Well from what I can see you look like an incredibly sexy woman. A lot come from inner personality and just being honest. Some people find it easier to write what they want, as hearing their own voice say their most personal and private fantasies can often be a bit inhibiting and very often we can be very shy of admitting to such personal things.
If you're lucky though you will be with someone who is patient and understanding and maybe a bit of a kindered spirit, possibly even with a similar mutual fantasy that they want to share.
If they are worth meeting and you feel comfortable with them, then it can be fun to share fantasies and discover more about each other, which can often be a huge turn on in itself when you start to unlock each other's sexy secrets. |
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I never engage in those comversations, it generally indicates the guy is wanking at the fantasy of the meet. In my experience, after 5 years here, I've found those are the guys less likely to meet in the flesh, the genuine guys generally want to discuss those things face to face, or find out for themselves. Thats not to say I don't engage in that chat once I know a guy, it can be very horny as a build up to the real meet  |
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i love talking dirty during a play meet and i like the build up dirty talk ...but im with oopsa hate the messages when someone messages " well sexy what would u like to do to me " ...my answer is always " apart from blocking u not much really " |
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Luckily in this situation i have already met this guy  he's lovely too but I'm just rubbish at winding him up, thankyou for your advice all very kind x |
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Haha it sometimes stumps you doesn't it lol...on text im filth...on phone quite dirty..on Skype. ...im shy as!! The guy im meeting at the moment is in califiornia on holiday. ..Skypes me every day and as soon as he talks naughty to me I blush and get lost for words lol.. just find it hard when he's staring down the phone at me  |
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