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"Ok, so we see loads of threads about verifications, how to get them, why they are important, what they really mean etc. We see guys moaning about not getting them, moaning about not getting meets as they have none, and advice on how to get different ones. But what is it all about? Well, pull up a chair, pin back you ears and take notes, there will be a test at the end lol! Lets just clear one thing up once and for all... verifications are, without doubt, very important on here. Why? Well, quite simply, in the first instance, it shows others that you are what you claim to be i.e. a single female, a couple, or a guy (although to be fair, I can't think of any reason for anyone to fake being a guy lol!). And that one word "fake" is what these wonderful veries help to out. Yes... believe it or not dear reader, people actually do set up fake profiles, claiming to be some hot'n'horny blonde lingerie model who is also a nympho, and will shag anything with a heartbeat, when in reality it's a hairy trucker called Dave, who is married and has zero social skills, but loves getting photos of real people to wank over when he's away in his truck. (Apologies to any nice truckers called Dave!) A meet in person veri (and I'll cover the different types in a mo) covers all the bases, and also gives an insight into the person. Ok, now the types of veri. lets just put this out there at the start, a meet (social or play) veri is the only one really worth having... more so if it is a play one! Ok... yes, I can hear you shouting at the screen now... why is a play one of more importance? Easy... just turning up to have a drink and a chat does not make them a swinger, and the ugly spectre of "press intrusion" tends to rear its ugly head too often these days... you might verify "Tom and Jane" who then have a golden ticket to go to socials, parties and clubs..... only for your face and details, or your friends faces, to get splashed all over the local press, whereupon venues are lost for socials, and event organisers can be left trying to salvage events often at risk of financial losses. Photo veries aint worth the pixels they are made from... too easily faked even by a relative tech neanderthal like me. Cam veries are ok, but make sure to get the person you are camming with to prove it isnt a recorded feed by putting sound to it too, and chatting to them....lots of cam veries are of other people!! So... how to get these elusive little buggers? Well, as a start, get on cam in the chatrooms and ask, (both of you if you are a couple lol!) someone will confirm that you are at least what you say you are, and thats a good start. From there, arrange a social meet, or even better hit a club and get jiggy! From there, the world is your lobster, hit the socials, get party invites and have fun! A final thought about veries... To show or not? Some folks will not meet you if you haven't got any..... and then decide others have too many! Too many? Firstly.. it's a swingers site, and while sex isn't the "be all and end all" of the lifestyle, it is a big part of it, and secondly, they should read them... we've been turned down for "shagging half the site"... but somewhere around 2 thirds of ours are social meets lol! Ok, now the test, you have 20 seconds to complete it. 1. Are veries important? YES / NO 2.Are play meets the best type of veries? YES / NO Scoring. If you answered both yes, well done, you have passed. If not, re-read, and try again! *Disclaimer. I don't care if you agree or disagree, it's a forum, and like the great man said "Opinions are lie assholes, everyone has one!". Feel free to post, but if your opinion differs from mine, then you are wrong (inserts tongue in cheek smilie!). And if you are only looking for an argument, then JTFO! "Is there Anychance you can repeat that I missed the start  | |||
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"Ok, so we see loads of threads about verifications, how to get them, why they are important, what they really mean etc. We see guys moaning about not getting them, moaning about not getting meets as they have none, and advice on how to get different ones. But what is it all about? Well, pull up a chair, pin back you ears and take notes, there will be a test at the end lol! Lets just clear one thing up once and for all... verifications are, without doubt, very important on here. Why? Well, quite simply, in the first instance, it shows others that you are what you claim to be i.e. a single female, a couple, or a guy (although to be fair, I can't think of any reason for anyone to fake being a guy lol!). And that one word "fake" is what these wonderful veries help to out. Yes... believe it or not dear reader, people actually do set up fake profiles, claiming to be some hot'n'horny blonde lingerie model who is also a nympho, and will shag anything with a heartbeat, when in reality it's a hairy trucker called Dave, who is married and has zero social skills, but loves getting photos of real people to wank over when he's away in his truck. (Apologies to any nice truckers called Dave!) A meet in person veri (and I'll cover the different types in a mo) covers all the bases, and also gives an insight into the person. Ok, now