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Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.   |
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over a year ago
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When we set Andy's single profile up that is the first thing that I wrote "
Well let's be honest I am in a relationship". Like you said women get to make their own minds up then as to what they want to do x |
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Lots of people lie about their age too. Not naming anyone but can be rather off putting when you expect to meet a 45 year old and he is obviously a lot older |
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"Lots of people lie about their age too. Not naming anyone but can be rather off putting when you expect to meet a 45 year old and he is obviously a lot older "
That they do huni I personally don't see why they do way I see it if one is looking after one self surely it's better to be told u look gd for ur age rather then lie. That's my motto anyway xx |
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"It's not just women who do that lol. Guys do it as well lol  "
Guys I was on about hun I've yet to meet a lady who's has lied about her age if I'm honest xx |
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"It's not just women who do that lol. Guys do it as well lol
Guys I was on about hun I've yet to meet a lady who's has lied about her age if I'm honest xx
Lol I know a few fems that do xx. "
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"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site. "
I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible  |
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"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.
I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible "
Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X |
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"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.
I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible
Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X"
I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies.  |
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"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.
I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible
Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X
I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies. "
I had the same but lucky it was only 6 months.
wife turned up and i knew nothing.
that's why I decided to do clubs and partys as much more less hassle.happy to say it's been well over a year now and I have bounced back
you will get there hun but like you said I for one don't trust no1 and i dont believe anything no one says anymore.
chin up hun ur worth more  |
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Well if a certain person I met had been honest
maybe I wouldn't have met
but after meeting 3times
Then finding out seemed pointless then
The damage had been done
As I was honest about being single!  |
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"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.
I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible
Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X
I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies.
I had the same but lucky it was only 6 months.
wife turned up and i knew nothing.
that's why I decided to do clubs and partys as much more less hassle.happy to say it's been well over a year now and I have bounced back
you will get there hun but like you said I for one don't trust no1 and i dont believe anything no one says anymore.
chin up hun ur worth more "
Defo agree. Parties and clubs are easier. If it wasn't for friends I'd met through here I would of been a wreck. You know, I would still be oblivious to his marriage if I hadn't found out myself. He never volunteered the information.
Let us honest peeps have fun and the liers stick with each other  |
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"Just wondering why some people on here feel the need to hide the fact they are either married or in a relationship. It seem to be becoming more and more of a trend for some reason. Personally I would much rather know what situation the person is in so I can make an informed decision as whether I want to meet them or not. I don't judge people on the cannot accommodate statement as there may be a valid reason for it but there are other give away signs that are not rocket science to work out when they haven't been truthful to begin with. Just don't understand why they feel the need for the deceit on a swinging site.
I was in a relationship with a guy I adored for 20 months. Met some of you lovely people at couple of socials in Cardiff, but found out he was married and had been for 15 years but only got away with me as he worked in Staines during the week and went home weekends. We stayed in a hotel the 2 socials I came too so wasn't a problem. Was destroyed but now picked myself up and enjoying being single and having lots of fun. Couldn't understand why someone would be so deceitful but then again I was gullible
Because you wanted to believe & probably, like me you didn't want to absorb the little clues,the main thing is you're moving on wiser as a result X
I did and he was a great lier. I think I was his excuse to live out his fantasies. Just hope other women don't get caught in his web. It's made me a stronger more confident woman, but wary of men. It's sad people can't be honest but then again you can only feel sorry for them if they have to live their life in a tangle of lies.
I had the same but lucky it was only 6 months.
wife turned up and i knew nothing.
that's why I decided to do clubs and partys as much more less hassle.happy to say it's been well over a year now and I have bounced back
you will get there hun but like you said I for one don't trust no1 and i dont believe anything no one says anymore.
chin up hun ur worth more
Defo agree. Parties and clubs are easier. If it wasn't for friends I'd met through here I would of been a wreck. You know, I would still be oblivious to his marriage if I hadn't found out myself. He never volunteered the information.
Let us honest peeps have fun and the liers stick with each other "
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I know xx I was chatting to this lady on a single profile the other day giving it all the come on bla bla etc etc... At the end of the night she was like right I'm off to spend time with my husband... I was like ok mmmmmmmm I mean at least she was honest but still she could a said at start..... It was like finding sprouts in my Christmas stocking |
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"I know xx I was chatting to this lady on a single profile the other day giving it all the come on bla bla etc etc... At the end of the night she was like right I'm off to spend time with my husband... I was like ok mmmmmmmm I mean at least she was honest but still she could a said at start..... It was like finding sprouts in my Christmas stocking "
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