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By *arathoi OP Man
over a year ago
pontypridd |
Now.. let me first say that i do appreciate all of the work that goes into organising a meet, and that on this site there are a lot of retards/trolls/insert expletive here, etc.. and that certian precautions should be taken when organising a meet..
i have been on the site a while, but have not had much time (due to education, work, daughter etc) to meet hundreds of people.. now that has changed and its bloody difficult to get to most meets..
i am active on chat, have a few people i have regular conversations with on the main site...i have a cam verification from a (i would hope) respected member of the forums and also have been picture verified by the admins (originally that is)
Now this is where the Catch 22 lies. (again i understand the need for checks etc)..
to go to *most* socials, you need to have meet verifications... but to get meet verifications you have to attend socials...
to make this even more difficult, most people want verifications before they will meet (even socially) outside of hte meets..
so far there have been 3 meets i have enquired about, all exactly the same..
Why have a social, with the intention of meeting new people if new people cant go to the meets? especially the larger ones in larger south wales cities..
to make it even worse where there was an entrance fee (for 2) i even offered to pay for them up front, kind of hoped that this demonstrated that i was a genuine member after some solid social interaction (not just a - for what of a better term - fuck and run person) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think you'll find that the increased attention on the site has lead the organisers of social events to be far more cautious about who can attend, you're right out is a catch 22 situation but you don't have to have a play meet to get a verification, you can meet people socially for coffee etc & that's usually a good place to start x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now.. let me first say that i do appreciate all of the work that goes into organising a meet, and that on this site there are a lot of retards/trolls/insert expletive here, etc.. and that certian precautions should be taken when organising a meet..
i have been on the site a while, but have not had much time (due to education, work, daughter etc) to meet hundreds of people.. now that has changed and its bloody difficult to get to most meets..
i am active on chat, have a few people i have regular conversations with on the main site...i have a cam verification from a (i would hope) respected member of the forums and also have been picture verified by the admins (originally that is)
Now this is where the Catch 22 lies. (again i understand the need for checks etc)..
to go to *most* socials, you need to have meet verifications... but to get meet verifications you have to attend socials...
to make this even more difficult, most people want verifications before they will meet (even socially) outside of hte meets..
so far there have been 3 meets i have enquired about, all exactly the same..
Why have a social, with the intention of meeting new people if new people cant go to the meets? especially the larger ones in larger south wales cities..
to make it even worse where there was an entrance fee (for 2) i even offered to pay for them up front, kind of hoped that this demonstrated that i was a genuine member after some solid social interaction (not just a - for what of a better term - fuck and run person)"
Due to lots of interest to the site in the last few months.the organisers of theses socials have had to pull a tight rein on who goes and who do not go...
Genuine swingers fully understand why they are vetted and go about showing there true intrest in the life style by meeting for coffee with people and general interaction.
I myself as you are aware are doing a singles only social to which is being held in a public place.
I have decided to do this so genuine swingers can get their foot in the door so to speak and get verifed.
You need to relise that alot of people are on here for a instantshag and the identity and discretion of all fabswingers are kept just to that.
I no a lot of hard work goes into these socials and that the organisers work hard to keep the swingers identity away from no swinging people...
I have just noticed you are down for my social on the 29th so hopefully you will make it and you won't be known as a time waster...
Good luck with what ever you are looking for on the site 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Now.. let me first say that i do appreciate all of the work that goes into organising a meet, and that on this site there are a lot of retards/trolls/insert expletive here, etc.. and that certian precautions should be taken when organising a meet..
i have been on the site a while, but have not had much time (due to education, work, daughter etc) to meet hundreds of people.. now that has changed and its bloody difficult to get to most meets..
i am active on chat, have a few people i have regular conversations with on the main site...i have a cam verification from a (i would hope) respected member of the forums and also have been picture verified by the admins (originally that is)
Now this is where the Catch 22 lies. (again i understand the need for checks etc)..
to go to *most* socials, you need to have meet verifications... but to get meet verifications you have to attend socials...
to make this even more difficult, most people want verifications before they will meet (even socially) outside of hte meets..
so far there have been 3 meets i have enquired about, all exactly the same..
Why have a social, with the intention of meeting new people if new people cant go to the meets? especially the larger ones in larger south wales cities..
to make it even worse where there was an entrance fee (for 2) i even offered to pay for them up front, kind of hoped that this demonstrated that i was a genuine member after some solid social interaction (not just a - for what of a better term - fuck and run person)
Due to lots of interest to the site in the last few months.the organisers of theses socials have had to pull a tight rein on who goes and who do not go...
Genuine swingers fully understand why they are vetted and go about showing there true intrest in the life style by meeting for coffee with people and general interaction.
I myself as you are aware are doing a singles only social to which is being held in a public place.
I have decided to do this so genuine swingers can get their foot in the door so to speak and get verifed.
You need to relise that alot of people are on here for a instantshag and the identity and discretion of all fabswingers are kept just to that.
I no a lot of hard work goes into these socials and that the organisers work hard to keep the swingers identity away from no swinging people...
I have just noticed you are down for my social on the 29th so hopefully you will make it and you won't be known as a time waster...
Good luck with what ever you are looking for on the site
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Forgot to say I also do organised bus trips to different clubs for people to experience.
So if you want it that there's plenty more options |
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By *arathoi OP Man
over a year ago
pontypridd |
i am looking forward to it, assuming everything is good, teh 29th is still free for me (even if i cant stay too long etc but will hopefully sort somethign out)
its just.. i know i am one of those people (interested, committed, indeed my profession demands a little descretion) and that the huge amount of users here.. but there has to be another way to demonstrate that i am one of these people rather than a time waster or user.. |
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Being the organiser of the Newport social, I used to say to unverified single guys, that I would gladly meet them for a coffee so they could prove they were genuine. I told them to message me with a few different days they could meet, to see when i was free and only 1 single unverified guy did, out of about 15. I had about 8 single men no shows at last Saturdays social, not the regular guys who attend, but guys who havent been before, not even a message to say they weren't attending, or a message since as to why they just didn't turn up. As I put a cap on single guys (as we don't want to be over run with them), this stopped others who were on the reserve list. I no we shouldn't tar everyone with the same brush, but it is the single guys who tend to mess us social organisers around. (In my case anyway) |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Kinky id love to go for coffee with you.. the socaila i went to i got no such offer.. joan just wanted money off me :P
but fairplay she did rig the raffle so i won some love eggs  |
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