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over a year ago
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I've recently had feedback from several females saying they'd never meet a bi male. No clear reasoning or rationale behind it when asked. I accepted their choice and respected their views, however I'd welcome your thoughts both for and against meeting a bi male. I look forward to an insight from a woman's perspective as to why it's not for some women....... |
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I responded to another couple of posts on this very subject and was accused firstly of being homophobic and then biphobic!!! To answer your question I am physically repelled by the thought of a man being intimate with me if he has been with another guy/guys. I do not mean to offend anyone it's just the way I am. Each to their own and there are plenty of women out there who don't have an issue with it, just as there are plenty of straight guys out there for me! |
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No offence taken, that's your preference. I just don't understand the reasoning for it. Genuine question, as I am interested in the response - What is it that repels you? |
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"No offence taken, that's your preference. I just don't understand the reasoning for it. Genuine question, as I am interested in the response - What is it that repels you?"
It goes back to something I saw in my teens which I thought was all wrong and I never got the image out of my head. This was a time where homosexuality was a big no no. Funnily enough I don't have an issue with gay/bi people or porn, I just don't want to be intimate with a bi man. It must be a generation thing.  |
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"No offence taken, that's your preference. I just don't understand the reasoning for it. Genuine question, as I am interested in the response - What is it that repels you?
It goes back to something I saw in my teens which I thought was all wrong and I never got the image out of my head. This was a time where homosexuality was a big no no. Funnily enough I don't have an issue with gay/bi people or porn, I just don't want to be intimate with a bi man. It must be a generation thing. "
Thanks for explaining. 
I wonder what the most common reason for no being interested in bi men is |
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"That's an interesting one. What kind of versatility have you found? "
I like that I can mix & match my meets & its been very successful, most of my bi guy meets have met each other at some point X |
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"No offence taken, that's your preference. I just don't understand the reasoning for it. Genuine question, as I am interested in the response - What is it that repels you?
It goes back to something I saw in my teens which I thought was all wrong and I never got the image out of my head. This was a time where homosexuality was a big no no. Funnily enough I don't have an issue with gay/bi people or porn, I just don't want to be intimate with a bi man. It must be a generation thing. "
No chance of a meet with me and pretty then exgodess lol. Often get that too Pretty,, don't expect too many couple veri's either. Just the way it is. |
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Lots of different reasons probably.
But it doesn't help that the last time I went for a check-up at the clinic and admitted that I'm a swinger, I got a long lecture on "keep away from bi men - they have all kinds if infections.." !!!
They shouldn't be saying this, but if they do then it does colour your choices. |
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"Lots of different reasons probably.
But it doesn't help that the last time I went for a check-up at the clinic and admitted that I'm a swinger, I got a long lecture on "keep away from bi men - they have all kinds if infections.." !!!
They shouldn't be saying this, but if they do then it does colour your choices. "
That's very disappointing from medical professionals, stereotyping us. I can only speak for myself and say quality over quantity and safe sex only |
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"I've been with bi guys and tbh it don't bother me
Ppl seem to be ok with bi women but not men what's the difference "
Thank you, it's encouraging that not everyone is put off |
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Its a personal choice surely. I have bi males who are good friends outside of this site but myself would not want sexual anything between myself and bisexual men. It is their choice to have sex with both sexes and my choice not to have sex with a bi man. After all life is all about choices isnt it  |
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"Its a personal choice surely. I have bi males who are good friends outside of this site but myself would not want sexual anything between myself and bisexual men. It is their choice to have sex with both sexes and my choice not to have sex with a bi man. After all life is all about choices isnt it "
Absolutely, I do agree it's personal choice. I'm just trying to understand why women don't like it? It's not a physical thing and you can't see bi-sexuality so why does it put women off when they know?
There are a lot of straight-labelled guys who are bi and part of the reason they don't label as bi is because they know women won't meet them |
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"I give blood..bi/gay men cannot give blood as too high risk..hence that is why I would not have sex with bi men.  "
Oh so they can't be screened first
Every bi/gay guy has got something lol |
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"I give blood..bi/gay men cannot give blood as too high risk..hence that is why I would not have sex with bi men.
Oh so they can't be screened first
Every bi/gay guy has got something lol "
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"I have had bi MMF meets in the past but only in a voyeuristic sense as I find two guys fucking to be exceptionally hot.  "
I'm loving the bi friendly women |
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"I give blood..bi/gay men cannot give blood as too high risk..hence that is why I would not have sex with bi men.
Oh so they can't be screened first
Every bi/gay guy has got something lol "
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To be honest, if I met a man who I didn't know was bi and we got on really well both in and out of the bedroom, I would have to rethink my feelings if I subsequently found out he was bi. As I said before in a previous thread, I am probably doing myself out of some great meets with yummy men! lol |
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Some interesting points of view,bit what if a guy just says he is straight. And, doesn't admit to having any bi sexual experiences. I have had plenty of guys on here message for a meet who say they are straight yet want to meet for fun.. Surely honesty is the best policy. You could easily be meeting a bi sexual guy, but he won't admit it just in case it blows the chance of meeting. |
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