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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats your views and why?"
Well it's just common sense really why you don't do bareback isn't it????
And if you have to ask the question then there is something wrong....do you do bareback???? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Whats your views and why?
Well it's just common sense really why you don't do bareback isn't it????
And if you have to ask the question then there is something wrong....do you do bareback????"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't young people get basic sexual health advice nowadays? Surely there's enough information out there to indicate the risks & where's common sense? You have bb sex with someone, you're also sharing the nasties from all that persons previous partners. It's not rocket science.
Another single guy who'll be mass blocked by women for posting a silly question, useful for those of us who want to limit our risks though x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I use comdom all the time and still get checked for everything every three months better to be safe but still worry every time I go to get checked but happy every time like yesterday when texts comes though saying all clear. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I had my results before hoedown
But I stick by what I said before
Ppl rant and rave about wearing a condom but until ur doing same during oral then maybe you have no right to attack everyone that puts this thread up
Just saying  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I had my results before hoedown
But I stick by what I said before
Ppl rant and rave about wearing a condom but until ur doing same during oral then maybe you have no right to attack everyone that puts this thread up
Just saying "
No one has any right to attack anyone but oral is not the same risk at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had my results before hoedown
But I stick by what I said before
Ppl rant and rave about wearing a condom but until ur doing same during oral then maybe you have no right to attack everyone that puts this thread up
Just saying "
No one is attacking any one
And to be fair there is a less change of catching something from a bj 
I don't no why anyone would do bare back  |
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There's definitely a degree of denial here, plenty of people saying 'always wear a condom, bareback is asking for std s' and so on. Bj's and other acts may be less of a risk but it's still a risk people. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I met a guy a few times and knew his wife persuade me against better judgement to go bare, he proceeded to tell me after the event that they had just been for a test, not had the results but the nurse had given him meds just in case and told him to keep it in his pants for a week! This meet was 4 days into that week!!! 
Having to wait for his results and then 2 weeks more for incubation of myself before testing was just horrible! Never again! He put me off for a long while I can tell u! The horrid bit is they are well respected and known members of the swinging community! |
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By *onnlynCouple
over a year ago
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"Whats your views and why?
Well it's just common sense really why you don't do bareback isn't it????
And if you have to ask the question then there is something wrong....do you do bareback????"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"There's definitely a degree of denial here, plenty of people saying 'always wear a condom, bareback is asking for std s' and so on. Bj's and other acts may be less of a risk but it's still a risk people. "
It's still a lot lesser risk and people tend to know this.. there is more of a risk over cross contamination yet it's something I see lots in clubs x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I had my results before hoedown
But I stick by what I said before
Ppl rant and rave about wearing a condom but until ur doing same during oral then maybe you have no right to attack everyone that puts this thread up
Just saying
No one has any right to attack anyone but oral is not the same risk at all"
You can actually catch a few things by giving oral
And every time this subject comes up ppl want to slate the person writing it
I'm not saying I go bb but ppl forget they can catch things through oral |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"There's definitely a degree of denial here, plenty of people saying 'always wear a condom, bareback is asking for std s' and so on. Bj's and other acts may be less of a risk but it's still a risk people. "
My point exactly |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Here is a other thing I have thought about
During an orgy men put condoms on and start fucking then ppl swap partners
How many of them men carry on without changing the condom ?
Just a thought if that ain't cross contamination what is ?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your right there lush, you can get gonorea through oral sex, Wonder how many women knew that."
And chlamydia but it's coz I'm sure ppl have checked the facts before they start saying there is no risks from oral lol
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your right there lush, you can get gonorea through oral sex, Wonder how many women knew that.
And chlamydia but it's coz I'm sure ppl have checked the facts before they start saying there is no risks from oral lol
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Right I am not in denial and i never said you can't catch anything from oral...
i said it is very low risk compared to having full sex bare back.....
And when I have participated in gang bangs the guys have all changed condoms when swapping women...
oi n lush does this mean we ain't in a click no more cos we disagree on this one |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your right there lush, you can get gonorea through oral sex, Wonder how many women knew that.
And chlamydia but it's coz I'm sure ppl have checked the facts before they start saying there is no risks from oral lol
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Thr only safe Sex is No Sex... I just happen to Know that for oral the risks are a lot lower... As someone who used to do big bukkake sessions I can tell you I'm well aware of what the risks are... And they are a much lower risk.. so one I'm prepared to take xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Your right there lush, you can get gonorea through oral sex, Wonder how many women knew that.