the types of veri. lets just put this out there at the start, a meet (social or play) veri is the only one really worth having... more so if it is a play one! Ok... yes, I can hear you shouting at the screen now... why is a play one of more importance? Easy... just turning up to have a drink and a chat does not make them a swinger, and the ugly spectre of "press intrusion" tends to rear its ugly head too often these days... you might verify "Tom and Jane" who then have a golden ticket to go to socials, parties and clubs..... only for your face and details, or your friends faces, to get splashed all over the local press, whereupon venues are lost for socials, and event organisers can be left trying to salvage events often at risk of financial losses. Photo veries aint worth the pixels they are made from... too easily faked even by a relative tech neanderthal like me. Cam veries are ok, but make sure to get the person you are camming with to prove it isnt a recorded feed by putting sound to it too, and chatting to them....lots of cam veries are of other people!! So... how to get these elusive little buggers? Well, as a start, get on cam in the chatrooms and ask, (both of you if you are a couple lol!) someone will confirm that you are at least what you say you are, and thats a good start. From there, arrange a social meet, or even better hit a club and get jiggy! From there, the world is your lobster, hit the socials, get party invites and have fun! A final thought about veries... To show or not? Some folks will not meet you if you haven't got any..... and then decide others have too many! Too many? Firstly.. it's a swingers site, and while sex isn't the "be all and end all" of the lifestyle, it is a big part of it, and secondly, they should read them... we've been turned down for "shagging half the site"... but somewhere around 2 thirds of ours are social meets lol! Ok, now the test, you have 20 seconds to complete it. 1. Are veries important? YES / NO 2.Are play meets the best type of veries? YES / NO Scoring. If you answered both yes, well done, you have passed. If not, re-read, and try again! *Disclaimer. I don't care if you agree or disagree, it's a forum, and like the great man said "Opinions are lie assholes, everyone has one!". Feel free to post, but if your opinion differs from mine, then you are wrong (inserts tongue in cheek smilie!). And if you are only looking for an argument, then JTFO! "Agree with all that. X | |||
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"I thought that people would be confident that being a photo verified guy then that's what I am....otherwise what's the point?" Like I said dude, photo veries are pretty much a waste of time.... and who's gonna fake being a guy lol? | |||
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"yes and yes but you missed one out, I always verify someone after a meet but I have verified the odd one that as soon as they had the veri suddenly your face picture is on their profile!!. Happened to me a few weeks ago, met up verified him then a day or two later my face on his profile pic (camera phone didnt know it was taken), after several attempts and asking nicely I had to report it, wish there was a way of removing the veri" Does your veri not disappear if you block them ?  | |||
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"Ok, so we see loads of threads about verifications, how to get them, why they are important, what they really mean etc. We see guys moaning about not getting them, moaning about not getting meets as they have none, and advice on how to get different ones. But what is it all about? Well, pull up a chair, pin back you ears and take notes, there will be a test at the end lol! Lets just clear one thing up once and for all... verifications are, without doubt, very important on here. Why? Well, quite simply, in the first instance, it shows others that you are what you claim to be i.e. a single female, a couple, or a guy (although to be fair, I can't think of any reason for anyone to fake being a guy lol!). And that one word "fake" is what these wonderful veries help to out. Yes... believe it or not dear reader, people actually do set up fake profiles, claiming to be some hot'n'horny blonde lingerie model who is also a nympho, and will shag anything with a heartbeat, when in reality it's a hairy trucker called Dave, who is married and has zero social skills, but loves getting photos of real people to wank over when he's away in his truck. (Apologies to any nice truckers called Dave!) A meet in person veri (and I'll cover the different types in a mo) covers all the bases, and also gives an insight into the person. Ok, now the types of veri. lets just put this out there at the start, a meet (social or play) veri is the only one really worth having... more so if it is a play one! Ok... yes, I can hear you shouting at the screen now... why is a play one of more importance? Easy... just turning up to have a drink and a chat does not make them a swinger, and the ugly spectre of "press intrusion" tends to rear its ugly head too often these days... you might verify "Tom and Jane" who then have a golden ticket to go to socials, parties and clubs..... only for your face and details, or your friends