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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

So as a new guy seems near impossible to get in on the action! Am I better trying out chams? Seems a bit scary for first dip into swinging life? Thoughts? X

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Best trying not to think it often leads me into trouble.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So as a new guy seems near impossible to get in on the action! Am I better trying out chams? Seems a bit scary for first dip into swinging life? Thoughts? X "

Have you tried posting a meet when you're free, maybe do some coffee meets to get those first few verifications. It's early days yet so best not to get disheartened & certainly don't show any signs of disappointment X

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By *ilthyfucks69Couple  over a year ago

Neverland

Chams i believe can be easier but there will be other men there so you got to stand out.

We have only ever met at chams for a year until recently now im all for meets at houses

Mrs

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon

I'd skip the club, and instead try to get to some of the socials.

At the club, even if you are a decent guy, you will be part of the crowd, and many couples and fems are more wary of the guys there.

At a social, because it's a "no play" environment, people feel less pressure, and are more likely to chat and give guys a chance to make an impression.

you will pick up some veries, make some friends and be in a better position to pick up party invites, or possible future club meets.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Social. If someone doesn't have veri's from people I know of I tend to stay clear personally. However as SouthWales have said at socials there's a no pressure environment and everyone is happy to chat

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks all, sounds like the general concensus is socials!

So I'm gonna have to pull my finger out and get along! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Chams i believe can be easier but there will be other men there so you got to stand out.

We have only ever met at chams for a year until recently now im all for meets at houses

Mrs"

What you mean by house meet Mrs filthy?

Sorry if I'm being completely stupid x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Aren't they being quite strict on people needing a certain amount of verification's to get into a social now? I could be wrong but maybe you should email organizers of one of the socials that you fancy first before you ditch the club idea. xx F

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Aren't they being quite strict on people needing a certain amount of verification's to get into a social now? I could be wrong but maybe you should email organizers of one of the socials that you fancy first before you ditch the club idea. xx F"

Ok thx F.

Stunning pics btw x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Aren't they being quite strict on people needing a certain amount of verification's to get into a social now? I could be wrong but maybe you should email organizers of one of the socials that you fancy first before you ditch the club idea. xx F

Ok thx F.

Stunning pics btw x"

Thank you xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Aren't they being quite strict on people needing a certain amount of verification's to get into a social now? I could be wrong but maybe you should email organizers of one of the socials that you fancy first before you ditch the club idea. xx F"

The newport singles social welcomes newbies with no veri's. Giggles set it up for exactly that reason which I am grateful as it was the best way to meet lots of great people. A large number then head to Chams afterwards so it is a great way of breaking your way in gently. I highly recommend it

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I found that social and coffee meets are the way forward for single guys, and don't expect it to happen straight it might take a few before you do get meet or party invite single guys arnt trusted so you need to build a some friendships

All the best happy swinging

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Aren't they being quite strict on people needing a certain amount of verification's to get into a social now? I could be wrong but maybe you should email organizers of one of the socials that you fancy first before you ditch the club idea. xx F

The newport singles social welcomes newbies with no veri's. Giggles set it up for exactly that reason which I am grateful as it was the best way to meet lots of great people. A large number then head to Chams afterwards so it is a great way of breaking your way in gently. I highly recommend it "

I'm working in Londonium that night!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I found that social and coffee meets are the way forward for single guys, and don't expect it to happen straight it might take a few before you do get meet or party invite single guys arnt trusted so you need to build a some friendships

All the best happy swinging"

Thanks mate

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Chams i believe can be easier but there will be other men there so you got to stand out.

We have only ever met at chams for a year until recently now im all for meets at houses

Mrs

What you mean by house meet Mrs filthy?

Sorry if I'm being completely stupid x"

They visited a person's house for a meet, but I think that's where your problem lies, you're not getting the response you need to get a 1:1 meet with a person, so I'm with the others, get to the single social when you can, focus on getting a few coffee meets under your belt, fun oftens follows on at a,later date if all goes well x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Aren't they being quite strict on people needing a certain amount of verification's to get into a social now? I could be wrong but maybe you should email organizers of one of the socials that you fancy first before you ditch the club idea. xx F

The newport singles social welcomes newbies with no veri's. Giggles set it up for exactly that reason which I am grateful as it was the best way to meet lots of great people. A large number then head to Chams afterwards so it is a great way of breaking your way in gently. I highly recommend it

I'm working in Londonium that night! "

Booooooooo!

