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Neath Social 18th April Change of Venue
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Due to small minded vindictive people we have had to change the venue of the social today and will be sending out the new venue details this evening and tomorrow.
We won't elaborate any further but those who are attending on sat are more than welcome to ask us the reasons why when we see you there.
xxxDDxxx
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There's some arseholes around trying to spoil it for everyone . Well be there really looking forward to it xxx |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Why can't people just be decent aye, you try and arrange something for people, and some dick head messes it up for everyone, hope all goes well for you guys xxxxx |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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Some people are evil, nasty bastards! Obviously don't like to see others getting together and having a nice time  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I can't wait....am planning an early start   |
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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That's crazy and well childish we all looking forward to it x silly silly people  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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thats disgusting, its getting really bad lately. there are some vindictive saddoes about. hope it all goes well for you xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry people have tried to spoil it for you. Hope it works out well x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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the same thing happened to the Jackie fan club when they decided to organise a Thursday night social in blackwood seems people don't have anything better to do with their time... I think they need to grow up and stop trying to spoil other's fun... IDIOTS!!!!!! |
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thanks for changeing the venue and not cancelling the social,
see you all there  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have had it this week with the singles social.....
People don't relise how much hard work goes into theses socials and i think it's about time fab made the forums private as everyone can read them Wether site members or not 
Hope it goes well |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"the same thing happened to the Jackie fan club when they decided to organise a Thursday night social in blackwood seems people don't have anything better to do with their time... I think they need to grow up and stop trying to spoil other's fun... IDIOTS!!!!!!"
*this*
We have also had to change venues after a female phoned our first place saying it was a swingers party.
Just a bit of shameless plugging here ... if anyone else wants to come to a retro disco next Thursday night ... Please get in touch .... 30 people on the list so far .... more welcome .... all being arranged by private message.
Don't let the b*^/$ rds spoil our fun!
See you in Neath tomorrow xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No need for it. Spoiling the fun for everyone. Don't they realise it's not the organisers they are getting at, it's the people who attend who just want to leave their lives at home have some fun and socialise. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Trying to ruin a fun event for lots of people, How fecking childish! Who ever did it's pram must be totally empty of toys! Petulant fools!!
We can't wait. Really looking forward to this. Nobody's stopping us xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can we start the countdown now xx exited much |
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Some idiot tried it with us as well, rang the venue and said to the manager, "do you no what type of party is being held in your venue?" He said "yes why? they aren't doing anything seedy, just like a normal party night to us, everyone enjoying themselves, so it's not a problem, and do you have anything else to say?" Lol |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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What we need to ask tho is it the same people doing the spoiling? And why do they have to be such spiteful and selfish gits! As someone else said, they aren't only spiting the organisers but the other fab members too
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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was the same with my charity socials and it was the charity that lost out. Now my little socials are at mine lol cos i know who coming are swingers lolol xxx joking aside its getting beyond the pale. these people should be so ashamed of themselves and their cronies who cover for them |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"What we need to ask tho is it the same people doing the spoiling? And why do they have to be such spiteful and selfish gits! As someone else said, they aren't only spiting the organisers but the other fab members too
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Think that's a good point mama.
Thing is the drums will start beating now and people will start accusing people and that's when it get nasty.
I personally would never of put this thread on a open forum as who ever it is has new info so to speak.i would of messaged everyone who it affected and said change of venue and the reason why.
I will go and grab my hard hat now and wait for the stone throwing  |
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over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Doesn't matter whether it's on an open forum or not
only the members who have been rechecked have received private messages and been informed of exactly what has gone on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't matter whether it's on an open forum or not
only the members who have been rechecked have received private messages and been informed of exactly what has gone on "
So who's to say it isn't one of them?????
Trust no one.
But I do hope you have a good night |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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gotta trust some people or the venue be empty....!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"gotta trust some people or the venue be empty....!!!!!!!"
Hahahaha yeah suppose lol |
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Its the people that attend the socials and events that suffer xxx
All organisers deserve our support as without them we would not have our socials xxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What concerns me is that there are a lot of people attending these events with a lot to lose and the risk of media coverage is sometimes too big a risk to take.
Its such a shame ;-( |
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"What concerns me is that there are a lot of people attending these events with a lot to lose and the risk of media coverage is sometimes too big a risk to take.
