off fab. I know to most i am new and you will not bother listening to what i have to say, but after the issue of last few weeks regarding socials and the arguments, everyone risks ruining what his is meant to be and it will just end up being private parties where in same few will attend, new parties will miss out and the scene will become stagnent and stale. I appreciate that some things cant carry on but same time you cant lose what his is meant to be about. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"More of a plea than a rant... I used to love the forums, but it makes for depressing reading lately.
Where has all the fun and banter and flirting gone? Too many snide comments and digs, ruined social events, and childishness from grown adults.
This site really is what you make of it. I love the South Wales scene, and I even look forward to swinging events much more these days than vanilla events (hence no bloody annual leave left already! ) and I love catching up with certain people.
I'm not saying everyone has to get on, but let's reign it in a bit and keep it private, yeah? There is enough stigma and hassle towards the scene from the outside world, let's not poison it from the inside "
Agreed......same old in the forums ....I'm hardly on here thesedays.....have a nose now and again and it's depressing.
That word association has been going since 1983.....Zzzzzzzzz...ha |
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"More of a plea than a rant... I used to love the forums, but it makes for depressing reading lately.
Where has all the fun and banter and flirting gone? Too many snide comments and digs, ruined social events, and childishness from grown adults.
This site really is what you make of it. I love the South Wales scene, and I even look forward to swinging events much more these days than vanilla events (hence no bloody annual leave left already! ) and I love catching up with certain people.
I'm not saying everyone has to get on, but let's reign it in a bit and keep it private, yeah? There is enough stigma and hassle towards the scene from the outside world, let's not poison it from the inside "
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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"More of a plea than a rant... I used to love the forums, but it makes for depressing reading lately.
Where has all the fun and banter and flirting gone? Too many snide comments and digs, ruined social events, and childishness from grown adults.
This site really is what you make of it. I love the South Wales scene, and I even look forward to swinging events much more these days than vanilla events (hence no bloody annual leave left already! ) and I love catching up with certain people.
I'm not saying everyone has to get on, but let's reign it in a bit and keep it private, yeah? There is enough stigma and hassle towards the scene from the outside world, let's not poison it from the inside
Agreed......same old in the forums ....I'm hardly on here thesedays.....have a nose now and again and it's depressing.
That word association has been going since 1983.....Zzzzzzzzz...ha"
Lol and the same words keep cropping up too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"More of a plea than a rant... I used to love the forums, but it makes for depressing reading lately.
Where has all the fun and banter and flirting gone? Too many snide comments and digs, ruined social events, and childishness from grown adults.
This site really is what you make of it. I love the South Wales scene, and I even look forward to swinging events much more these days than vanilla events (hence no bloody annual leave left already! ) and I love catching up with certain people.
I'm not saying everyone has to get on, but let's reign it in a bit and keep it private, yeah? There is enough stigma and hassle towards the scene from the outside world, let's not poison it from the inside
Agreed......same old in the forums ....I'm hardly on here thesedays.....have a nose now and again and it's depressing.
That word association has been going since 1983.....Zzzzzzzzz...ha
Lol and the same words keep cropping up too "
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Totally agree. It does get a little tiresome sometimes, then out of the blue the mist rises and calm seas are once again restored.
Today though there are some absolute beauts out. This weekend seems to be full of timewasters & lunatics  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally agree. It does get a little tiresome sometimes, then out of the blue the mist rises and calm seas are once again restored.
Today though there are some absolute beauts out. This weekend seems to be full of timewasters & lunatics xx"
You can always come for a pint with us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I couldnt agree more hun its getting really depressing reading and for once not sure to stay or not xxx"
I left in the past, and came back after a couple of months as I missed it on here, and missed some of the GENUINE people who do chat, meet and play.
It was noticeably poorer when I returned, even after a relatively short time away...more time wasters, more people on 'here today, gone tomorrow' profiles, although a lot of the nice genuine people are still on here thankfully or I'd have already packed it in.
Lets all be nice to each other on here, and help each other realise our goals of enjoying a nice social community and hot sexy fun.