And chlamydia but it's coz I'm sure ppl have checked the facts before they start saying there is no risks from oral lol
Right I am not in denial and i never said you can't catch anything from oral...
i said it is very low risk compared to having full sex bare back.....
And when I have participated in gang bangs the guys have all changed condoms when swapping women...
oi n lush does this mean we ain't in a click no more cos we disagree on this one "
Lol nah even clicks disagree on stuff lol
I will let u off on this occasion |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I don't think everyone is aware of the oral thing thou
I also wonder how many ask for a throat swab when they get checked
If anything I think these threads are useful if they educate ppl |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't think everyone is aware of the oral thing thou
I also wonder how many ask for a throat swab when they get checked
If anything I think these threads are useful if they educate ppl "
They are.. as I am always amazed at some of the comments people come out with..
Like they dont need testing as they always play safe.
Or they never get cum in them..
TO be fair in your eyes is more of a risk than swallowing.. but many dont realise that. x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think everyone is aware of the oral thing thou
I also wonder how many ask for a throat swab when they get checked
If anything I think these threads are useful if they educate ppl
They are.. as I am always amazed at some of the comments people come out with..
Like they dont need testing as they always play safe.
Or they never get cum in them..
TO be fair in your eyes is more of a risk than swallowing.. but many dont realise that. x"
Well I got a throat swab on Monday so I'm all clued up lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I don't think everyone is aware of the oral thing thou
I also wonder how many ask for a throat swab when they get checked
If anything I think these threads are useful if they educate ppl
They are.. as I am always amazed at some of the comments people come out with..
Like they dont need testing as they always play safe.
Or they never get cum in them..
TO be fair in your eyes is more of a risk than swallowing.. but many dont realise that. x"
I can personally say I don't have cum in my eyes so I think I'm ok
And I get tested swabs and bloods |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is a other thing I have thought about
During an orgy men put condoms on and start fucking then ppl swap partners
How many of them men carry on without changing the condom ?
Just a thought if that ain't cross contamination what is ?? "
And likewise in such orgy what about toys that are used on one woman then another , and so on and so on ,,,, |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Here is a other thing I have thought about
During an orgy men put condoms on and start fucking then ppl swap partners
How many of them men carry on without changing the condom ?
Just a thought if that ain't cross contamination what is ??
And likewise in such orgy what about toys that are used on one woman then another , and so on and so on ,,,,"
I've never been played with with any one elses sex toys |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you speak with the nurses & do research or work in health you'll find that there is no such thing as safe sex but there is risk reduction, oral sex poses a lesser risk than intercourse, still a risk attached, but lesser. Then add in whether the guy cums in your mouth or the fem squirts in your mouth & you have another level of risk again. Even using a condom for all these activities doesn't take away the risk, it merely reduces it. The point I was making is that bb intercourse, vaginal or anal are the greatest risk & therefore foolish on a site like this. Only my opinion x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Glad see a discussion going, in my opinion when I know a girl is clean I prefer bareback because for a guy feels so much better"
How can you be 100% sure? What if the girl claimed to be using contraception but wasn't or her contraception failed? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"And likewise in such orgy what about toys that are used on one woman then another , and so on and so on ,,,,
you put condoms on the toys!  "
i have lots of toys in order to prevent double dipping x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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This is a pretty good way if getting yourself blocked by a lot of women on here. Anyone going in without a skin on is tempting fate. Fair enough in an LTR but someone who you've never met and know nothing about is suicide. As a couple you can at least go get yourself tested together and make a sensible decision about what to do or not to do. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Please see thread on spread of syphilis in south wales.
Let's face it, all things being equal the ideal is to get tested and have unprotected sex in the safety and security of a relationship. But out there in the big world. Play safe. Or risk getting something that may affect the rest of your life. And all for a quick shag. Not worth it... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Your right there lush, you can get gonorea through oral sex, Wonder how many women knew that."
Some bugger gave me oral gonorrhea when I first joined fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Don't young people get basic sexual health advice nowadays? Surely there's enough information out there to indicate the risks & where's common sense? You have bb sex with someone, you're also sharing the nasties from all that persons previous partners. It's not rocket science.
Another single guy who'll be mass blocked by women for posting a silly question, useful for
those of us who want to limit our risks though
x"
But it's ok for you to have unprotected cocks slipping in and out of your mouth as shown in your gallery photos! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't young people get basic sexual health advice nowadays? Surely there's enough information out there to indicate the risks & where's common sense? You have bb sex with someone, you're also sharing the nasties from all that persons previous partners. It's not rocket science.