faces, to get splashed all over the local press, whereupon venues are lost for socials, and event organisers can be left trying to salvage events often at risk of financial losses. Photo veries aint worth the pixels they are made from... too easily faked even by a relative tech neanderthal like me. Cam veries are ok, but make sure to get the person you are camming with to prove it isnt a recorded feed by putting sound to it too, and chatting to them....lots of cam veries are of other people!! So... how to get these elusive little buggers? Well, as a start, get on cam in the chatrooms and ask, (both of you if you are a couple lol!) someone will confirm that you are at least what you say you are, and thats a good start. From there, arrange a social meet, or even better hit a club and get jiggy! From there, the world is your lobster, hit the socials, get party invites and have fun! A final thought about veries... To show or not? Some folks will not meet you if you haven't got any..... and then decide others have too many! Too many? Firstly.. it's a swingers site, and while sex isn't the "be all and end all" of the lifestyle, it is a big part of it, and secondly, they should read them... we've been turned down for "shagging half the site"... but somewhere around 2 thirds of ours are social meets lol! Ok, now the test, you have 20 seconds to complete it. 1. Are veries important? YES / NO 2.Are play meets the best type of veries? YES / NO Scoring. If you answered both yes, well done, you have passed. If not, re-read, and try again! *Disclaimer. I don't care if you agree or disagree, it's a forum, and like the great man said "Opinions are lie assholes, everyone has one!". Feel free to post, but if your opinion differs from mine, then you are wrong (inserts tongue in cheek smilie!). And if you are only looking for an argument, then JTFO! "I personally do not find a 'play' meet veri of more importance than a social one. Some people like to display quite graphic play veris which, in my opinion of course, make me cringe | |||
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"Important they may be....but the recent on forum behaviour of certain members reminded me of why I keep my veris private "
Veries Left public can cause Drama...daft girls getting Jealous if you've Met someone they've met and guys getting jealous that they've met you so how dare you meet someone else..I've had it all believe..
I think they are best Left Private now too...Although some people use them as a tool to Prove how brilliant they are...
In my Experience they've caused Drama.. xxx | |||
"yes and yes but you missed one out, I always verify someone after a meet but I have verified the odd one that as soon as they had the veri suddenly your face picture is on their profile!!. Happened to me a few weeks ago, met up verified him then a day or two later my face on his profile pic (camera phone didnt know it was taken), after several attempts and asking nicely I had to report it, wish there was a way of removing the veri" yu block them veri goes  | |||
"yes and yes but you missed one out, I always verify someone after a meet but I have verified the odd one that as soon as they had the veri suddenly your face picture is on their profile!!. Happened to me a few weeks ago, met up verified him then a day or two later my face on his profile pic (camera phone didnt know it was taken), after several attempts and asking nicely I had to report it, wish there was a way of removing the veri Does your veri not disappear if you block them ? C "yes it does | |||
"Important they may be....but the recent on forum behaviour of certain members reminded me of why I keep my veris private
Veries Left public can cause Drama...daft girls getting Jealous if you've Met someone they've met and guys getting jealous that they've met you so how dare you meet someone else..I've had it all believe..
I think they are best Left Private now too...Although some people use them as a tool to Prove how brilliant they are...
In my Experience they've caused Drama.. xxx " | |||
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"While I agree with most of that. I do think the whole press thing should be dropped and left alone now. Swingers will always be a convo for gossip, press or otherwise. Move on. Organising socials and events are really great but it's not compulsory or asked off so the people that decide do it are doing so at there own risk and expense. I think if you don't want anyone to know your a swinger then don't put yourself out there to be exposed. X " In my experience the organisers are not trying to protect themselves as such, most are comfy with being swingers & people knowing, it's the people who wish to attend who want the comfort of knowing that everything is done to ensure their privacy is respected & I think this seems reasonable. I'm not really getting why some people have difficulty with this, discretion is not a bad thing & in fact used to be a given X | |||
"yes and yes but you missed one out, I always verify someone after a meet but I have verified the odd one that as soon as they had the veri suddenly your face picture is on their profile!!. Happened to me a few weeks ago, met up verified him then a day or two later my face on his profile pic (camera phone didnt know it was taken), after several attempts and asking nicely I had to report it, wish there was a way of removing the veri Does your veri not disappear if you block them ? "yep it goes | |||
