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over a year ago
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true that
but ladies can punch above their weght on here because of the ratios
plus they get a lot of un solicited spam mails from dick heads
i rarely message people now tbh...
i find the real world a much better place for meeting women and i tend to come on here for the banter mostly.
that said some good eggs on here - just keep at it |
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over a year ago
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I can answer that one. I used to try and answer all my messages on my single profile when I had it. But then the abuse started when you do say thanks but no thanks. So in the end I would just read and delete and then get even more abuse for not replying. It got that bad that I have now deleted my single profile xx |
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over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!! "
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
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over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou "
Miss
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over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?"
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours "
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over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours
Ill raise him on a bottle of old spice & will also chuck in a bottle of md 20/20 "
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over a year ago
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"I can answer that one. I used to try and answer all my messages on my single profile when I had it. But then the abuse started when you do say thanks but no thanks. So in the end I would just read and delete and then get even more abuse for not replying. It got that bad that I have now deleted my single profile xx" ![](/icons/thumb_up.png) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some women cant hold a conversation without opening they're legs first that's why lol.. Harsh but truth on this site "
That goes for a lot of men on this site as well. They message women only with one intention of getting them to open their legs. They aren't too happy when they say no thank you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some women cant hold a conversation without opening they're legs first that's why lol.. Harsh but truth on this site
That goes for a lot of men on this site as well. They message women only with one intention of getting them to open their legs. They aren't too happy when they say no thank you. "
And also how can you hold a conversation when the only message you get is "fancy a fuck" ??? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Another one of these strings wheres the rope?
Its impossible to expect a reply to every message if u had ever been in a fb relationship with someone on here you would see how much mail single fems get, plus all the abuse add to that the fact that women really do have their pick and although "punch above their weight" isnt the phrase i would choose its true, and why if they can wouldnt they?? Its up to you to be original interesting and stand out from the rest so instead of whinging put more effort into profile,pics and messages
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!! "
i always used to answer and say a polite no thanks but have fun anyway BUT........2 out of 10 single profiles come back with such abuse so maybe its easier not to answer |
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"Some women cant hold a conversation without opening they're legs first that's why lol.. Harsh but truth on this site
That goes for a lot of men on this site as well. They message women only with one intention of getting them to open their legs. They aren't too happy when they say no thank you.
And also how can you hold a conversation when the only message you get is "fancy a fuck" ???"
Fair enough but one liners off women aren't much better.. |
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over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
i always used to answer and say a polite no thanks but have fun anyway BUT........2 out of 10 single profiles come back with such abuse so maybe its easier not to answer"
And those are the guys that give us the genuine single guys such a bad name, if someone doesn't reply so be it single women get swamped, single men would be the same if they had the same amount of mail |
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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"Another one of these strings wheres the rope?
Its impossible to expect a reply to every message if u had ever been in a fb relationship with someone on here you would see how much mail single fems get, plus all the abuse add to that the fact that women really do have their pick and although "punch above their weight" isnt the phrase i would choose its true, and why if they can wouldnt they?? Its up to you to be original interesting and stand out from the rest so instead of whinging put more effort into profile,pics and messages
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Exactly. I've said this loads of times already, but my friend on here (social only!) gets over 30 messages a day. Once she's replied to the 10 or do from friends or people she's interested in, she's left with 20.
Would reply to 20 messages you weren't interested in? Even cutting and pasting "no thanks" 20 times would be a huge pain in the arse!
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours
Ill raise him on a bottle of old spice & will also chuck in a bottle of md 20/20
I am giving this some serious consideration lads "
How can I Better this ???
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women cant hold a conversation without opening they're legs first that's why lol.. Harsh but truth on this site
That goes for a lot of men on this site as well. They message women only with one intention of getting them to open their legs. They aren't too happy when they say no thank you.
And also how can you hold a conversation when the only message you get is "fancy a fuck" ???
Fair enough but one liners off women aren't much better.."
I can imagine that they aren't. But then you have to think is that profile real or not. You would be surprised how many single women on here are men pretending to be women. We have run into enough of them x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours
Ill raise him on a bottle of old spice & will also chuck in a bottle of md 20/20
I am giving this some serious consideration lads "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Some women cant hold a conversation without opening they're legs first that's why lol.. Harsh but truth on this site
That goes for a lot of men on this site as well. They message women only with one intention of getting them to open their legs. They aren't too happy when they say no thank you.
And also how can you hold a conversation when the only message you get is "fancy a fuck" ???
Fair enough but one liners off women aren't much better..
I can imagine that they aren't. But then you have to think is that profile real or not. You would be surprised how many single women on here are men pretending to be women. We have run into enough of them x"
Thats something I didnt know thank you, what thrill do they get from that.. Weirdos lol ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I know its frustrating on both ends. For the guy hes thinking WTF.
But in all honesty put yourself in the single ladies shoes. Shell get 100+ messages saying "i wanna fuck you" or "fancy sucking me" etc and if she replies saying no thanks she gets abused verbally calling her some obscenity. Its easier for them to ignore or block just to save the aggro. Its a fact of fab life that if the woman is interested in you she will message you. Ive only had one meet since being on here. Its not always about fucking your way through fab as just chatting and if u click u click.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours
Ill raise him on a bottle of old spice & will also chuck in a bottle of md 20/20
I am giving this some serious consideration lads
How can I Better this ???
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours
Ill raise him on a bottle of old spice & will also chuck in a bottle of md 20/20
I am giving this some serious consideration lads
How can I Better this ???