Another single guy who'll be mass blocked by women for posting a silly question, useful for
those of us who want to limit our risks though
x
But it's ok for you to have unprotected cocks slipping in and out of your mouth as shown in your gallery photos!"
If you read the thread you will follow the conversation, I go to the clinic every 8 weeks & have done so for 4 years, I know the risk attached to each thing I do & I play according to the guy I'm with, what I know of their activity. I could put up the pics of those I bj with a condom but for some reason people don't find those interesting. Me sucking cock of those I'm familiar with & meet regularly is not risk free but it is a lesser risk than bb vaginal & anal intercourse, that is a well researched fact. It's good to know you're a couple who practice safe sex in every way, orally as well as vaginally, each to their own & all the best, but I risk assess my activity as I see fit according to the information I read & am given at clinic x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't young people get basic sexual health advice nowadays? Surely there's enough information out there to indicate the risks & where's common sense? You have bb sex with someone, you're also sharing the nasties from all that persons previous partners. It's not rocket science.
Another single guy who'll be mass blocked by women for posting a silly question, useful for
those of us who want to limit our risks though
x
But it's ok for you to have unprotected cocks slipping in and out of your mouth as shown in your gallery photos!
If you read the thread you will follow the conversation, I go to the clinic every 8 weeks & have done so for 4 years, I know the risk attached to each thing I do & I play according to the guy I'm with, what I know of their activity. I could put up the pics of those I bj with a condom but for some reason people don't find those interesting. Me sucking cock of those I'm familiar with & meet regularly is not risk free but it is a lesser risk than bb vaginal & anal intercourse, that is a well researched fact. It's good to know you're a couple who practice safe sex in every way, orally as well as vaginally, each to their own & all the best, but I risk assess my activity as I see fit according to the information I read & am given at clinic x"
Based on all that then you still feel it's your place to lecture others on what to do and what not to do,
What makes you think they haven't weighed up the risks the same as you do !
We are all grown ups we don't need to told what and what not to do especially by others who take the same risks when they see fit.
You say you play 'according to what the guy on day has told you about what he's done and not done' And as we all know single guys never tell lies do they !
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ok ok calm down I don't think anyone is trying to tell anyone what to do
Saying young ppl don't get tested isn't quite fair tbh as I don't really see many ppl in their 40's and 50's or older when I go to the clinic but there are plenty on here
And like I said earlier not everyone is aware of the risks or how easy it is to catch these things so if thing post has made one person stop and think then we have done good
This is a debate not a chance to personally attack ppl cos of what's in their pics
Anyway it's the weekend let's all have fun x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't young people get basic sexual health advice nowadays? Surely there's enough information out there to indicate the risks & where's common sense? You have bb sex with someone, you're also sharing the nasties from all that persons previous partners. It's not rocket science.
Another single guy who'll be mass blocked by women for posting a silly question, useful for
those of us who want to limit our risks though
x
But it's ok for you to have unprotected cocks slipping in and out of your mouth as shown in your gallery photos!
If you read the thread you will follow the conversation, I go to the clinic every 8 weeks & have done so for 4 years, I know the risk attached to each thing I do & I play according to the guy I'm with, what I know of their activity. I could put up the pics of those I bj with a condom but for some reason people don't find those interesting. Me sucking cock of those I'm familiar with & meet regularly is not risk free but it is a lesser risk than bb vaginal & anal intercourse, that is a well researched fact. It's good to know you're a couple who practice safe sex in every way, orally as well as vaginally, each to their own & all the best, but I risk assess my activity as I see fit according to the information I read & am given at clinic x
Based on all that then you still feel it's your place to lecture others on what to do and what not to do,
What makes you think they haven't weighed up the risks the same as you do !
We are all grown ups we don't need to told what and what not to do especially by others who take the same risks when they see fit.
You say you play 'according to what the guy on day has told you about what he's done and not done' And as we all know single guys never tell lies do they !