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Chams i believe can be easier but there will be other men there so you got to stand out.

We have only ever met at chams for a year until recently now im all for meets at houses

Mrs

What you mean by house meet Mrs filthy?

Sorry if I'm being completely stupid x

They visited a person's house for a meet, but I think that's where your problem lies, you're not getting the response you need to get a 1:1 meet with a person, so I'm with the others, get to the single social when you can, focus on getting a few coffee meets under your belt, fun oftens follows on at a,later date if all goes well x"

Thought so! Just checking! X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Aren't they being quite strict on people needing a certain amount of verification's to get into a social now? I could be wrong but maybe you should email organizers of one of the socials that you fancy first before you ditch the club idea. xx F

The newport singles social welcomes newbies with no veri's. Giggles set it up for exactly that reason which I am grateful as it was the best way to meet lots of great people. A large number then head to Chams afterwards so it is a great way of breaking your way in gently. I highly recommend it

I'm working in Londonium that night!

Booooooooo!"

I know right! In so limites socially! I work in VIP security so majority of my work is weekend stuff! Especially the well paid ones lol.

I might just give up! lol.

Anyone got a spare monks uniform? Lol x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x"

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x"

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else??????? "

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

"

im got getting stroppy at all...

you get out of swinging what you put in.

put nothing into it and you get nothing out of it.

And it's so hard for a single guy you need to stand out from the others.

The last singles social had a 35 guys no show.

someone also asked a few weeks back to have some one take him to chams.i offered and he didn't even turn up never mind a txt to say he wasn't coming

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

im got getting stroppy at all...

you get out of swinging what you put in.

put nothing into it and you get nothing out of it.

And it's so hard for a single guy you need to stand out from the others.

The last singles social had a 35 guys no show.

someone also asked a few weeks back to have some one take him to chams.i offered and he didn't even turn up never mind a txt to say he wasn't coming "

I might just stick to Revs lol!

That was very rude of him to not show up mind. Bet you had plenty of company inside mind. X

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

I've never been to a club and and my (probably) flawed misconception is that it would be full to the rafters with single guys all trying to get it on with the 2 couples I'd love to be told I'm wrong. Anyone with a bit more experience like to enlighten me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

im got getting stroppy at all...

you get out of swinging what you put in.

put nothing into it and you get nothing out of it.

And it's so hard for a single guy you need to stand out from the others.

The last singles social had a 35 guys no show.

someone also asked a few weeks back to have some one take him to chams.i offered and he didn't even turn up never mind a txt to say he wasn't coming

I might just stick to Revs lol!

That was very rude of him to not show up mind. Bet you had plenty of company inside mind. X"

I prefer to go in on my own but im willing to go into a club with someone who has never been.

And I don't expect anything.

I do it to be friendly

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I've never been to a club and and my (probably) flawed misconception is that it would be full to the rafters with single guys all trying to get it on with the 2 couples I'd love to be told I'm wrong. Anyone with a bit more experience like to enlighten me "

Your so wrong

Maybe you need to try a club??

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

im got getting stroppy at all...

you get out of swinging what you put in.

put nothing into it and you get nothing out of it.

And it's so hard for a single guy you need to stand out from the others.

The last singles social had a 35 guys no show.

someone also asked a few weeks back to have some one take him to chams.i offered and he didn't even turn up never mind a txt to say he wasn't coming

I might just stick to Revs lol!

That was very rude of him to not show up mind. Bet you had plenty of company inside mind. X

I prefer to go in on my own but im willing to go into a club with someone who has never been.

And I don't expect anything.

I do it to be friendly"

You want one of those blue peter badges don't u! Xx

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney


"I've never been to a club and and my (probably) flawed misconception is that it would be full to the rafters with single guys all trying to get it on with the 2 couples I'd love to be told I'm wrong. Anyone with a bit more experience like to enlighten me

Your so wrong

Maybe you need to try a club?? "

I went to my first social last week and nearly shat my pants then. I don't think clubs are my bag lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I've never been to a club and and my (probably) flawed misconception is that it would be full to the rafters with single guys all trying to get it on with the 2 couples I'd love to be told I'm wrong. Anyone with a bit more experience like to enlighten me

Your so wrong

Maybe you need to try a club??