Sermon over...lol. |
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"Totally agree. It does get a little tiresome sometimes, then out of the blue the mist rises and calm seas are once again restored.
Today though there are some absolute beauts out. This weekend seems to be full of timewasters & lunatics xx You can always come for a pint with us x"
See you sexy pair later, will be fantastic to see you again  xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally agree. It does get a little tiresome sometimes, then out of the blue the mist rises and calm seas are once again restored.
Today though there are some absolute beauts out. This weekend seems to be full of timewasters & lunatics xx You can always come for a pint with us x
See you sexy pair later, will be fantastic to see you again xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Totally agree. It does get a little tiresome sometimes, then out of the blue the mist rises and calm seas are once again restored.
Today though there are some absolute beauts out. This weekend seems to be full of timewasters & lunatics xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to love being on here especially with my alter ego, but had to have a break. I've come back more so as Sasha but always end up with quite a few abusive messages weekly. Silly people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Me and my partner have been swinging for many years both on and off this site. This is a community for the free lifestyle we choose to live and it belongs to everyone one and not the choosen few. Its worth remembering that anyone can choose to say what they like to anyone who accepts a message. If you don't like what is said to you by an indivdual message...just block not bitch....you're all God's children and we love you all .....so enjoy your swinging here if you want to shout at each other then I think you need facebook .
Happy Swinging Fabsters
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Me and my partner have been swinging for many years both on and off this site. This is a community for the free lifestyle we choose to live and it belongs to everyone one and not the choosen few. Its worth remembering that anyone can choose to say what they like to anyone who accepts a message. If you don't like what is said to you by an indivdual message...just block not bitch....you're all God's children and we love you all .....so enjoy your swinging here if you want to shout at each other then I think you need facebook .
Happy Swinging Fabsters
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So glad to hear that it's not just me who is desperately depressed about the childish and pointless jumble that seems to be all over the forums (fora?) these days...
Nice to know that there are still some sociable people out there - thank you all!
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"Oi ava nice bums by the way lol xxxxx
Bums!? I know it's big but there's only one haha
And welcome to the fold, newbies "
Aarrrrgh my thumbs on this phone no good lol of course I meant buns and the only bum you Have is a cute one lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Even I've noticed a change on here over the last few months! I've been back and forth on here for quite a while, and have found there's a lot more time wasters at the moment & the chatroom is not what it used to be!
That said I've met some cracking people on here & still do at the moment, it just takes a bit more sorting trough the chaff sadly- like a blue cross sale!
If you look hard enough there's usually something for everyone... |
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I agree with all this I out it on the other thread that was deleted but I'm not likely to renew its become not fun anymore. I'm not talking about meets I enjoyed the banter on the forums but that seems to have tailed off so in 5 days my membership runs out and unless there's a change I won't be renewing  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The forums for me stopped being fun a while ago but I stuck with it....
But after last week's humiliation by a few fem users on here I feel I need to take a step back and continue doing what I do best.
Which is organising and getting you sexy people together
Fab is ment to be fun not hassel..
And as quoted above I don't think I will be renewing my membership.
See you all soon |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally i still class muself as a newbie even though ive been here for months. It seems there are so many guys on here giving single men a bad name that us genuine guys just get pushed aside. Im never disrespectful, but that still doesnt get a guy anywhere. One day that illustrious meet with someone i click with will happen
Happy fabbing guys |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The forums for me stopped being fun a while ago but I stuck with it....
But after last week's humiliation by a few fem users on here I feel I need to take a step back and continue doing what I do best.
Which is organising and getting you sexy people together
Fab is ment to be fun not hassel..
And as quoted above I don't think I will be renewing my membership.
See you all soon "
Aww don't let ppl spoil it for you.. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The forums for me stopped being fun a while ago but I stuck with it....
But after last week's humiliation by a few fem users on here I feel I need to take a step back and continue doing what I do best.
Which is organising and getting you sexy people together
Fab is ment to be fun not hassel..
And as quoted above I don't think I will be renewing my membership.
See you all soon "
'Don't let the bastards ground you down' - I forget who said that though. |
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