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over a year ago
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There's not much to go on from your profile.and with so many other men you need to attend socials or try and get invites to parties .
1.Have you ever had to cancel a meet?
2.do you message people with "hi how are you?"
3.Do you ask people to be friends without messaging something first.
Answer these questions and we might be able to give advise  |
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Lets face facts...
There are more males than females on this site but yes it is possible to be successful but you got to put the hard work in.
Too many men come on here and think all the ladies will just drop their knickers instantly and your finding out it doesnt work like that but these moany threads wont help either.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Stop whining!!
It's not a dating site, there has to be sexual attraction and the old "alpha male" is far more attractive.
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Agreed, the sympathy thread aint gonna do much to attract future meets mate......suck it up and keep on trying!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's not much to go on from your profile.and with so many other men you need to attend socials or try and get invites to parties .
1.Have you ever had to cancel a meet?
2.do you message people with "hi how are you?"
3.Do you ask people to be friends without messaging something first.
Answer these questions and we might be able to give advise "
Well from experience you winked and messaged me with a crappy 'hi how's you'... Those messages get deleted immediately.. It shows me if you can't put any effort into messaging me, why should I make the effort to reply let alone meet you..
As above.. Suck it up and get on with it |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Good guys do get some where...
Be patient
I'm sure a lot of guys will tell you the wait is well worth it!!!
They do in the end xxx I'm sure of that "
if you put effort in you get a lot out of it |
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"Good guys do get some where...
Be patient
I'm sure a lot of guys will tell you the wait is well worth it!!!
They do in the end xxx I'm sure of that
if you put effort in you get a lot out of it"
That's right gigs.... I'm like a pro now lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun "
That prob just answered your own question...as the nice guys get meets...twats dont  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun
Twats???????"
Haha....someone's bitter!......Twats as in us ones who are patient, have good verifications and willing to put some groundwork in you mean? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun
Twats???????
Haha....someone's bitter!......Twats as in us ones who are patient, have good verifications and willing to put some groundwork in you mean? "
Your a clever twat |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun
Twats???????
Haha....someone's bitter!......Twats as in us ones who are patient, have good verifications and willing to put some groundwork in you mean?
Your a clever twat "
I'm more of just a twat tbh.....I'm Working on it though! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!"
Wow some sense at last
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"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!"
and with a response like that, I'll jump in your line  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Haha, in comparison "that shirt" is pretty tame! I like to see it as a personality setter, you've got a be a real man to pull it off on a Wednesday night down the local I'll tell yer!
Plus it's my most fabbed photo |
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Jakhammer i love the optimism wit the shirt. And u have a good point this guy isnt willing to do the leg work, he isnt gonna get anything. 80% of blokes on here know that and the other 20% just moan about not getting laid its so comical. |
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun "
What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats.  |
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun
What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats. "
Lol I'm not a twat n I seem to be having fun now..... I.started by listening n learning the ways and using the force luke xxx |
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun
What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats.
Lol I'm not a twat n I seem to be having fun now..... I.started by listening n learning the ways and using the force luke xxx "
Ok sorry was just joking bout.... I learnt not to come on forum n moan bout everyone else and how you ain't getting it and everyone else is and make a concerned effort to get to socials and show people your actually a good person and such like.... Lol no one wanted to even speak to me month or so ago met couple decent girls n they set me on my way to socials xxxx so chin up and get on it xxxx |
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"I know mate it seems like it but then u got twats on here seem to have all the fun
What exactly do you perceive as twattish about the single men who are having all the fun ? They are having all the fun for a reason - and I doubt it's because they are twats.
Lol I'm not a twat n I seem to be having fun now..... I.started by listening n learning the ways and using the force luke xxx
Ok sorry was just joking bout.... I learnt not to come on forum n moan bout everyone else and how you ain't getting it and everyone else is and make a concerned effort to get to socials and show people your actually a good person and such like.... Lol no one wanted to even speak to me month or so ago met couple decent girls n they set me on my way to socials xxxx so chin up and get on it xxxx "
Don't get me wrong I ain't inundated but I have attracted the people I actually like... So it's lot better.. |
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"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!"