I went to my first social last week and nearly shat my pants then. I don't think clubs are my bag lol "

Pant shatting- Sexy! Lol U pull? Lol

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

Fighting them off.

With my shit stained strides

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Fighting them off.

With my shit stained strides "

You are my hero biff!!!

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

And that's how I'll stay ................................ until the day we meet

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

im got getting stroppy at all...

you get out of swinging what you put in.

put nothing into it and you get nothing out of it.

And it's so hard for a single guy you need to stand out from the others.

The last singles social had a 35 guys no show.

someone also asked a few weeks back to have some one take him to chams.i offered and he didn't even turn up never mind a txt to say he wasn't coming

I might just stick to Revs lol!

That was very rude of him to not show up mind. Bet you had plenty of company inside mind. X

I prefer to go in on my own but im willing to go into a club with someone who has never been.

And I don't expect anything.

I do it to be friendly

You want one of those blue peter badges don't u! Xx"

Actually no I don't.

I do it as I was new once so know how hard it is for newbies!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

im got getting stroppy at all...

you get out of swinging what you put in.

put nothing into it and you get nothing out of it.

And it's so hard for a single guy you need to stand out from the others.

The last singles social had a 35 guys no show.

someone also asked a few weeks back to have some one take him to chams.i offered and he didn't even turn up never mind a txt to say he wasn't coming

I might just stick to Revs lol!

That was very rude of him to not show up mind. Bet you had plenty of company inside mind. X

I prefer to go in on my own but im willing to go into a club with someone who has never been.

And I don't expect anything.

I do it to be friendly

You want one of those blue peter badges don't u! Xx

Actually no I don't.

I do it as I was new once so know how hard it is for newbies!!!!!!!"

Giggles I remember my first social and my first night in Chams. .always welcoming. .always puts you at ease. .. and make you puss ur self in the process ya crazy loon

The singles social idea of yours was perfect for ppl with no veries needing to meet ppl.... xx

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

so people have suggested a number of things to you but you can't do weekends or are busy midweek

So when is best for you or are you just looking for a quick fuck like everyone else???????

Don't get stroppy lil miss giggles!

I've taken on board everyone's feedback and I'm very grateful!

I'm just a very busy boy!

A quick fuck would be ideal!

Know anyone up for it lol???

That was a joke before I get slated!

im got getting stroppy at all...

you get out of swinging what you put in.

put nothing into it and you get nothing out of it.

And it's so hard for a single guy you need to stand out from the others.

The last singles social had a 35 guys no show.

someone also asked a few weeks back to have some one take him to chams.i offered and he didn't even turn up never mind a txt to say he wasn't coming

I might just stick to Revs lol!

That was very rude of him to not show up mind. Bet you had plenty of company inside mind. X

I prefer to go in on my own but im willing to go into a club with someone who has never been.

And I don't expect anything.

I do it to be friendly

You want one of those blue peter badges don't u! Xx

Actually no I don't.

I do it as I was new once so know how hard it is for newbies!!!!!!!

Giggles I remember my first social and my first night in Chams. .always welcoming. .always puts you at ease. .. and make you puss ur self in the process ya crazy loon

The singles social idea of yours was perfect for ppl with no veries needing to meet ppl.... xx"

I was a shy and new the single social was very good way to see people that wouldn't normal reply to you

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Ah just go to a club, jump in at the deep end. Worked for me

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Ah just go to a club, jump in at the deep end. Worked for me "

Lol Go get em gal lol

Him

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

I'm too shy lol. I'm some way away from going to a club lol. I'd have to be half soaked which kinda defeats the object lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x"

I think you're just going to have to accept that it's not going to fall in your lap, lots of suggestions have been proviided & none seem to fit, so maybe wait until they do. At the moment OP this thread is making you look like a thousand other single guys here, looking for the occadional fuck when there's nothing else to do. I don't mean that in a harsh way, because thats how some people like to run their fun, but it doesn't endear you to e many who engage in the forums. All the best in your search X

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

I think you're just going to have to accept that it's not going to fall in your lap, lots of suggestions have been proviided & none seem to fit, so maybe wait until they do. At the moment OP this thread is making you look like a thousand other single guys here, looking for the occadional fuck when there's nothing else to do. I don't mean that in a harsh way, because thats how some people like to run their fun, but it doesn't endear you to e many who engage in the forums. All the best in your search X"

With respect you clearly aren't reading then.

