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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.
Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier
I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that? ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it? "
I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?
I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!
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Well they had been verified a couple of times all be it a while ago |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it? "
I really don't know I was called an std whore a racist a fucking slut/slag, fat c**t. And these messages sometimes were from people I had never spoken to it was their opening message x |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?
I really don't know I was called an std whore a racist a fucking slut/slag, fat c**t. And these messages sometimes were from people I had never spoken to it was their opening message x"
Ive never experienced that these were obviously pouting because i didnt reply earlier on |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?
I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!
Well they had been verified a couple of times all be it a while ago"
Maybe just horrible people and would seem like a timely miss on your part as cant imagine they would be nice people anyway!!!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?
I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!
Well they had been verified a couple of times all be it a while ago
Maybe just horrible people and would seem like a timely miss on your part as cant imagine they would be nice people anyway!!!
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I certainly wont lose any sleep over it ![](/icons/s/biggrin.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Had it all, but it's likely to be the guy alone on an old couple profile, although I have had abuse from couples & fems in the past. Some people just don't get no or real life x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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most women dont answer or acknowledge messages which doesnt help
no excuse for abuse though but give attention seekers a platform, some anonimity and a a way to tease ... its bound to happen.
ive had abuse from women too so it goes both ways though i thing men who sit on here cock in hand prob snap abit sooner lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh n don't worry I just got told I'm a twat and have anger issues and should keep taking happy pills
Oh n everyone he's spoke to on here says I have anger issues lol
I love it, I must be soo popular and interesting coz loads of knobs talk about me lol |
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"I just wonder what exactly they thought they were going to gain from it?
I suspect it was a single guy wanking and getting all over excited as sounds too childish for an actual couple!
" Fucking tit! ![](/icons/s/sad.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.
Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier
I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that? "
It's THEIR loss MissP. You're lovely. It's sad that some people seem to take pleasure in abusing others. Please don't let them spoil Fab for you...keep smiling anyway, you have a friend here. Big hugs. Rich. XX |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Really dont understand why ppl throw abuse at end of day its supposed to be a fun site, if a certain person or persons isnt to someone taste then it should be accepted and also understand women are bombarded with messages and messeages can get lost.
Anyway chin up peeps its the weekend wooo hooo ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Really dont understand why ppl throw abuse at end of day its supposed to be a fun site, if a certain person or persons isnt to someone taste then it should be accepted and also understand women are bombarded with messages and messeages can get lost.
Anyway chin up peeps its the weekend wooo hooo "
weekends ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just a bunch of narrow minded fickle idiots who think you should be honoured that they messaged you, obviously throwing their toys out of the pram because you didnt respond within 100th of a second. Their loss and your gain. You dont fall into the trap of having to meet face to face which must be a bonus. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I never had any abuse off single guys . Few wiered messages but never abuse ? Poppy xx "
Nor me.....this was a verified couple ive never experienced it from single men and they are the ones who seem to get a bad name on here ![](/icons/s/2/cute.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly there's a lot of it about....!
Witnessed a good friend here endure over a week of abuse, and it was vile.
The user simply kept making new profiles, making it harder to sort out.
Unecessary and infantile, mostly it's highly disrespectful, because they just want to TRY and hurt you.
People find it all too easy to forget that stuff that may go on here, can indeed have a knock on effect on you in RL.
Good job you're thick skinned MissP,
As with FAB - gotta take the rough with the smooth......
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"Sadly there's a lot of it about....!
Witnessed a good friend here endure over a week of abuse, and it was vile.
The user simply kept making new profiles, making it harder to sort out.
Unecessary and infantile, mostly it's highly disrespectful, because they just want to TRY and hurt you.
People find it all too easy to forget that stuff that may go on here, can indeed have a knock on effect on you in RL.