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"In my experience the organisers are not trying to protect themselves as such, most are comfy with being swingers & people knowing, it's the people who wish to attend who want the comfort of knowing that everything is done to ensure their privacy is respected & I think this seems reasonable. I'm not really getting why some people have difficulty with this, discretion is not a bad thing & in fact used to be a given X" Totally agree with you
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"Ok, so we see loads of threads about verifications, how to get them, why they are important, what they really mean etc. We see guys moaning about not getting them, moaning about not getting meets as they have none, and advice on how to get different ones. But what is it all about? Well, pull up a chair, pin back you ears and take notes, there will be a test at the end lol! Lets just clear one thing up once and for all... verifications are, without doubt, very important on here. Why? Well, quite simply, in the first instance, it shows others that you are what you claim to be i.e. a single female, a couple, or a guy (although to be fair, I can't think of any reason for anyone to fake being a guy lol!). And that one word "fake" is what these wonderful veries help to out. Yes... believe it or not dear reader, people actually do set up fake profiles, claiming to be some hot'n'horny blonde lingerie model who is also a nympho, and will shag anything with a heartbeat, when in reality it's a hairy trucker called Dave, who is married and has zero social skills, but loves getting photos of real people to wank over when he's away in his truck. (Apologies to any nice truckers called Dave!) A meet in person veri (and I'll cover the different types in a mo) covers all the bases, and also gives an insight into the person. Ok, now the types of veri. lets just put this out there at the start, a meet (social or play) veri is the only one really worth having... more so if it is a play one! Ok... yes, I can hear you shouting at the screen now... why is a play one of more importance? Easy... just turning up to have a drink and a chat does not make them a swinger, and the ugly spectre of "press intrusion" tends to rear its ugly head too often these days... you might verify "Tom and Jane" who then have a golden ticket to go to socials, parties and clubs..... only for your face and details, or your friends faces, to get splashed all over the local press, whereupon venues are lost for socials, and event organisers can be left trying to salvage events often at risk of financial losses. Photo veries aint worth the pixels they are made from... too easily faked even by a relative tech neanderthal like me. Cam veries are ok, but make sure to get the person you are camming with to prove it isnt a recorded feed by putting sound to it too, and chatting to them....lots of cam veries are of other people!! So... how to get these elusive little buggers? Well, as a start, get on cam in the chatrooms and ask, (both of you if you are a couple lol!) someone will confirm that you are at least what you say you are, and thats a good start. From there, arrange a social meet, or even better hit a club and get jiggy! From there, the world is your lobster, hit the socials, get party invites and have fun! A final thought about veries... To show or not? Some folks will not meet you if you haven't got any..... and then decide others have too many! Too many? Firstly.. it's a swingers site, and while sex isn't the "be all and end all" of the lifestyle, it is a big part of it, and secondly, they should read them... we've been turned down for "shagging half the site"... but somewhere around 2 thirds of ours are social meets lol! Ok, now the test, you have 20 seconds to complete it. 1. Are veries important? YES / NO 2.Are play meets the best type of veries? YES / NO Scoring. If you answered both yes, well done, you have passed. If not, re-read, and try again! *Disclaimer. I don't care if you agree or disagree, it's a forum, and like the great man said "Opinions are lie assholes, everyone has one!". Feel free to post, but if your opinion differs from mine, then you are wrong (inserts tongue in cheek smilie!). And if you are only looking for an argument, then JTFO! "This | |||
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"Yes and yes. I don't think pics of u and them disappear if you block them. Personally I think posting pics of people without their permission is a big no no." no pics don't but veries do when your blocked they go of each other's ofofile xx | |||
Only problem is I'm a Dave I'm not hairy and I'm not a trucker!! | |||
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FUCK I got both questions wrong!!! Maybe it was Marts spelling that put me off ....... (tongue firmly in cheek and beaming like a demented lama).
As usual mate I do not need to post a sensible reply to a well laid out and well thought of post ..... can I come shag Jayne now ???? Pleaseeeee ??
