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over a year ago
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Ok, so I've been meaning to go to Chams for a while with a group of girls but w're all so busy we haven't had a chance. So I'm thinking I may just go on my own in the next few weeks.
Never been to a club before so I'd love some advice. What's the best night for me to go, any etiquette I should be aware of, how comfortable is it, how is it for single girls, should I maybe go with someone as it's my first time... any advice would be fab as I have tons of questions!
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"Ok, so I've been meaning to go to Chams for a while with a group of girls but w're all so busy we haven't had a chance. So I'm thinking I may just go on my own in the next few weeks.
Never been to a club before so I'd love some advice. What's the best night for me to go, any etiquette I should be aware of, how comfortable is it, how is it for single girls, should I maybe go with someone as it's my first time... any advice would be fab as I have tons of questions!
TIA "
hi first of all dont go on your own if you can go th darlstone more mixture a single lady will be inundated with men and expected to perform why else is she there. there are protocols but unfortunately like all things they get forgotten shame i am above your age limit or ide take you i am a master on the dark side (bdsm).so have a lot more respect for women and there wishes but my advice is dont go alone team up with someone you can trust to look after you and beware of the twats who tear condoms or bareback just be safe
ps if you want any advice add me
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Been to Newport few times , my experience is that it very relaxed there for men and women , nice place,, staff are brill , don't have to do anything u don't want to.. I don't see a problem of u going on your own., any single lady's that have been who can have a chat, give there view on it.. Were all here to help I think.. X Steve  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Hey hun andy and I have been to Newport a few times. I think it would he better for you to go with someone rather than on your own. Tell you what I will message you in a bit and we can have a chat x |
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By *eerobCouple
over a year ago
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Going with someone has to be the best way forward, or we feel feel go on a couples only night, single girls are allowed then aswell, so you get the flavour of the place first. Evenif ypu do go on your own on any other night, let the staff know you are new and im sure they will look after you. X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Come to the singles social on 20th feb and some of us will be going to Chams afterwards? Always other newbie's going in and that way you will have met a few people before you go in. We can look after you - not that you will need it.
It was how I attempted my first time and it was brilliant. |
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"Come to the singles social on 20th feb and some of us will be going to Chams afterwards? Always other newbie's going in and that way you will have met a few people before you go in. We can look after you - not that you will need it.
It was how I attempted my first time and it was brilliant."
This! 
This is how Scarlett and I started going. I think the high entrance costs for single men means a lack of acceptable suitors on a normal Friday at Chams. Chams Newport is only open Friday nights for heterosexual action. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Come to the singles social on 20th feb and some of us will be going to Chams afterwards? Always other newbie's going in and that way you will have met a few people before you go in. We can look after you - not that you will need it.
It was how I attempted my first time and it was brilliant.
This!
This is how Scarlett and I started going. I think the high entrance costs for single men means a lack of acceptable suitors on a normal Friday at Chams. Chams Newport is only open Friday nights for heterosexual action. "
Some excellent advice, I have to add Chams Newport staff could not have been more accommodating or helpful when I attended a few months back, the singles social would be an ideal opportunity not only to attend a club but also to network and find potential club buddies.
Keep an eye out for Giggle's "club invasion" if you want to travel further afield |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for the advice, I really appreciate it guys.
not sure if I will do anything on my first visit as I just want to see what it's like, but I've just put my name down for the singles social :D |
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"Ok, so I've been meaning to go to Chams for a while with a group of girls but w're all so busy we haven't had a chance. So I'm thinking I may just go on my own in the next few weeks.
Never been to a club before so I'd love some advice. What's the best night for me to go, any etiquette I should be aware of, how comfortable is it, how is it for single girls, should I maybe go with someone as it's my first time... any advice would be fab as I have tons of questions!
TIA
hi first of all dont go on your own if you can go th darlstone more mixture a single lady will be inundated with men and expected to perform why else is she there. there are protocols but unfortunately like all things they get forgotten shame i am above your age limit or ide take you i am a master on the dark side (bdsm).so have a lot more respect for women and there wishes but my advice is dont go alone team up with someone you can trust to look after you and beware of the twats who tear condoms or bareback just be safe
ps if you want any advice add me
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What a load of crap--- as a single fem who loves the club scene I can tell you Chams Darlaston has been my best experiences of a club as single fem...the guys are (mostly) genuine and polite and no one has ever tried to be disrespectful to me while there and I go alone every time...I suggest you chat online with others who are going before so you at least know some faces but the staff will look out for you if you want them to....as to the chap who made that comment....shame on you for trying to discourage a single fem from the club scene....everyone should have their own right to comment but one persons opinion (not very accurate I may add) is just that....
If you wish to attend when other single fems going Hun just check meets and say hi....and I hope you have loads of fun xxx |
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"Ok, so I've been meaning to go to Chams for a while with a group of girls but w're all so busy we haven't had a chance. So I'm thinking I may just go on my own in the next few weeks.