I'd love to attend every social etc but I have commitments and a busy life.

This makes up an extremely small part.

Too small at the moment- granted lol.

But I am taking on board the feedback just can't jump up and do a great deal about it straight away!

So put your whip back down yeah! Xxx

I'm sure you mean well x

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

I think you're just going to have to accept that it's not going to fall in your lap, lots of suggestions have been proviided & none seem to fit, so maybe wait until they do. At the moment OP this thread is making you look like a thousand other single guys here, looking for the occadional fuck when there's nothing else to do. I don't mean that in a harsh way, because thats how some people like to run their fun, but it doesn't endear you to e many who engage in the forums. All the best in your search X

With respect you clearly aren't reading then.

I'd love to attend every social etc but I have commitments and a busy life.

This makes up an extremely small part.

Too small at the moment- granted lol.

But I am taking on board the feedback just can't jump up and do a great deal about it straight away!

So put your whip back down yeah! Xxx

I'm sure you mean well x"

Why do you throw your toys out of the pram when someone try to help you???????

And you also start to be a bit rude! !!!!!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So as a new guy seems near impossible to get in on the action! Am I better trying out chams? Seems a bit scary for first dip into swinging life? Thoughts? X "

Where simply trying to help you with the question you asked...

And turns out you could of answered it yourself as it is impossible for you as you don't have the time!!!!

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

Miss giggles is a lawyer methinks.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

I think you're just going to have to accept that it's not going to fall in your lap, lots of suggestions have been proviided & none seem to fit, so maybe wait until they do. At the moment OP this thread is making you look like a thousand other single guys here, looking for the occadional fuck when there's nothing else to do. I don't mean that in a harsh way, because thats how some people like to run their fun, but it doesn't endear you to e many who engage in the forums. All the best in your search X

With respect you clearly aren't reading then.

I'd love to attend every social etc but I have commitments and a busy life.

This makes up an extremely small part.

Too small at the moment- granted lol.

But I am taking on board the feedback just can't jump up and do a great deal about it straight away!

So put your whip back down yeah! Xxx

I'm sure you mean well x

Why do you throw your toys out of the pram when someone try to help you???????

And you also start to be a bit rude! !!!!!!!!!"

That's not rude just direct.

I got the help bit.

Your message was just telling me I expected stuff to fall in my lap.

Now u really r on your high horse x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So as a new guy seems near impossible to get in on the action! Am I better trying out chams? Seems a bit scary for first dip into swinging life? Thoughts? X

Where simply trying to help you with the question you asked...

And turns out you could of answered it yourself as it is impossible for you as you don't have the time!!!! "

I'm busy for the next couple of weeks not eternity! Jesus woman! Your hard work! I feel like we are in a relationship! Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Miss giggles is a lawyer methinks. "

Miss giggles is a politician me thinks! Lol

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

I think you're just going to have to accept that it's not going to fall in your lap, lots of suggestions have been proviided & none seem to fit, so maybe wait until they do. At the moment OP this thread is making you look like a thousand other single guys here, looking for the occadional fuck when there's nothing else to do. I don't mean that in a harsh way, because thats how some people like to run their fun, but it doesn't endear you to e many who engage in the forums. All the best in your search X

With respect you clearly aren't reading then.

I'd love to attend every social etc but I have commitments and a busy life.

This makes up an extremely small part.

Too small at the moment- granted lol.

But I am taking on board the feedback just can't jump up and do a great deal about it straight away!

So put your whip back down yeah! Xxx

I'm sure you mean well x

Why do you throw your toys out of the pram when someone try to help you???????

And you also start to be a bit rude! !!!!!!!!!

That's not rude just direct.

I got the help bit.

Your message was just telling me I expected stuff to fall in my lap.

Now u really r on your high horse x"

Um I didn't write that

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney


"Miss giggles is a lawyer methinks.