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"Ok, so we see loads of threads about verifications, how to get them, why they are important, what they really mean etc. We see guys moaning about not getting them, moaning about not getting meets as they have none, and advice on how to get different ones. But what is it all about? Well, pull up a chair, pin back you ears and take notes, there will be a test at the end lol! Lets just clear one thing up once and for all... verifications are, without doubt, very important on here. Why? Well, quite simply, in the first instance, it shows others that you are what you claim to be i.e. a single female, a couple, or a guy (although to be fair, I can't think of any reason for anyone to fake being a guy lol!). And that one word "fake" is what these wonderful veries help to out. Yes... believe it or not dear reader, people actually do set up fake profiles, claiming to be some hot'n'horny blonde lingerie model who is also a nympho, and will shag anything with a heartbeat, when in reality it's a hairy trucker called Dave, who is married and has zero social skills, but loves getting photos of real people to wank over when he's away in his truck. (Apologies to any nice truckers called Dave!) A meet in person veri (and I'll cover the different types in a mo) covers all the bases, and also gives an insight into the person. Ok, now the types of veri. lets just put this out there at the start, a meet (social or play) veri is the only one really worth having... more so if it is a play one! Ok... yes, I can hear you shouting at the screen now... why is a play one of more importance? Easy... just turning up to have a drink and a chat does not make them a swinger, and the ugly spectre of "press intrusion" tends to rear its ugly head too often these days... you might verify "Tom and Jane" who then have a golden ticket to go to socials, parties and clubs..... only for your face and details, or your friends faces, to get splashed all over the local press, whereupon venues are lost for socials, and event organisers can be left trying to salvage events often at risk of financial losses. Photo veries aint worth the pixels they are made from... too easily faked even by a relative tech neanderthal like me. Cam veries are ok, but make sure to get the person you are camming with to prove it isnt a recorded feed by putting sound to it too, and chatting to them....lots of cam veries are of other people!! So... how to get these elusive little buggers? Well, as a start, get on cam in the chatrooms and ask, (both of you if you are a couple lol!) someone will confirm that you are at least what you say you are, and thats a good start. From there, arrange a social meet, or even better hit a club and get jiggy! From there, the world is your lobster, hit the socials, get party invites and have fun! A final thought about veries... To show or not? Some folks will not meet you if you haven't got any..... and then decide others have too many! Too many? Firstly.. it's a swingers site, and while sex isn't the "be all and end all" of the lifestyle, it is a big part of it, and secondly, they should read them... we've been turned down for "shagging half the site"... but somewhere around 2 thirds of ours are social meets lol! Ok, now the test, you have 20 seconds to complete it. 1. Are veries important? YES / NO 2.Are play meets the best type of veries? YES / NO Scoring. If you answered both yes, well done, you have passed. If not, re-read, and try again! *Disclaimer. I don't care if you agree or disagree, it's a forum, and like the great man said "Opinions are lie assholes, everyone has one!". Feel free to post, but if your opinion differs from mine, then you are wrong (inserts tongue in cheek smilie!). And if you are only looking for an argument, then JTFO! "Exhausted after reading that but hey put a smile on me face lol | |||
" FUCK I got both questions wrong!!! Maybe it was Marts spelling that put me off ....... (tongue firmly in cheek and beaming like a demented lama).
As usual mate I do not need to post a sensible reply to a well laid out and well thought of post ..... can I come shag Jayne now ???? Pleaseeeee ??
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"Well written . well done Sth recap: Ok, now the test, you have 20 seconds to complete it. 1. Are veries important? YES / NO 2.Are play meets the best type of veries? YES / NO Scoring. If you answered both yes, well done, you have passed. Yes to question 1 its s out the non genuine Number 2 , social veris are meets just because for whatever reason that exists no play takes place, its still a meet in person therefore its a meet verification , I rarely play call it fussy or that im to ugly be whatever , Its still a good way to out the real people from the fakes. Play meets the same . I add at this juncture that maybe a play veri and a social veri should be listed separately by the site as those like me with 50 plus veris can see that the majority were in fact social and that i value my sexual health and reputation accordingly . " Reputation? It's a swingers website.... So from that I'm guessing I'm a slut or someone with a bad reputation because mine are play veri's mainly. Nice. | |||
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"I like to see at least one play veri as proof they are the real deal and can actually play. Id die if someone got cold feet on arrival whether it was just nerves or not!!!" Totally agree x | |||
"Well written . well done Sth recap: Ok, now the test, you have 20 seconds to complete it. 1. Are veries important? YES / NO 2.Are play meets the best type of veries? YES / NO Scoring. If you answered both yes, well done, you have passed. Yes to question 1 its s out the non genuine Number 2 , social veris are meets just because for whatever reason that exists no play takes place, its still a meet in person therefore its a meet verification , I rarely play call it fussy or that im to ugly be whatever , Its still a good way to out the real people from the fakes. Play meets the same . I add at this juncture that maybe a play veri and a social veri should be listed separately by the site as those like me with 50 plus veris can see that the majority were in fact social and that i value my sexual health and reputation accordingly . " oi as u know I get checked regular ... and im a tart so I don't care about my rep lol | |||
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"I'd be offended if I wasn't considered a slut by all Giggles. I've put a lot of hours and covered a fair bit of ground to be called anything less pmsl!!!!!" I taught u well young lady | |||