Good job you're thick skinned MissP,
As with FAB - gotta take the rough with the smooth......
xx"
Advise your friend to filter new profiles. Then the person who is dishing out the abuse won't be able to message straight away and will get bored |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had your an ugly c**t cos i said no to meeting someone ! Cheers lol"
See this is the bit i dont get.... they obviously thought you were good enough to ask you to meet then when things didnt go their way you suddenly became an ugly c*nt. Theres no logic to it ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By *ichy99Man
over a year ago
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"I had your an ugly c**t cos i said no to meeting someone ! Cheers lol
See this is the bit i dont get.... they obviously thought you were good enough to ask you to meet then when things didnt go their way you suddenly became an ugly c*nt. Theres no logic to it "
its the childish nature of people is all, a full on case of throwing the dummy out the pram from not getting their own way |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I had your an ugly c**t cos i said no to meeting someone ! Cheers lol
See this is the bit i dont get.... they obviously thought you were good enough to ask you to meet then when things didnt go their way you suddenly became an ugly c*nt. Theres no logic to it
But dont they realise how ridiculous they make themselves look xx
its the childish nature of people is all, a full on case of throwing the dummy out the pram from not getting their own way" ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have been trying to reply to most messages. Not going to bother anymore because 50% of men respond to a no thanks with abuse. What a bunch of saddos. I have been called a mong, granny, spoilsport, in just the last few hours. All get reported but does anything ever happen? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I generally take it that if someone doesnt reply they arnt interested?
I bet that most single women on here get 100s emails and sometimes don't get time to reply to them all?
I have also found that be patient can be very beneficial lol ![](/icons/s/twisted.gif) ![](/icons/s/wink.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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I went through a phase when i replied to every message but found that a lot of people automatically assumed that it meant i wanted to meet. You cant do right for doing wrong on here ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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Can't take rejection ?
It's more than likely that any woman on here has had shit load of abuse from single wannabe guys and are so pissed off with it that they've given up on replying to all of the mail they get ![](/icons/s/2/halo.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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Nice ![](/icons/s/eek.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.
Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier
I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that? "
not sure they were looking at the right profile...you are sexy Hun. Juicy looking tits and hips mmmmm- not surprised desperation drove them insane. You rock x |
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"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.
Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier
I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that? " . Successfully people are never abusive and always aim to inspire others. I ignore any abusive messages as they will be from hopelessly inadequate individuals . Only time wasted is theirs. Happy for them to waste as much as they want ![](/icons/s/2/eh.gif) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just had a load of verbal off a couple calling me an "ignorant fat c*nt" because i hadnt replied to their earlier message. Then messaged me again with more abuse before i had chance to block them.
Funny they werent bothered about me being a "fat c*nt" when they were asking me to meet earlier
I am thick skinned and if anything i find it quite amusing that grown adults behave like this on here but I just dont understand why people act like that? "
Name and shame them .. this is supposed to be a tidy site .. people like that need to be named and shamed .. if they cant be nice then dont bother being on here xx
Hope your ok xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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Crikey, you must have been very busy to have spoken to 'most' of the women on this site in the two weeks you've been here to make such a sweeping statement!
After reading your other Forum posts and your status I think it's a bit ironic of you to call others arrogant and unsociable!
It's single men like you who are likely to appear on quite a few block lists after comments of that nature ![](/icons/s/rolleyes.gif) |
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"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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Hmmmmm, another one for the block list me thinks! D. |
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"Dont agree with the abuse, that's out of order, but most of the women on this site are arrogant, unsociable, think they are better than everyone else and have their heads so far up their own asses, they can't be bothered replying to messages. They are the ones who give this site a bad name, they are the ones who spoil it for for the nice genuine ones on here.
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You don't do yourself any favours really do you! From this post alone you've added yourself to the block list of a few very decent women who may have given you a chance had you not been so rude and arrogant yourself.
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By *ost SockMan
over a year ago
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That's utter rubbish I'm afraid.
I've got two good female friends on this site (well, one now as one left due to abuse).
They were getting over 30 messages a day. Some were from friends they wanted to interact with - that takes up time. The rest (say 20) were ones they had no interest in, often because it was badly written and/or downright offensive!
Imagine writing 20 "no thank" messages back. Even just cutting and pasting 20 messages would be tedious in the extreme.
Plus the fact I've seen how badly lots of guys react to a polite "no". Really horrible.
It's not rudeness or arrogance 99% of the time, just the practicalities of being a woman on here. |
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