Miss giggles is a politician me thinks! Lol"

Or she could be a fictitious character created by the genius that was Roger Hargreaves. Nah your probably right a politician is more likely

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"So as a new guy seems near impossible to get in on the action! Am I better trying out chams? Seems a bit scary for first dip into swinging life? Thoughts? X

Where simply trying to help you with the question you asked...

And turns out you could of answered it yourself as it is impossible for you as you don't have the time!!!!

I'm busy for the next couple of weeks not eternity! Jesus woman! Your hard work! I feel like we are in a relationship! Lol"

I'm not hard work at all...

I just think your just another one of the guys who wants a quick fuck when and if.

And that your not actually intrested at swinging.

But maybe im wrong but to be fair we hear it all the time

Anyways good luck with your search

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Miss giggles is a lawyer methinks.

Miss giggles is a politician me thinks! Lol

Or she could be a fictitious character created by the genius that was Roger Hargreaves. Nah your probably right a politician is more likely "

No I'm actually me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So as a new guy seems near impossible to get in on the action! Am I better trying out chams? Seems a bit scary for first dip into swinging life? Thoughts? X

Where simply trying to help you with the question you asked...

And turns out you could of answered it yourself as it is impossible for you as you don't have the time!!!!

I'm busy for the next couple of weeks not eternity! Jesus woman! Your hard work! I feel like we are in a relationship! Lol

I'm not hard work at all...

I just think your just another one of the guys who wants a quick fuck when and if.

And that your not actually intrested at swinging.

But maybe im wrong but to be fair we hear it all the time

Anyways good luck with your search"

I get your point giggles.

The thing is I kinda need to suck it and see. How can I tell if it's for me before I've tried it?

Anyway thx for all the advice. You didn't need to take your time to reply so I appreciate it.

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

You can't be me. I'm me. Unless I'm not. Shit twilight zone

Welcome to the world of _iffidus a man who thought he was him but turned out to be a woman who liked to be tickled. Welcome too the twilight zone

De da de da de da

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

I may have got that wrong I'm not certain if miss giggles was the giggler or the gigglee my bad

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"You can't be me. I'm me. Unless I'm not. Shit twilight zone

Welcome to the world of _iffidus a man who thought he was him but turned out to be a woman who liked to be tickled. Welcome too the twilight zone

De da de da de da "

You my man are a legend!

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

You sir are too kind

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By *thwalescplCouple  over a year ago

brecon


"You sir are too kind "

Jeez guys, get a room lol!

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

Shit say something manly. They're onto us

Grrr football was good last night I thought arsenal were unlucky they gave themselves too much to do after the first leg.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Shit say something manly. They're onto us

Grrr football was good last night I thought arsenal were unlucky they gave themselves too much to do after the first leg. "

Ummmm engines, sheds, pit bulls, kebabs, Stella!

We good?

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

Good recovery babe.

Bollocks

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Good recovery babe.

Bollocks "

Soooo about that blowjob?

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

Yeah sorry about that I thought I would be able to swallow it. Turns out I've got a horrific gag reflex

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Yeah sorry about that I thought I would be able to swallow it. Turns out I've got a horrific gag reflex "

I guess the rimming made up for it.

7/10 overall xx

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

No blow backs next time

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"No blow backs next time "

#Lost for words

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By *iffidusMan  over a year ago

lydney

I win lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"I win lol"

Can't argue with that.

I think I'll walk the dog now.

See if I can spot any swingers in bushes

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"I believe there's a midweek social in Swansea tonight, check the thread x

Busy tonight! Meeting a friend!

If u know what I mean lol. Not off fab tho x

I think you're just going to have to accept that it's not going to fall in your lap, lots of suggestions have been proviided & none seem to fit, so maybe wait until they do. At the moment OP this thread is making you look like a thousand other single guys here, looking for the occadional fuck when there's nothing else to do. I don't mean that in a harsh way, because thats how some people like to run their fun, but it doesn't endear you to e many who engage in the forums. All the best in your search X

With respect you clearly aren't reading then.

I'd love to attend every social etc but I have commitments and a busy life.

This makes up an extremely small part.

Too small at the moment- granted lol.

But I am taking on board the feedback just can't jump up and do a great deal about it straight away!

So put your whip back down yeah! Xxx

I'm sure you mean well x"

There was no whip intended, I merely suggested you be patient, duly chastened I will step back again & yet again, all the best in your search x

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Thanks oopsa x

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