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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

Is it me or are the an inordinate amount of plain rude women on here. I'm talking about profiles here the few people I have messaged have been polite and friendly without exception.

When I read some of the profiles I think I fit the bill of what they are looking for and the pics look enticing but I wouldn't message them due to the tone of the profile. Blocked, jog on, etc etc.

I've seen previous discussions about women having the upper hand on the site and I get that but jeez get over yourself.

Rant over soap box away

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

"Is it me or are the an inordinate amount of plain rude women on here. I'm talking about profiles here the few people I have messaged have been polite and friendly without exception.

When I read some of the profiles I think I fit the bill of what they are looking for and the pics look enticing but I wouldn't message them due to the tone of the profile. Blocked, jog on, etc etc.

I've seen previous discussions about women having the upper hand on the site and I get that but jeez get over yourself.

Rant over soap box away

spot on fella there are lots here that if you read their profiles they think they super models by the way they speak i'm looking for hung good looking beefcakes bluh bluh bluh tall dark handsome bluh bluh bluh some need to take a look at what they look like before being so demanding and bitchy with it being polite is a virtue.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It's always been the same lads, due to the massive in balance of men v women they obviously get to be very picky, some I agree need to get off their pedestal and take a look in the mirror though.

What I will say is the sheer amount of guys that bombard them does get silly, they obviously try to be as direct as possible to narrow the numbers down!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is it me or are the an inordinate amount of plain rude women on here. I'm talking about profiles here the few people I have messaged have been polite and friendly without exception.

When I read some of the profiles I think I fit the bill of what they are looking for and the pics look enticing but I wouldn't message them due to the tone of the profile. Blocked, jog on, etc etc.

I've seen previous discussions about women having the upper hand on the site and I get that but jeez get over yourself.

Rant over soap box away

Hmmm. Just described my profile mister.

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

"It's always been the same lads, due to the massive in balance of men v women they obviously get to be very picky, some I agree need to get off their pedestal and take a look in the mirror though.

What I will say is the sheer amount of guys that bombard them does get silly, they obviously try to be as direct as possible to narrow the numbers down!"

I've got no axe to grind here as I send very few messages and I understand the volume they must receive (oo err Mrs) but it's the general hostile tone of a lot of the profiles that grips my shit lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I am probably one of the type of women that the OP is having a dig at. I'm here for my fantasies and my pleasure.Nobody elses. If that offends people then certainly feel free to not message/block me all you like. How people run their profiles is up to them. Nobody is forcing you to meet these women who are successful in vanilla life as well as on here.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It would appear that the ladies on Fab, are looking for a certain type of men. Their standards are high, and it would seem that they are often let down, either by no shows or the person.

I do not think it will change, and alas as a result a number of good men will leave.

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

"I am probably one of the type of women that the OP is having a dig at. I'm here for my fantasies and my pleasure.Nobody elses. If that offends people then certainly feel free to not message/block me all you like. How people run their profiles is up to them. Nobody is forcing you to meet these women who are successful in vanilla life as well as on here. "

Case in point lmao. Manners cost nothing ladies. Sure if someone messages you with the universally hated "fancy a fuck" by all means tear them a new one and yes each person has the right to run their profile as they wish just as I have the right to pass comment on said profile. You don't need to read or respond to a mans forum post who is also successful in vanilla life lol.

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

"Is it me or are the an inordinate amount of plain rude women on here. I'm talking about profiles here the few people I have messaged have been polite and friendly without exception.

When I read some of the profiles I think I fit the bill of what they are looking for and the pics look enticing but I wouldn't message them due to the tone of the profile. Blocked, jog on, etc etc.

I've seen previous discussions about women having the upper hand on the site and I get that but jeez get over yourself.

Rant over soap box away

Hmmm. Just described my profile mister.

I think there is nothing wrong with your profile lol. You have stated clearly what your type is without the bile and hostility ive read in so many other profiles.

If anyone takes exception to my observation I apologise I'm not naming names or even talking about anyone in particular I'm just passing a comment on the tone of a lot of them.

Just like the profiles I'm talking about if you don't like this post feel free to jog on lol x

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

"Is it me or are the an inordinate amount of plain rude women on here. I'm talking about profiles here the few people I have messaged have been polite and friendly without exception.

When I read some of the profiles I think I fit the bill of what they are looking for and the pics look enticing but I wouldn't message them due to the tone of the profile. Blocked, jog on, etc etc.

I've seen previous discussions about women having the upper hand on the site and I get that but jeez get over yourself.