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A comment is not a lecture, this is a lecture, a lecture from someone with a bee in their bonnet about me & strangely enough not about any of the other comments on the thread hmmmmm. Have a good weekend now & here's a lick n a suck just for you   over the double condom & dental dam of course |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok ok calm down I don't think anyone is trying to tell anyone what to do
Saying young ppl don't get tested isn't quite fair tbh as I don't really see many ppl in their 40's and 50's or older when I go to the clinic but there are plenty on here
And like I said earlier not everyone is aware of the risks or how easy it is to catch these things so if thing post has made one person stop and think then we have done good
This is a debate not a chance to personally attack ppl cos of what's in their pics
Anyway it's the weekend let's all have fun x"
You know what Lush, I think the pic of me kissing the end of my hubby of 20 years cock, is a nice tasteful pic, it's a shame it's caused outrage in this way |
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By *rSam160 OP Man
over a year ago
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Btw am not saying thats what I do with members on fab, I was on about what are peoples views because there are members on fab who want bareback, I only spoke about doing bareback in a previous relationship but am not suggesting thats what I do, safe is the only way with strangers |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen don't feel like you have to explain it's nice to have a topic where people have a conversation
You will always get ppl disagreeing on things that's what makes it interesting |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't young people get basic sexual health advice nowadays? Surely there's enough information out there to indicate the risks & where's common sense? You have bb sex with someone, you're also sharing the nasties from all that persons previous partners. It's not rocket science.
Another single guy who'll be mass blocked by women for posting a silly question, useful for
those of us who want to limit our risks though
x
But it's ok for you to have unprotected cocks slipping in and out of your mouth as shown in your gallery photos!
If you read the thread you will follow the conversation, I go to the clinic every 8 weeks & have done so for 4 years, I know the risk attached to each thing I do & I play according to the guy I'm with, what I know of their activity. I could put up the pics of those I bj with a condom but for some reason people don't find those interesting. Me sucking cock of those I'm familiar with & meet regularly is not risk free but it is a lesser risk than bb vaginal & anal intercourse, that is a well researched fact. It's good to know you're a couple who practice safe sex in every way, orally as well as vaginally, each to their own & all the best, but I risk assess my activity as I see fit according to the information I read & am given at clinic x
Based on all that then you still feel it's your place to lecture others on what to do and what not to do,
What makes you think they haven't weighed up the risks the same as you do !
We are all grown ups we don't need to told what and what not to do especially by others who take the same risks when they see fit.
You say you play 'according to what the guy on day has told you about what he's done and not done' And as we all know single guys never tell lies do they !
A comment is not a lecture, this is a lecture, a lecture from someone with a bee in their bonnet about me & strangely enough not about any of the other comments on the thread hmmmmm. Have a good weekend now & here's a lick n a suck just for you over the double condom & dental dam of course "
Please be assured we do not have a bee in our bonnet about you , your not important to us.
We simply think that people who live in glass houses shouldn't throw stones.
Your more than welcome to have the last word so feel free, we will end our interest in this thread here and now. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"If you speak with the nurses & do research or work in health you'll find that there is no such thing as safe sex but there is risk reduction, oral sex poses a lesser risk than intercourse, still a risk attached, but lesser. Then add in whether the guy cums in your mouth or the fem squirts in your mouth & you have another level of risk again. Even using a condom for all these activities doesn't take away the risk, it merely reduces it. The point I was making is that bb intercourse, vaginal or anal are the greatest risk & therefore foolish on a site like this. Only my opinion x"
Total agreement here with peach,, i actuallly work in medical profession and all she says here is correct,, if you go to a good clinic for full sexual health check they should offer a complete check including throat swabs and if your honest and tell them the lifestyle you lead with give you plenty of condoms xx  |
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By *rSam160 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Listen don't feel like you have to explain it's nice to have a topic where people have a conversation
You will always get ppl disagreeing on things that's what makes it interesting "
Thank you hun |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Ok ok calm down I don't think anyone is trying to tell anyone what to do
Saying young ppl don't get tested isn't quite fair tbh as I don't really see many ppl in their 40's and 50's or older when I go to the clinic but there are plenty on here
And like I said earlier not everyone is aware of the risks or how easy it is to catch these things so if thing post has made one person stop and think then we have done good
This is a debate not a chance to personally attack ppl cos of what's in their pics
Anyway it's the weekend let's all have fun x"
Got to say the gum nurse said it's people in their 40s that are most at risk because when we were young there weren't all these stis out there. I never used condoms in my 20s. I was just on the pill. And the clinics are always full of young people getting tested. I'm always the oldest without exception. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Can I just say that most drop in clinics won't see you without an appointment if you tick yes to a few questions.. one being bi sexual it no longer seems to refer to just guys either x |
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