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over a year ago
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My personal view Hannah, would be at least 6 but given that I can't even find 6 guys willing to meet me, I went with 3 tonight, just in case you bumped me for a better offer  |
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Now... don't jump on me for this but...
How would you feel if you were someone's "fallback", especially if there is going to be more than one?
"Please, take a ticket from the machine and wait inline until your number is called!"
Sounds like something only a woman could get away with lol!
Personally, we have NEVER had a no-show in 6 years, and I think that's down to our selection process.
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"when planning a meet ...how many would it be acceptable to have on a standby list just incase the timewaster curse strikes ??"
I've never had a standby list lol......
if they don't turn up its there loss lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its always nice to get a reply saying thanks but we think we have arranged something, but will let you know. Its good manners.
It doesn't matter if you find a meet in the meantime, its their loss. |
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I dont see why they wont turn up, as a single male on here who has been on the swinging scene a number of years i have never failed to turn up to meet someone, even though its been socials or full on no talking play, just gives us single males a harder time to find someone to play with and have a good time with, we never get a chance because of people like that gggrrrr grips my shit, i would happily be on a couple of peoples back up list on here but would much prefer to be on the top of the list lol |
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"Now... don't jump on me for this but...
How would you feel if you were someone's "fallback", especially if there is going to be more than one?
"Please, take a ticket from the machine and wait inline until your number is called!"
Sounds like something only a woman could get away with lol!
Personally, we have NEVER had a no-show in 6 years, and I think that's down to our selection process.
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This...I would be absolutely horrified if I was ttold I was somebody's 'fallback'....how awful! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Now... don't jump on me for this but...
How would you feel if you were someone's "fallback", especially if there is going to be more than one?
"Please, take a ticket from the machine and wait inline until your number is called!"
Sounds like something only a woman could get away with lol!
Personally, we have NEVER had a no-show in 6 years, and I think that's down to our selection process.
This...I would be absolutely horrified if I was ttold I was somebody's 'fallback'....how awful! "
Me too, not being anyone's plan B   |
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By *w72Man
over a year ago
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"bit lost , why not just phone him to make sure he's on his way ?? connie x"
I meet a lady once who seemed absolutely amazed I was definitely turning up. I don't understand people who arrange and don't bother. |
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In fairness if you're open and honest about the list then its personal choice as to whether you agree or not! But you do run the risk that they won't be fully committed to meeting either.....Hannah its sounds like too much hard work tbh I'm not organised enough anyways  |
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Sorry to burst your bubble but she was taking the piss & wanted to see just how many of the moral brigade came out lol, like I said, it was fun while it lasted X
Hmmmm what next  |
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By *w72Man
over a year ago
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"Sorry to burst your bubble but she was taking the piss & wanted to see just how many of the moral brigade came out lol, like I said, it was fun while it lasted X
Hmmmm what next "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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fook all wrong with having a backup I had 15 offers for backup for tonight because my meet hasn't been online for 21 hours ,so he has missed out now and another lucky guy gets to spend the whole night with me xx |
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"when planning a meet ...how many would it be acceptable to have on a standby list just incase the timewaster curse strikes ??"
Depends on how many people's time you wish to waste should your meet turn up as planned!
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"fook all wrong with having a backup I had 15 offers for backup for tonight because my meet hasn't been online for 21 hours ,so he has missed out now and another lucky guy gets to spend the whole night with me xx"
Lucky guy  |
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I don't have enough interest to have a standby, I was being a fantasist, yet again 