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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have found on here that a few guys are a bit immature  it just ruins it maybe my age limit is wrong help needed cause ive been put off meeting because 5 out 10 guys ive spoken to lack the maturity im looking for any advice to help get me out of this funk and back to meeting again? X |
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"I have found on here that a few guys are a bit immature it just ruins it maybe my age limit is wrong help needed cause ive been put off meeting because 5 out 10 guys ive spoken to lack the maturity im looking for any advice to help get me out of this funk and back to meeting again? X"
Some specifics without naming names? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Someone who doesnt strop over not being able to meet me :s or someone whos mature enough to except a "im sorry but not interested" which out kicking back with verbal abuse
I think maybe my age limit being 20-30 allows them type of guys access its put me off doing meets cause I think what if an emergency comes up or I or my daughter falls ill and the meet has to be cancelled will he kick off n strop
its put me in a bit of a funk tbh not had a meet for couple of weeks x |
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"Someone who doesnt strop over not being able to meet me :s or someone whos mature enough to except a "im sorry but not interested" which out kicking back with verbal abuse
I think maybe my age limit being 20-30 allows them type of guys access its put me off doing meets cause I think what if an emergency comes up or I or my daughter falls ill and the meet has to be cancelled will he kick off n strop
its put me in a bit of a funk tbh not had a meet for couple of weeks x"
This is kind of standard. A lot of single guys will throw their weight about because you're a relative newbie.
STick to your guns hun. Block people as soon as they are disrespectful. I've stuck to what I want and no longer get the crap. People have learnt that I'll block quickly.
Hope you get out of your funk soon.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Oh I know it's not just under 30s I know a couple of guys over 30 that strop worse than my daughter lol
it makes me feel bad if they kick offn strop I cant cope with it like ive got a child I dont need another
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Oh I know it's not just under 30s I know a couple of guys over 30 that strop worse than my daughter lol
it makes me feel bad if they kick offn strop I cant cope with it like ive got a child I dont need another
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You get used to it I guess xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The decent guys are the ones who understand that there's more to life than fab. Things come up that can't be helped. Decent ones will see that you're not going to vanish and are happy to rearrange.
As mentioned, block the twats, a shame there's so many of them. I get enough of them, I can't imagine what its like for a lady on here |
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You think that under-30's are immature?
I've struggled to find anyone under 40 that has the maturity that I'm looking for! Yes, there's a few, but I've given up and in general won't meet men under 40 at all!!
I don't feel right about it - but the time came to say that I'd put up with enough disrespect and sometimes downright abuse, and just draw the line...
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over a year ago
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Same .. The abuse is crazy.. sone of the 20-30s are fitttttt but iv had loads of hassle.. abuse if I don't reply..facebook messages .. started meeting slightly older and have seen a big difference xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What youve had guys off here message you on facebook!? Thats over stepping yeh I agree they fit but still immature ive been with a few older and agree there is a diff x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I have found on here that a few guys are a bit immature it just ruins it maybe my age limit is wrong help needed cause ive been put off meeting because 5 out 10 guys ive spoken to lack the maturity im looking for any advice to help get me out of this funk and back to meeting again? X"
Well your hardly struggling with 4 veris in 3 weeks bit sounds like you just need to use your block button and deal with the nice guys only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The minority of single guys on here can spoil it for the majority of the genuine people on Fab.
It's not necessarily down to the age bracketing for maturity but more down to the individual.
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"Same .. The abuse is crazy.. sone of the 20-30s are fitttttt but iv had loads of hassle.. abuse if I don't reply..facebook messages .. started meeting slightly older and have seen a big difference xx"
Don't think you can judge every bloke in that age range the same |
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Yeah, as most have said its less to do with physical age more to do with mind set. Just because we swing it doesnt mean we shag anything that moves (at least some of us dont haha)... If they dont float your boat and kick off when you tell them that its no great loss - block and let live, to mangle a well known saying  |
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so just block and move on and don't worry about it 
