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over a year ago
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"Ok I'm not moaning or complaining but just once it would be nice to get a message off an interested party without me sending one first, just saying lol xxx"
you must be bonkers lol  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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just looked at your profile.
There are LOADS of guys on here looking for a fuck which means you are already struggling, then you say you are married.
Maybe the reason you aren't getting much contact from interested parties is because there aren't that many interested?
Like you, just saying.
Guess you will just have to be extremely patient. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It seems that most women I know, don't like to make the 1st move & won't wink or message a guy. Personally I've only ever met guys I've approached myself, either by winking 1st or messaging to chat. I find this works better for me X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Possibly because we find that a lot of men on here just write things on their profile that they think we want to hear - or else just plain lie...
So if we write to the profile, we often find that the guy behind it has a completely different agenda and personality.
Then we eventually learn not to make the first move in case we end up having to back out rapidly. It's simpler to just sit still and see if anybody approaches us, and not worry if they don't.
I wish that it weren't so - but that's experience...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"As a single fem i never get change to look at who's about as get quite a few messages
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I just bulk delete my messages, leaves plenty of time for looking X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically paying for sex then?!
I must be a bit dense because I don't get that? "
me neither peachy that's why I said what I said ! We accommodate without hotels ourselves . But don't see how paying for a room can equate to paying for sex ! Two different things really ,,  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have on occasion used a room & sometimes we've paid, sometimes they've paid & sometimes we've halved the cost, but it's usually when the room is in use for a trip etc. Is this the same thinking as those guys who reckon they're guaranteed sex because they bought you a drink & a kebab on a night out hmmmmm  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"So basically paying for sex then?!
I must be a bit dense because I don't get that? me neither peachy that's why I said what I said ! We accommodate without hotels ourselves . But don't see how paying for a room can equate to paying for sex ! Two different things really ,, "
I've paid towards a room and the room in the past and it has been for a number of reasons with different meets
Ie distance , children etc
Does not equate to paying for sex but the convenience of a roof and a bed or a chair or a shower or the floor or window sill or !!!!!! All of the above  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Noooo that's not what I meant, I have used hotels in the past too.
What I meant was. He is married so I would assume he can't accommodate but in his profile it says he can. If he does book hotel rooms then it's like he is paying to cheat on his wife. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Noooo that's not what I meant, I have used hotels in the past too.
What I meant was. He is married so I would assume he can't accommodate but in his profile it says he can. If he does book hotel rooms then it's like he is paying to cheat on his wife. "
Aaah right I get it well only he knows the answers to those questions |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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To be honest we have found that lots of guys aren't completely truthful in their profile so maybe he is another one.
We are not judging, but the facts are he is using the excuse of swinging to cheat on his wife therefore lying will be nothing new to him.
Just saying how it is. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lush-lips, stating facts is not judging in our book.
Each to their own, however from what we have seen the swinging world is built around honesty not deceit. Are the married people on here swinging as a single person really just cheating?
Aren't there sites for that?
We guess that is the subject of another thread maybe? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm married & swing as a single but he knows about all I do, I don't consider that cheating I just consider that a different type of relationship to yours & many others, I even have men & women to the house when he's out X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sorry Peachyboo, we didn't explain ourselves very well.
Swinging with the full consent of your partner is very different to swinging behind your partner's back.
We agree with you completely that it is not cheating and are sorry if we may have caused you or anyone else offence by not being clear.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Sorry Peachyboo, we didn't explain ourselves very well.
Swinging with the full consent of your partner is very different to swinging behind your partner's back.
We agree with you completely that it is not cheating and are sorry if we may have caused you or anyone else offence by not being clear.
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No offence taken by me as its a good thread debated well xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sorry Peachyboo, we didn't explain ourselves very well.
Swinging with the full consent of your partner is very different to swinging behind your partner's back.
We agree with you completely that it is not cheating and are sorry if we may have caused you or anyone else offence by not being clear.
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No offence taken x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No I'm sure generally it means in your house
Maybe he has ladies over when his wife is at work "
I don't think it's just houses many couples use hotels vid they don't want people to know where they live , people also use camper vans , and or caravan. To accommodate , done of threes are very luxurious xx   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with both sides to be honest.
Accommodation does generally mean the place where you are living either permanently or temporarily, but on the other hand you can accommodate anyone in a hotel, caravan or anywhere else we guess!!
One bone of contention that has flowed through this thread is are we discussing good old honest swinging, or using swinging as another way of describing cheating on your partner by not telling them what you are doing?
In that case anywhere you are isn't too good! |
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