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over a year ago
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Best bet would be to block him and say nothing. No good will come of you telling your sister. You could tell him you know but would leave your sister out of it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its a problem if you tell your sister it could break down yr relationship with her but... onthe other hand can you really let yr sis marry this man. Does he know who you are? If not and he has sent you a face pic print out his profile, message and his pics before you block him. Then you got some time to think. You could always say a workmate or friend gave them to you cos they recognised who he was |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Tell him to get off here and grow up / this is his last chance.
If he dosent and continues, tell her. She's family."
 I'd be tempted to do that too. Not a great start to married life if he's on here messaging his future sister in law  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i think what you should do is arrange a meet with this guy, obviously he doesnt know its you, imagine his face when you meet him at the designated place, will certainly give him second thoughts about being on here |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No he don't know its me...
Butter wouldn't melt if you met him.
Think I'm gonna say someone told and showed me his pic/profile see what he says.
As for meeting him yuck yuck yuck.. I knew she could do better.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"its a problem if you tell your sister it could break down yr relationship with her but... onthe other hand can you really let yr sis marry this man. Does he know who you are? If not and he has sent you a face pic print out his profile, message and his pics before you block him. Then you got some time to think. You could always say a workmate or friend gave them to you cos they recognised who he was "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The question is ....
Does your sister know you're on Fab ?
Does your sister know he's on Fab?
Maybe she's on Fab herself ...
Maybe they swing together and individually ...
You can only know if you ask him some of these questions.
To prejudge anyone without knowing the facts of their relationship, your sister or otherwise.....  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"The question is ....
Does your sister know you're on Fab ?
Does your sister know he's on Fab?
Maybe she's on Fab herself ...
Maybe they swing together and individually ...
You can only know if you ask him some of these questions.
To prejudge anyone without knowing
the facts of their relationship, your
sister or otherwise..... "
my sister is not on here she would go mad if she knew I was... His profile says his single. Working and can accommodate. He don't even work lazy shit that he is... I'm gussung he can accommodate while my sister is at work while his meant to be looking after the baby.. |
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get him to send a face pic then say that you know him from the local area etc and hes getting married and if he doesn't close his account you will tell all that should shock him into closing his account if he wants to be with your sister he will close it. good luck  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"He did send photos that's how I know its him.
pretend you know him shock him into closing the account see if that works good luck x"
And just open a new one its that easy... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your sister can do better then tell her, let her make her own decision, honestly if he's doing that now, do you think the marriage will last and be happy??
I wish my parents had said some things to me when I was going to get married, ended up being the unhappiest 18 months of my life and luckily I was strong enough to do something about it. Imagine if she ends up with this idiot and can't get out.
What's worse? a few months of hurt but knowing that she will find someone who will treat her right or a lifetime of pain.
What can you live with easier? |
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"If your sister can do better then tell her, let her make her own decision, honestly if he's doing that now, do you think the marriage will last and be happy??
I wish my parents had said some things to me when I was going to get married, ended up being the unhappiest 18 months of my life and luckily I was strong enough to do something about it. Imagine if she ends up with this idiot and can't get out.
What's worse? a few months of hurt but knowing that she will find someone who will treat her right or a lifetime of pain.
What can you live with easier?"
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By (user no longer on site)
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If you confront him it could go a different way -
He deletes his profile, re-joins under a new name, and keeps tabs on you. He then has the upper hand and could turn it against you at a later date.
Difficult, but is your relationship strong enough with your sister to tell her?
You can say to your sister, you were prompted to him via a third party. Then create a profile together with the intention of "flushing" him out. She can then see the evidence and make her decision on the next step.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"If you confront him it could go a different way -
He deletes his profile, re-joins under a new name, and keeps tabs on you. He then has the upper hand and could turn it against you at a later date.
Difficult, but is your relationship strong enough with your sister to tell her?
You can say to your sister, you were prompted to him via a third party. Then create a profile together with the intention of "flushing" him out. She can then see the evidence and make her decision on the next step.
#awkwardpositontobein"
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By (user no longer on site)
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I agree with Casper. Tell him you know he is on fab but warn him that if he hurts your sister look out. Ask him why he u=is marrying her if she isn't enough for him? |
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"its a problem if you tell your sister it could break down yr relationship with her but... onthe other hand can you really let yr sis marry this man. Does he know who you are? If not and he has sent you a face pic print out his profile, message and his pics before you block him. Then you got some time to think. You could always say a workmate or friend gave them to you cos they recognised who he was "
thaks what i would do
oh and if your stuck for a genuine meet  |
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