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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

Had a fab night at Chams - attended with a gorgeous guy for some fun .I don't know if anyone experienced what we did but the single males which tended to be the same ones were a pain ! At one stage as I was enjoying being fucked by my partner I has one literally right at the side of me and went to take my hand in order to play with his cock - no means no . please guys respect what others want if they give you a sign to join in then fine but it's not a free for all.. xxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Hiya when came over to u it was just us 3 there and I loved watching u fuck in the jucuzio that got me in the mood x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I always felt it was somewhat tabboo for guys to go to a swingers club alone.

I always imagined they would cause a nuisance and ruin the fun / overwhelm the others.

Thus, I would only go with someone.

Surely they should limit the amount of single guys based on the amount of couples / single females already in the club?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Euch! How off putting!!!! Maybe they should be reminded of the basic rules on entry?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Believe it or not had exactly the same issue at a house party with someone who was a chams attendee lol wasnt impressed

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By *heep2405Man over a year ago

Newport

This is one of the reasons I won't go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Hiya when came over to u it was just us 3 there and I loved watching u fuck in the jucuzio that got me in the mood x

there was another couple of men in there and you were clearly told no by my partner twice - but yet you still tried your luck - no means no get it !!!!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

No your parter dint say no to me all I dun was went close to u. Once

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

you were told clearly twice no means no. There are rules please take notice . Why did you think we stopped and got out of the jacuzzi !

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

JoJo, the guy wrote in one of his first posts that apparently swinging is all about "free sex" figures that if he was there he would have an expectation! xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

well guys he's got it totally wrong there is a word which he doesn't understand which is no and also the respect with swingers . Xx

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By *uddsWoman over a year ago

st athans

"I always felt it was somewhat tabboo for guys to go to a swingers club alone.

I always imagined they would cause a nuisance and ruin the fun / overwhelm the others.

Thus, I would only go with someone.

Surely they should limit the amount of single guys based on the amount of couples / single females already in the club?"

i think the reason they dont limit is coz it would mean them losing money

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Was this Newport Chams Friday?

I met some friends there and it seem to be a lot of people there though the vast majority (abnormally might I add) single guy's.

Also seem to be a lot less play going on maybe as a result of the pushy singles there and so much so once the buffet had gone it emptied!!

Shame normally much better maybe a lot of couple were tied up with more vanilla Halloween things or gone to Darlaston.

Previously kez has said if you get probe with guys just make a note of there locker key and she will sort it out! You can feel sorry for them after hehehe

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"well guys he's got it totally wrong there is a word which he doesn't understand which is no and also the respect with swingers . Xx "

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I always felt it was somewhat tabboo for guys to go to a swingers club alone.

I always imagined they would cause a nuisance and ruin the fun / overwhelm the others.

Thus, I would only go with someone.

Surely they should limit the amount of single guys based on the amount of couples / single females already in the club?"

I partly agree with what you say but it is advertised as a night for couples single females and single men.

though I'm like you I would only go as a couple though that's to do more with what I enjoy.

its hard to limit numbers of guys cause unless everyone books (which could put people off) how do you keep the ratio right?

Normally it's not as bad as it was last night. Did seem thin on the ground of couple unless the single guys put them all off!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

U got but u never said eny think and I u never told me eny think u must have the wrong guy

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

no it was you - respect no !!!

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By *ibeautyWoman over a year ago

Newport

My partner nearly lost his,head a while back..boyf was fking me and guys entered room to watch..kept edging closer until this one guy went to wap hiscock in my mouth...

Cheeky as.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

it's not a free for all - I don't mind ppl

watching but not muscling on without even asking he wasn't my type either yuk x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Your not mine or meny people when u a Man U just go with the floww lol

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By *ostrings2Couple over a year ago

newport

two threads this week about chams on friday and its only sunday.we are sorry to say the fun has fun the club the conga puts you off even before you start,we sat in the kennels for a break and had 6 singles with us not a word was spoken to us just being stared at did we play did we fuck as like.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Euch! How off putting!!!! Maybe they should be reminded of the basic rules on entry?

It has nothing to do with house rules. It is becoming a common theme that single guys expect the ladies to be easy regardless of where meets take place.

No is no maybe they should be reminded that any sexual activity with out consent is classed as rape. Maybe then they will control them self's and have a little respect.

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By *hocksandmissusCouple over a year ago

Chester-ish

we were in the hot tub one night just having a little break and a bit of relaxing when a hand came over and went straight for my bits well when I told the person no his reply to me was I have paid my money why not. well my hubby almost put his lights out for him.

not been back since xxxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It was out first trip to chams on Friday and have to admit the single men put us off. Everywhere you went they were lurking. Couldn't even stand in bar area without all eyes on me. We are going to try darleston next. We will go back to newport as its local but not as a regular thing.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"This is one of the reasons I won't go. "

But you are a gent hun xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Chams & guys!!!

Last time we attended Mrs Z was on a roll!! We were up stairs in the long dark room with a lady playing as a 3 but were followed up by 10 guys!!!

Well the way to handle this situ is....

If they hover n get closes or even take your hand or slop in your mouth!!!!

You say Excuse me did u ask nicely?

I did this lots so much so that in the end guys were coming in to the room & being told by others U HAVE TO ASK!

In fairness Mrs Z asked if she could suck cocks!

This works. RESPECT AND DO NOT PRESUME But remember it works both ways & manners don't cost a thing!

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By (user no longer on site) OP over a year ago

"Your not mine or meny people when u a Man U just go with the floww lol"

Pmsl - go with the flow ? seriously the next time you muscle in without asking ( to someone who is nt your type ) gives you what you deserve either a slap or reports you !!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I went next to u dint touch u your not worth a wank

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I be sat quiet on this thread so far...

I just have my pennys worth now lol...

1.they do limit single guys..

2.no means no it isn't a free for all....

3.I go as a single fem and i have no trouble at all off the guys.

4.if I do I tell them to feck off.

5.the club is in the mid of a whole refurbishment and i for one think it looks amazing.

6.if people want this club to stay open then slating it in the forum isn't gona help..

7.I find darleston is the same for single guys but it's a lot bigger so u don't notice them to much.

8.like someone has said use you club or lose it as everyone was moaning when the couples only night went but no one attended.

9.so let's stop putting crap like this in the forum and enjoy our club

10.im there the nxt 2weeks this week is jades birthday party

And nxt week I will be there after the singles only social..so I will be starting a positive thread lol.

Come on guys let's still 2gether and if you don't like something tell the staff...or tell the person to feck off

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Insulting people ain't gona work...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I be sat quiet on this thread so far...