Its such a shame ;-("
Very True Jo x
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
Neath |
The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy "
Ah but the question is who knows where you live,it could be some neighbour |
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"The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy "
pretty obvious what they were doing as i was there 4 days and never seen police again some people are so sad .. personal which hunts the lot its awful we have nothing like this in my wales..  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Its the people that attend the socials and events that suffer xxx
All organisers deserve our support as without them we would not have our socials xxxx"
well said love |
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
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"The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy pretty obvious what they were doing as i was there 4 days and never seen police again some people are so sad .. personal which hunts the lot its awful we have nothing like this in my wales.. "
Your very lucky then as it's not fair to all those who put the hard work into socails and parties or the people who go to them who just want to have a fun filled evening without any hassle ;-( |
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
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"The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy
Ah but the question is who knows where you live,it could be some neighbour"
Your right about the who knows where I live part that's for sure and my neighbours are sound and would speak to me if there was any problems which there never has been before at the previous 3 parties I've had at my house as people who have attend will tell anyone if they asked them as they have all been very respectful and left after the party with no disturbances what so ever and that's why they will always be invited back |
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"The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy
Ah but the question is who knows where you live,it could be some neighbour"
think the message enjoy your entertaiment said it 2bh and no it wasnt off the neighbours  |
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Have a great party im sure it will be really entertaining..
that is the comment i left on the private party thread seeing as you are incinuating that it was us who attempted to spoil your party.
now let me make it clear i WANTED it to be successful party im glad it was a successful party we would not spoil it for fabbers who attended..
we know full well the impact of an event being outed as well you know so grow up..
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"Have a great party im sure it will be really entertaining..
that is the comment i left on the private party thread seeing as you are incinuating that it was us who attempted to spoil your party.
now let me make it clear i WANTED it to be successful party im glad it was a successful party we would not spoil it for fabbers who attended..
we know full well the impact of an event being outed as well you know so grow up..
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groe up lmfao understatment there |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy
Ah but the question is who knows where you live,it could be some neighbour
Your right about the who knows where I live part that's for sure and my neighbours are sound and would speak to me if there was any problems which there never has been before at the previous 3 parties I've had at my house as people who have attend will tell anyone if they asked them as they have all been very respectful and left after the party with no disturbances what so ever and that's why they will always be invited back "
well it was just an idea cos someone must have know your address thats all wasnt meaning anything bad |
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
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"The party at my house a few weeks ago was the same as there was a white mirah van with 6 coppers pull up at about 7-30pm have a good look into the kitchen and dinning room for a good few minutes and smiled and left which never happens where I live as its a very quiet area and a couple put a comment up on their status apparently hope you enjoy the entertainment lol ! so it looks like it's not just the socails that are getting targeted it's house parties also and it is sad all around to be honest and unfair to all those who just want to have fun and enjoy
Ah but the question is who knows where you live,it could be some neighbour
Your right about the who knows where I live part that's for sure and my neighbours are sound and would speak to me if there was any problems which there never has been before at the previous 3 parties I've had at my house as people who have attend will tell anyone if they asked them as they have all been very respectful and left after the party with no disturbances what so ever and that's why they will always be invited back
well it was just an idea cos someone must have know your address thats all wasnt meaning anything bad "
Perhaps there are to many suggestions and no truthfull answers as people,s assumptions are get innocent people into trouble and there is too much finger pointing going on as it is to be honest and it seams that it must be someone who knows all the socail locations and party address,s also so must be someone who's in with the fold and the know also tbth it's that simple but people never see what they should see only what they and others want them to see and people need to see this and look closer to home also |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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We have to say, that as we know all the organisers of all the Social's and Events (not parties )that are held in South Wales personally. We can say that not one of these people would try and cause any issues or trouble for any one at all, knowing how much work goes into organising a Party,Social or any Larger Event.
It just seems that people are being blamed without any real evidence.
As you can see from what has been said initially in the post we have taken it on the chin and got back up and organised a new venue.
We will in future be very mindful of who will be able to attend the socials.
Sorry to do this but as we all know from experience there are some despicable, vile, vindictive people in the world who are hell bent on causing problems and trouble at every opportunity.
Having started the thread and have now had my final say about things I feel that it should be put to bed and left where it deserves to be (in the dustbin).
Those who have had the new venue and rules sent to them we look forward to seeing you all tomorrow evening.
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Same old retoric repeating itself over and over again thats sense of been here before, its all happening again.
Now what do you call that feeling??
