Attraction has to be there somewhere.....? im.not perfect so dont expect my meets to be... but has to be some physical attraction there...that said an absolute stunner may not do it for me either if there was no.click or chemistry there x |
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Agree with other's, there has to be some kind of attraction there...I once met with a very good looking, fit guy, who was a lifeguard, body to die for etc...but personality of a gnat!!!  |
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Sometimes you meet someone who exudes charm, confidence and charisma and just makes you want to rip their clothes off regardless of what they look like. Rarely, you might be able to glean those qualities from a well written profile but I think in this world, attraction is based on first glance at a pic. So on this site, far more than in the vanilla world, looks are important.  |
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"Sometimes you meet someone who exudes charm, confidence and charisma and just makes you want to rip their clothes off regardless of what they look like. Rarely, you might be able to glean those qualities from a well written profile but I think in this world, attraction is based on first glance at a pic. So on this site, far more than in the vanilla world, looks are important. "
I totally agree |
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There has to be an initial attraction to move me to want to meet, that wouldn't usually be classic good looks, but it could be a sense of humour, good banter, a well wriitten & witty profile or any number of things that lead to a connection. If looks/attraction weren't important we'd all just be shagging without the need for profiles or pics x |
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"There has to be an initial attraction to move me to want to meet, that wouldn't usually be classic good looks, but it could be a sense of humour, good banter, a well wriitten & witty profile or any number of things that lead to a connection. If looks/attraction weren't important we'd all just be shagging without the need for profiles or pics x"
I totally agree. But I have to say that there are a lot of profiles on here (many of them 'single' males but not only) with no pics and little wording and their owners appear to expect that people will be happy to shag them without any sense of who they are or what the are like!  |
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Yea looks do matter as there must be an initial attraction for me to be interested but they must be combined with a cracking sense of humour and ability to banter. I don't ask for much  |
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I personally think that although looks are important as i dont see how you could get turned on if there is no attraction at all, it isnt as important as it would be in "real life"! Ive always been ridiculously fussy with partners and im not like that on here at all. I find on here im more concerned with hygiene and cleanliness lol Mrs sx |
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Sexual chemistry is more important than looks. Thats why meeting in person is important to us as you cant tell if thats there online. Face photos dont show sex appeal and confidence. x |
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"I've said it before and I will say it again lol...
personality over anything for me you just have to look at my exs "
I got 2 x hubbies both yukky better go for personality x |
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There has to be an attraction for me even just to meet socially. So many people complain of Timewasters unless there is an attraction I couldn't take it to the next level it's just best to be honest x |
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