Im sure you can think of something "
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over a year ago
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"Just wondered how many guys have messaged women on here and got no reply and message just deleted?? would be nice a simple thanks but no thanks!!
Ive been saying thanks but no thanks politely to the same guy for the past hour and now hes trying to bribe me with perfume
Not all guys graciously accept a no thankyou
Miss
there is a bottle of old spice in it for you if you meet me for a burger king?
Chuck in a 4 pack of 'Bow and im yours
Ill raise him on a bottle of old spice & will also chuck in a bottle of md 20/20
I am giving this some serious consideration lads
How can I Better this ???
Im sure you can think of something
Mmmmm Yes "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another one of these strings wheres the rope?
Its impossible to expect a reply to every message if u had ever been in a fb relationship with someone on here you would see how much mail single fems get, plus all the abuse add to that the fact that women really do have their pick and although "punch above their weight" isnt the phrase i would choose its true, and why if they can wouldnt they?? Its up to you to be original interesting and stand out from the rest so instead of whinging put more effort into profile,pics and messages
Exactly. I've said this loads of times already, but my friend on here (social only!) gets over 30 messages a day. Once she's replied to the 10 or do from friends or people she's interested in, she's left with 20.
Would reply to 20 messages you weren't interested in? Even cutting and pasting "no thanks" 20 times would be a huge pain in the arse!
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This!!!!
Only before I started using the block button I'd get 300+ messages a day. Can you imagine getting hundreds of messages a day from people who've literally Disregarded anything you have to say? It's incredibly annoying. ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"true that
but ladies can punch above their weght on here because of the ratios
plus they get a lot of un solicited spam mails from dick heads
i rarely message people now tbh...
i find the real world a much better place for meeting women and i tend to come on here for the banter mostly.
that said some good eggs on here - just keep at it"
I consistently punch above my weight & I'll enjoy it while I can, but it's not the reason why I don't reply to every message, the reason I don't reply is I don't have time in my life to be polite to people I don't know & have no intention of meeting X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"That must be annoying did you get any abuse off single guys?
Every day. Fat ginger slut.
Block is my best friend now. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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In all honesty there is only so much bullshit that you can say in a message on an Internet site..95% of people claim to be the greatest sex and say they are going to do this and that blah blah blah.. And nearly 100% of this never happens.. All the meets I've had we've actually had a face to face chat first and things seem to go better imho |
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at the end of the day if you dont get a reply from anyone and its deleted, thats as good as a no thanks,considering all the mails fems get here,so when this happens just accept they aint interested and dont hassel them as they wont change thier minds. ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By *w72Man
over a year ago
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"Some women cant hold a conversation without opening they're legs first that's why lol.. Harsh but truth on this site
That goes for a lot of men on this site as well. They message women only with one intention of getting them to open their legs. They aren't too happy when they say no thank you.
And also how can you hold a conversation when the only message you get is "fancy a fuck" ???
Fair enough but one liners off women aren't much better..
I can imagine that they aren't. But then you have to think is that profile real or not. You would be surprised how many single women on here are men pretending to be women. We have run into enough of them x"
What's the score with this? Do men pretend to be women and try arrange a girl girl meet and then sort of turn up with a dick? The word tenacity springs to mind. Lol xx take care girl |
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"at the end of the day if you dont get a reply from anyone and its deleted, thats as good as a no thanks,considering all the mails fems get here,so when this happens just accept they aint interested and dont hassel them as they wont change thier minds. "
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By *w72Man
over a year ago
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Not sure what you girls think but I think it's worth sending a couple of messages. I'm sure with the amount of emails you get sometimes messages get lost. I'm sorry if I've pissed anyone off the first couple of weeks I've been on here & hey hulksgirl86 if only I could message you. You'd get only compliments from me. Lol xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I got some hi karate aftershave if that helps pull some single women lol
That's all u got lol
Well could make an effort with some brut 88 as well"
Oh no I don't like that one lol x |
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"Not sure what you girls think but I think it's worth sending a couple of messages. I'm sure with the amount of emails you get sometimes messages get lost. I'm sorry if I've pissed anyone off the first couple of weeks I've been on here & hey hulksgirl86 if only I could message you. You'd get only compliments from me. Lol xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Another one of these strings wheres the rope?
Its impossible to expect a reply to every message if u had ever been in a fb relationship with someone on here you would see how much mail single fems get, plus all the abuse add to that the fact that women really do have their pick and although "punch above their weight" isnt the phrase i would choose its true, and why if they can wouldnt they?? Its up to you to be original interesting and stand out from the rest so instead of whinging put more effort into profile,pics and messages
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"Another one of these strings wheres the rope?
Its impossible to expect a reply to every message if u had ever been in a fb relationship with someone on here you would see how much mail single fems get, plus all the abuse add to that the fact that women really do have their pick and although "punch above their weight" isnt the phrase i would choose its true, and why if they can wouldnt they?? Its up to you to be original interesting and stand out from the rest so instead of whinging put more effort into profile,pics and messages
If all that fails get to the gym, grab some steroids and a few tatts and youll be well away "
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I try to answer decent mail even if it's a "No thanks", crap 1 liners, boring mail get's deleted as if the message is boring even though the guy lots and sounds fit on his profile the meet maybe too.Stimulate my mind my body may follow....... ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By *sprey6Man
over a year ago
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Do any of the ladies on this thread need a'fancy afuck' message. I only ask because I have one ready to cut and paste! I can follow it up with a wink, friends request and then a torrent of abuse when I am ignored.
Alternatively I can be polite and see if that works. Please sign up for this below with prion one or two or a wink lol! ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) |
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