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
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this is very strange as all this has started up again this year after certain people have re joined the site as it went very quiet last year when they left ???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same old retoric repeating itself over and over again thats sense of been here before, its all happening again.
Now what do you call that feeling??
Ice"
Now that's funny! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Same old retoric repeating itself over and over again thats sense of been here before, its all happening again.
Now what do you call that feeling??
Ice"
deja vous ?
right steve ive had a fucking guts full of you accusing us of stuff
Ive been in the fucking hospital with my son who has got a tumour and im getting messages and phone calls telling me about the shit you are spouting on here about us .
I REALLY HAVE HAD ENOUGH !!!!!!
I had a message last night accusing us of spoiling the neath social from "user no longer on site" if anyone got a problem with us then I suggest you come see us I have got far more pressing things going on in my life at the moment . Your stupid fucking socials and camping trips are the last thing on my mind ok my 12 yr old son might lose his leg or maybe his life ,so spoiling the fucking venues is the last thing on my mind Now fucking grow up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i have had enough also.... i am well aware of what is happening is deja vous soon and as i have just said to jackie on phone i would never cause any aggravation in any situation especially with child is in hospital....
i suggest ALL accusations and slagging off stop as its getting stupid now that includes others that have commented above.
As has been stated there are far more important things going on than accusing every tom dick or harry of things.
So end of.
Thanku Fire |
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
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Here comes the Calvary now to help out !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aww guys mun  |
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"Same old retoric repeating itself over and over again thats sense of been here before, its all happening again.
Now what do you call that feeling??
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deja vous ?
right steve ive had a fucking guts full of you accusing us of stuff
Ive been in the fucking hospital with my son who has got a tumour and im getting messages and phone calls telling me about the shit you are spouting on here about us .
I REALLY HAVE HAD ENOUGH !!!!!!
I had a message last night accusing us of spoiling the neath social from "user no longer on site" if anyone got a problem with us then I suggest you come see us I have got far more pressing things going on in my life at the moment . Your stupid fucking socials and camping trips are the last thing on my mind ok my 12 yr old son might lose his leg or maybe his life ,so spoiling the fucking venues is the last thing on my mind Now fucking grow up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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this couple having been through hell the last week we knew what they were going threw but wasnt our or my place to say and still the shit was being flung i hope everyone who as had there little dig is fucking happy im disgusted and if your on my friends list remove yourselfs !!! to make one of my best friends feel like this to the point they have to say on a forum ... u are nothing sending u loves n huggs ur both one in a million xxxx |
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
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"Same old retoric repeating itself over and over again thats sense of been here before, its all happening again.
Now what do you call that feeling??
Ice
deja vous ?
right steve ive had a fucking guts full of you accusing us of stuff
Ive been in the fucking hospital with my son who has got a tumour and im getting messages and phone calls telling me about the shit you are spouting on here about us .
I REALLY HAVE HAD ENOUGH !!!!!!
I had a message last night accusing us of spoiling the neath social from "user no longer on site" if anyone got a problem with us then I suggest you come see us I have got far more pressing things going on in my life at the moment . Your stupid fucking socials and camping trips are the last thing on my mind ok my 12 yr old son might lose his leg or maybe his life ,so spoiling the fucking venues is the last thing on my mind Now fucking grow up !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
this couple having been through hell the last week we knew what they were going threw but wasnt our or my place to say and still the shit was being flung i hope everyone who as had there little dig is fucking happy im disgusted and if your on my friends list remove yourselfs !!! to make one of my best friends feel like this to the point they have to say on a forum ... u are nothing sending u loves n huggs ur both one in a million xxxx "
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"Here comes the Calvary now to help out !!!"
Grow up ffs! |
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By *ewie3Man
over a year ago
Neath |
"Here comes the Calvary now to help out !!!
Grow up ffs!"
I am tbth as I'm just stating a fact or is that incorrect also ?!
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Aww can we please stop this bickering, my mamma once said if you've nothing nice to say, say nothing at all! Bicker in your circles if you must, but please keep it off the public forums, you're scaring people into wanting to attend events or parties so everyone's losing from this.
Dejavous, hope your boy makes a speedy recovery xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Aww can we please stop this bickering, my mamma once said if you've nothing nice to say, say nothing at all! Bicker in your circles if you must, but please keep it off the public forums, you're scaring people into wanting to attend events or parties so everyone's losing from this.
Dejavous, hope your boy makes a speedy recovery xx"
No need for it on here |
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