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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok so i have met a young lady who likes bdsm can anyome give me sum advice on how to do it she is a sub wants me to be the dom x any tips would be greatfull thank u xx  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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bdsm is some thing you need to be sure you know what you are doing , have safe words , i use the traffic light system, you and your partner are better off trying light bondage and move in on from there, with most subs it is a fantasy but when reality kicks in they usually chicken out , it is some thing that can be dangerous done with little experience, plenty of good bdsm sites to be had, were it is taken very seriously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Remember that as the dominant her safety is in your hands, she is giving you the control over her, treat it with respect and don't push too quickly.
Find out if she has done anything before, what she likes and what she doesn't and go from there, use what she tells you as ingredients in your play, mix them up together and drive her wild
One great tool to remember is patience, don't rush the play. Mind games can be a big part of S&M play, keep her guessing. If she is tied and blindfolded pause between actions, the waiting will make her mind go into overload and it heightens the sensations.
When I first started I was told to think, is what I am doing Safe, Sane and Consensual. If your play meets all those conditions you should be ok, have fun  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yeah I agree from my experience give her a few digs in the ribs and slap her about abit and if she doesn't tell you to fuck off you're on the right tracks !!!!!
By the way I run my own classes on a Sunday...just bring your own weapons...
Do not being knuckle dusters though...I've got plenty that you can use....
Peachy you coming this Sunday if the fracture had healed ?????    |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yeah I agree from my experience give her a few digs in the ribs and slap her about abit and if she doesn't tell you to fuck off you're on the right tracks !!!!!
By the way I run my own classes on a Sunday...just bring your own weapons...
Do not being knuckle dusters though...I've got plenty that you can use....
Peachy you coming this Sunday if the fracture had healed ????? "
I'll be there sexy, you know I love the rough stuff you do to me mmmmmm
Fuck the fracture I'm hard core |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You sure Peach? I've heard that the skull takes some time to heal???
Might need to look at our 'stop' word again ....brain me brain me has too many connotations don't you think?? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe some ppl are naturally dom
Others sub
Some are both but if ur sub it may be harder to dom someone
I don't quiet no what I am lol "
Lol loud and proud |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You sure Peach? I've heard that the skull takes some time to heal???
Might need to look at our 'stop' word again ....brain me brain me has too many connotations don't you think?? "
Sorry Billy, you know me & safe words they just don't work X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe some ppl are naturally dom
Others sub
Some are both but if ur sub it may be harder to dom someone "
Some people, like me & Chewy are switch & can be either with each other, I'm surprisingly more sub with fems than I am with guys x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe some ppl are naturally dom
Others sub
Some are both but if ur sub it may be harder to dom someone "
no I switch if someone's a crap Dom . Most doms have been subs in the past xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I believe some ppl are naturally dom
Others sub
Some are both but if ur sub it may be harder to dom someone no I switch if someone's a crap Dom . Most doms have been subs in the past xx "
Well I've never been a sub to anyone and like I said some ppl are both aka a switch, I'd say I'm more dom then sub but can switch depending on the person I'm with |
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