Rant over soap box away

Hmmm. Just described my profile mister.

Not on about you at all i've always found you to be very polite and nice those where just the phase's that sprung to mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Like you said women on here can get what they want when they want it.

I don't and never have punched above my own weight and wouldnt meet anyone I wouldn't pull in a pub.

I'm just me and don't pretend to be anything else.

But some do need to have a close look and relise that they ain't all that cos if they where they would be in the playboy mansion

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

"Like you said women on here can get what they want when they want it.

I don't and never have punched above my own weight and wouldnt meet anyone I wouldn't pull in a pub.

I'm just me and don't pretend to be anything else.

But some do need to have a close look and relise that they ain't all that cos if they where they would be in the playboy mansion

very well said giggs spot on

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I completely get both sides... I've read some women's and thought wooahhhh ... it's a long list of rants and dos and don't...

on the flip side.. girls get hundreds of messages a day from keen men all willing to meet..so..I guess women get to choose.. sometimes the only way to whittle these messages down is to state strict preferance ie... muscly..Black. . Or whatever...

as the lady above stated though.. Some women are on here to fulfill fantasies.. and may have a clear idea of what this is/who this is...

I hope mine doesn't come across bitch. .. you have to have at least a little rant I think to warn off some of the complete bells we get inboxing xx

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

Miss giggles and nawty have both hit the nail on the head. I'm not an idiot I completely accept the ratio of men to women on here makes it a smorgasbord of cocks to cherry pick from (sorry for the food analogies it's getting close to lunch time) and I also have no problem with women being very picky and selective I'm sure if the weight of men to women were to be reversed all the men would take advantage in a far more extreme manner.

What I do find annoying is the "I will shoot you if you dare to message me" type of profile

By far and away most of the messages and posts aimed at me are pleasant so I have no problem with the site in general. xx

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

"Miss giggles and nawty have both hit the nail on the head. I'm not an idiot I completely accept the ratio of men to women on here makes it a smorgasbord of cocks to cherry pick from (sorry for the food analogies it's getting close to lunch time) and I also have no problem with women being very picky and selective I'm sure if the weight of men to women were to be reversed all the men would take advantage in a far more extreme manner.

What I do find annoying is the "I will shoot you if you dare to message me" type of profile

By far and away most of the messages and posts aimed at me are pleasant so I have no problem with the site in general. xx"

fair play to kgirl, giggs and naughty i've met all of them socially and found them to be very down to earth and polite not up their own arse unlike some others i met unfortunately

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By *3xymamaWoman over a year ago

Uptown Top Ranking

What I do find annoying is the "I will shoot you if you dare to message me" type of profile

By far and away most of the messages and posts aimed at me are pleasant so I have no problem with the site in general. xx

fair play to kgirl, giggs and naughty i've met all of them socially and found them to be very down to earth and polite not up their own arse unlike some others i met unfortunately "

I ain't up anyone's arse lol.... I do enough of that in work

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I find some of the women on here have massive double standards.

No offence to the ones that aren't of course x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I do find annoying is the "I will shoot you if you dare to message me" type of profile

By far and away most of the messages and posts aimed at me are pleasant so I have no problem with the site in general. xx

fair play to kgirl, giggs and naughty i've met all of them socially and found them to be very down to earth and polite not up their own arse unlike some others i met unfortunately "

As you seen Friday im defo not up my own arse .. I took the piss out of myself all night lol.. and I don't ever claim to be anything im not.

One things for sure I am farrr from perfect so don't expect my meets to be.

Happy swinging all xxx

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

met someone not long ago who on their profile go on to say how stunning they are bluh blu bluh and then says average just won't cut it for them bluh bluh bluh seen them in the flesh and they just looked like a oversized miss piggy caked in makeup i thought ffs i would rather shag a jar of warm liver get over yourselfs. they where rude as well i can't stand peeps like that i treat everyone with respect so expect respect back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Oi..you were laughing at my cooking Friday mind!!!

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

What I do find annoying is the "I will shoot you if you dare to message me" type of profile

By far and away most of the messages and posts aimed at me are pleasant so I have no problem with the site in general. xx

fair play to kgirl, giggs and naughty i've met all of them socially and found them to be very down to earth and polite not up their own arse unlike some others i met unfortunately

As you seen Friday im defo not up my own arse .. I took the piss out of myself all night lol.. and I don't ever claim to be anything im not.

One things for sure I am farrr from perfect so don't expect my meets to be.