Fab needs more men like this. Women are here on fab to meet like minded males for sex. This doesn't make us easy, desperate or gagging for it. We all have standards and things that turn us on and things that are unattractive to us. If the OP is on here looking for a quick easy fuck you'd be better off Saturday night in a club. I as other girls do get hundreds of messages a day, if you haven't got a profile photo I won't even open the message it's just an instant block. Girls on FAB want chemistry and if you can't be bothered to read a profile and write an interesting message chances are you don't make any effort during sex too! |
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"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!
Fab needs more men like this. Women are here on fab to meet like minded males for sex. This doesn't make us easy, desperate or gagging for it. We all have standards and things that turn us on and things that are unattractive to us. If the OP is on here looking for a quick easy fuck you'd be better off Saturday night in a club. I as other girls do get hundreds of messages a day, if you haven't got a profile photo I won't even open the message it's just an instant block. Girls on FAB want chemistry and if you can't be bothered to read a profile and write an interesting message chances are you don't make any effort during sex too! "
Well put both, it's also an instant turn off to get countless messages from someone you say a polite no to, or to read the oh so desperate 'whats a guy got to do to get shag here' updates, it's an instant private note on the profile for me ' too desperate for a meet, steer clear'. Fabswingers does not = Instashag |
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"You really do have to put the effort in, if men think they can open a profile, have no pics, no write up and mess girls with "fancy a fuck" and expect to actually get a meet within an hour this ain't the site for them, May be better off visiting an escort agency, It took me over 6 months to get a meet, this isn't helped by the fact I work abroad, and yeah it's frustrating to say the least, but the fact is single men out number single girls by at least 50-1 (probably a lot more) so they can be choosy, and choosy they are!
Fab needs more men like this. Women are here on fab to meet like minded males for sex. This doesn't make us easy, desperate or gagging for it. We all have standards and things that turn us on and things that are unattractive to us. If the OP is on here looking for a quick easy fuck you'd be better off Saturday night in a club. I as other girls do get hundreds of messages a day, if you haven't got a profile photo I won't even open the message it's just an instant block. Girls on FAB want chemistry and if you can't be bothered to read a profile and write an interesting message chances are you don't make any effort during sex too!
Well put both, it's also an instant turn off to get countless messages from someone you say a polite no to, or to read the oh so desperate 'whats a guy got to do to get shag here' updates, it's an instant private note on the profile for me ' too desperate for a meet, steer clear'. Fabswingers does not = Instashag "
I think most guys who join initially think it's a way to get a quick fuck, to be fair most people ive ever talked to outside of swinging don't understand it, think it's just a free for all.
As soon as you learn people come on here for no strings "quality" sex and spend the time to understand this, put a decent profile/pics together your off to a start.
Think you will always get these sympathy threads by from single guys, to be fair as a single guy just starting out this site is soul destroying haha......luckily I've done it for years and know that given a month or two, few meets/clubs/parties people learn to trust you
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By (user no longer on site)
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"-actually, scrap that, I've just seen 'that' shirt... x
Hehehe thatttt shirt lol
Hes a wicked bloke though one of the nicest on fab xx"
Thanks for the pimp
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Haha, in comparison "that shirt" is pretty tame! I like to see it as a personality setter, you've got a be a real man to pull it off on a Wednesday night down the local I'll tell yer!
Plus it's my most fabbed photo"
It's definitely character building.. Loud and proud..
Well if the ladies & men on fab like it, how could it be anything other than hoofin! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Hello im steve looking 4 a reg thing n maybe some one to join me on here im a fun lovely bloke likes a laugh n joke can lick 4 hrs so if u like the sound of me give me a tex and lets see ware this mad world takes us dont mind mmf but im not bi im on kik preza72
^^^^^^^^ check your profile as well as spelling and maybe dont moan be nice you might get meets |
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"Hello im steve looking 4 a reg thing n maybe some one to join me on here im a fun lovely bloke likes a laugh n joke can lick 4 hrs so if u like the sound of me give me a tex and lets see ware this mad world takes us dont mind mmf but im not bi im on kik preza72
^^^^^^^^ check your profile as well as spelling and maybe dont moan be nice you might get meets "
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"Hello im steve looking 4 a reg thing n maybe some one to join me on here im a fun lovely bloke likes a laugh n joke can lick 4 hrs so if u like the sound of me give me a tex and lets see ware this mad world takes us dont mind mmf but im not bi im on kik preza72
^^^^^^^^ check your profile as well as spelling and maybe dont moan be nice you might get meets pmsfl"
Oh my dayyyyzzzzzz... I should laugh I'm sure my wasjust as worse..... |
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