Never been to a club before so I'd love some advice. What's the best night for me to go, any etiquette I should be aware of, how comfortable is it, how is it for single girls, should I maybe go with someone as it's my first time... any advice would be fab as I have tons of questions!
TIA
hi first of all dont go on your own if you can go th darlstone more mixture a single lady will be inundated with men and expected to perform why else is she there. there are protocols but unfortunately like all things they get forgotten shame i am above your age limit or ide take you i am a master on the dark side (bdsm).so have a lot more respect for women and there wishes but my advice is dont go alone team up with someone you can trust to look after you and beware of the twats who tear condoms or bareback just be safe
ps if you want any advice add me
What a load of crap--- as a single fem who loves the club scene I can tell you Chams Darlaston has been my best experiences of a club as single fem...the guys are (mostly) genuine and polite and no one has ever tried to be disrespectful to me while there and I go alone every time...I suggest you chat online with others who are going before so you at least know some faces but the staff will look out for you if you want them to....as to the chap who made that comment....shame on you for trying to discourage a single fem from the club scene....everyone should have their own right to comment but one persons opinion (not very accurate I may add) is just that....
If you wish to attend when other single fems going Hun just check meets and say hi....and I hope you have loads of fun xxx "
sorry i did not mean darlston was like that thats why i said go to darlstone. newport can be a meat fest
darlstone or other clubs around brum are good and would recomend them i hear newport is getting worse less people going wales needs a new club does darlstone still open in the daytime ive got work in brum again soon and will be revisiting  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I attend chams newport regular on my own..I have no prob with a meat feast at all..
your more than welcome to come along and have a nose with me Wether it's after the singles social or if I go b4 hand...
just drop me a message  |
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By *3xymamaWoman
over a year ago
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I go to Chams in Darlaston and Newport. I go on my own mostly. It means I can do my own thing as and when I want to. Just be sociable and chat. I don't always play when I go but I enjoy the social aspect of the clubs. PM me if you have any questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've often thought about going to chams but have not plucked up the courage. I think that this issue affects all single people.
Think I must try the singles night and bite the bullet and go - if anyone wants to hold my hand come and say hi |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I attend chams newport regular on my own..I have no prob with a meat feast at all..
your more than welcome to come along and have a nose with me Wether it's after the singles social or if I go b4 hand...
just drop me a message "
Be good if you would hold my hsbc on my visit to chams please giggles |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I attend chams newport regular on my own..I have no prob with a meat feast at all..
your more than welcome to come along and have a nose with me Wether it's after the singles social or if I go b4 hand...
just drop me a message
Be good if you would hold my hsbc on my visit to chams please giggles "
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By (user no longer on site)
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I could never go to a club on my own, I'd feel like a prize lemon. Deffo go with someone!
Or stick your name on the singles social and come with us lot. Probably your best opportunity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I could never go to a club on my own, I'd feel like a prize lemon. Deffo go with someone!
Or stick your name on the singles social and come with us lot. Probably your best opportunity."
Thsnks, I've put my name down for the singles social. I go out on my own sometimes so I'm not bothered about that bit. Just wanna be prepared |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could never go to a club on my own, I'd feel like a prize lemon. Deffo go with someone!
Or stick your name on the singles social and come with us lot. Probably your best opportunity.
Thsnks, I've put my name down for the singles social. I go out on my own sometimes so I'm not bothered about that bit. Just wanna be prepared "
hey hun have spoken to Heidi if i'm well enough Friday i'd be up for going with all the girls xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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Ye she messaged me hun. I've had just about enough of cancelling and putting off my plans so baring death or missing limbs (ok maybe nog even then...) whenever everyone is available I'm there. Oh and it's been three and a half MONTHS!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ye she messaged me hun. I've had just about enough of cancelling and putting off my plans so baring death or missing limbs (ok maybe nog even then...) whenever everyone is available I'm there. Oh and it's been three and a half MONTHS!!"
well that's a crime lol i'm hoping to be well enough for it cause I could do with some fun myself x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you're not, what about first week of Feb? Xxx"
yeah that could be do able hun give me until say Wednesday to see if i'm better if I am i'd be up for Friday if not beginning of feb it is x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I could never go to a club on my own, I'd feel like a prize lemon. Deffo go with someone!
Or stick your name on the singles social and come with us lot. Probably your best opportunity.
Thsnks, I've put my name down for the singles social. I go out on my own sometimes so I'm not bothered about that bit. Just wanna be prepared "
Hi just wondering if I'd be able to tag along one time if I can make it? Looking for some courage as I'm not as brave as you being happy to go alone. Would love to get on here more and get to know new people |
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By (user no longer on site)
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We have been quite a few times and have always had a good time..... but the single men can be a pain, so just make it clear if you are interested in playing with them from the startxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I go as single lady and i fully understand it can be very scary and daunting. But chams in Darlaston is a great place. Staff are lovey and will look out for you.
I do think it probably best to find someone to go with the first time. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Does anybody know what is the cut off time for getting in to Chams pls ?
as far as im aware there isn't one So its ok to go at 11 pm ish ?"
yeah that's ok I've gone there b4 now that late |
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