Happy swinging all xxx"

you was awesome and funny as fuck hahaha shame you can't cook mind

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And my geographical knowledge!

I am deeply offended

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

What I do find annoying is the "I will shoot you if you dare to message me" type of profile

By far and away most of the messages and posts aimed at me are pleasant so I have no problem with the site in general. xx

fair play to kgirl, giggs and naughty i've met all of them socially and found them to be very down to earth and polite not up their own arse unlike some others i met unfortunately

As you seen Friday im defo not up my own arse .. I took the piss out of myself all night lol.. and I don't ever claim to be anything im not.

One things for sure I am farrr from perfect so don't expect my meets to be.

Happy swinging all xxx

you was awesome and funny as fuck hahaha shame you can't cook mind "

You forgetting about my banging cereal????

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

What I do find annoying is the "I will shoot you if you dare to message me" type of profile

By far and away most of the messages and posts aimed at me are pleasant so I have no problem with the site in general. xx

fair play to kgirl, giggs and naughty i've met all of them socially and found them to be very down to earth and polite not up their own arse unlike some others i met unfortunately

As you seen Friday im defo not up my own arse .. I took the piss out of myself all night lol.. and I don't ever claim to be anything im not.

One things for sure I am farrr from perfect so don't expect my meets to be.

Happy swinging all xxx

you was awesome and funny as fuck hahaha shame you can't cook mind

You forgetting about my banging cereal????"

i'm still to sample the banging cereal and being the professional i am i would need to do a taste test first sweetie lol

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Told you..I do just the right ratio of milk to cereal :')

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

"Told you..I do just the right ratio of milk to cereal :')"

there's nothing worse than soggy weetabix mind haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Told you..I do just the right ratio of milk to cereal :')

there's nothing worse than soggy weetabix mind haha

There is...... soggy weetab8z with no sugar

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"met someone not long ago who on their profile go on to say how stunning they are bluh blu bluh and then says average just won't cut it for them bluh bluh bluh seen them in the flesh and they just looked like a oversized miss piggy caked in makeup i thought ffs i would rather shag a jar of warm liver get over yourselfs. they where rude as well i can't stand peeps like that i treat everyone with respect so expect respect back "

You wanna hope they don't read this

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

"Told you..I do just the right ratio of milk to cereal :')

there's nothing worse than soggy weetabix mind haha

There is...... soggy weetab8z with no sugar

i never have sugar on weetabix i'm sweet enough

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

"Told you..I do just the right ratio of milk to cereal :')

there's nothing worse than soggy weetabix mind haha

There is...... soggy weetab8z with no sugar

i never have sugar on weetabix i'm sweet enough

You are all doing it wrong without exception. Weetabix are Devils spawn food. If you must have cereal it has to be almond nut clusters you filthy lot of mingers lmfao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You wanna hope they don't read this

Ouch

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

You wanna hope they don't read this

Ouch

speak as i find unfortunately. if they don't like it maybe it will teach them something about humility

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

You wanna hope they don't read this

Ouch

speak as i find unfortunately. if they don't like it maybe it will teach them something about humility "

In order to have some slim hope of some action from this site can I make it clear i disassociate myself from everything that Tbone has said and indeed may say in the future lmao

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You wanna hope they don't read this

Ouch

speak as i find unfortunately. if they don't like it maybe it will teach them something about humility

In order to have some slim hope of some action from this site can I make it clear i disassociate myself from everything that Tbone has said and indeed may say in the future lmao

Disassociate from him completely if I were you. .he's a swine!

I seen him in stealth mode through the viewing window on Friday. .. bloody bugga :')

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

You wanna hope they don't read this

Ouch

speak as i find unfortunately. if they don't like it maybe it will teach them something about humility

In order to have some slim hope of some action from this site can I make it clear i disassociate myself from everything that Tbone has said and indeed may say in the future lmao

Disassociate from him completely if I were you. .he's a swine!

I seen him in stealth mode through the viewing window on Friday. .. bloody bugga :') "

i'm curled up on the floor here pms hahahahahahaha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You wanna hope they don't read this

Ouch

speak as i find unfortunately. if they don't like it maybe it will teach them something about humility "

I think we all speak as we find.

But there is no need at all to be so rude and so offensive about people is there????

I know exactly who you are talking about so if I do im sure they are gona know.

And if you had taken the time to sit and chat to her/them then you would of found out they are more of what fab need.

As in lovely funny down to earth people.

I think you have over stepped the mark tbone and now I'm speaking as I find...

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You wanna hope they don't read this

Ouch

speak as i find unfortunately. if they don't like it maybe it will teach them something about humility

I think we all speak as we find.

But there is no need at all to be so rude and so offensive about people is there????

I know exactly who you are talking about so if I do im sure they are gona know.

And if you had taken the time to sit and chat to her/them then you would of found out they are more of what fab need.

As in lovely funny down to earth people.

I think you have over stepped the mark tbone and now I'm speaking as I find...

no over stepping the make is when you go say just to say hi and your met with a sinle finger thats just rude as anyone who has spoke to me will verify i'm very very respectful giggs "

You have just insulted some one I know and personally I find that rude and offensive.

Like you said in person u are respectful but over a computer it turns out your a different guy.

Maybe you should just inbox the person yourself and tell them exactly what you think of them???

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If you don't want people to respond to forum posts don't post on a PUBLIC forum.

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

so when you just go over to say hi and introduce yourself and are met with a single finger in your face thats not rude i'm very respectful giggs as you know. even if i'm not attracted to someone i would still take time out to speak to them and be polite.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"so when you just go over to say hi and introduce yourself and are met with a single finger in your face thats not rude i'm very respectful giggs as you know. even if i'm not attracted to someone i would still take time out to speak to them and be polite. "

And if it is what happened then you have the right to publicly humility that person in a open forum??????

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Is this about me?

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By *ax-BangingMan over a year ago

town

And if it is what happened then you have the right to publicly humility that person in a open forum??????

maybe my first post was ott and i apologize. its was a feeble attempt at male humor but i will be honest i've met loads of great down to earth people and they where the rudest i have met here so far.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Bloody hell you couldn't accuse giggles of being up her own arse

She is who she is and if you don't like it walk on by

I've only met her socially but love her to bits

She's always one of the first to talk to me and my partner at the socials

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Is this about me? "

Popcorn and a chair

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Because if it is, I clearly state on my profile I'm a big girl, it's not a secret and I most Deffo didnt point my finger in anyone's face.

If you had a problem with me you could have easily inboxed me, I'm awfully sorry if my type offends you, we all have personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I have just had a message off one of the girls tbone who now feels she doesn't want to attend chams anymore.

And apparently you didn't even speak to them.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Well well what a nasty comment to be made .Thought swinging was all about being social and liberal we were laughing and joking wih all we met and don't ever remember being rude to anyone we ain't like that at all .. Everyone has personal preference but to insult and be rude ain't a good sign really .. Yer we big girls we don't hide the fact but if we ain't someone's tyoe maybe they should inbox rather than a random rant anyways happy days peeps x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Well well what a nasty comment to be made .Thought swinging was all about being social and liberal we were laughing and joking wih all we met and don't ever remember being rude to anyone we ain't like that at all .. Everyone has personal preference but to insult and be rude ain't a good sign really .. Yer we big girls we don't hide the fact but if we ain't someone's tyoe maybe they should inbox rather than a random rant anyways happy days peeps x "

Well said hun. ..

And don't you both dare stop coming and doing what you enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Creased there's always one. Met some really cool people that night. Obviously none of them found us rude.

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

I think my original post has been hijacked lol. I was not talking about anyone specific and I haven't been targeted for insults anyway. My original post was about the hostile tone to some profiles. Apologies if I've opened a can of worms here that was not my intention xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I think my original post has been hijacked lol. I was not talking about anyone specific and I haven't been targeted for insults anyway. My original post was about the hostile tone to some profiles. Apologies if I've opened a can of worms here that was not my intention xx"

Your post was fine.

It's when people get insulting towards people I have met.

Worst think is that was their first ever visit to chams and are now saying they ain't going back

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Ah sorry

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

You fucking troublemaker

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By *all Mid WalesMan over a year ago

Mid Wales

as always a post with discussion someone always seems to turn it into a needless arguement, no wonder people often get fed up.

Back to original post, the tone of some profiles can be a bit harsh, whether they mean to be that way i dont know, thats the thing about messages hard to tell how they are meant.

I beleive it is their way of getting across who they would like to meet, as stated if they are going to meet it may as well be someone they fantasize or desire, (but come on ladies you know us men dont read profiles

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in ideal world, everyone would be polite, have manners and be treated with respect, but unfortunately due to idiots, some of us nice and genuine guys get pushed out and lost in the crowd

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By *iffidus OP Man over a year ago

lydney

You fucking troublemaker

Oi missp put that wooden spoon away it was all calming down and you wade in. It's gonna kick off again lmao.

It wasn't your profile I was talking about either lol x

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