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How hard is it to get a meet!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it's always hard for single guys to get a meet...
however you have only been on here a week, so I don't know how you thought this would work but most people won't meet anyone that isn't verified.. the best way to go about it is to attend a social and get yourself known that way
good luck...you will need it  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"This comes up all the time mate,, you've only been on a week lol
Get your name down and go to social,, that way people can see your genuine... "
Socials are the way to go! Last Saturday was the Bridgend social, organised by jadex, she always has a good turn out!! Apparently the Newport one is good, that's on the 7th June and good old ( sorry young ) Jade is organising another Bridgend one 14th, you should def put your name down for that one!!' |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Problem for you single guys are the arsehole time wasters on here that arrange meets then disappear as the meet gets closer, this has a knock on effect for the genuine guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is it me or is it really hard for a guy to get to meet a woman on here? X"
Maybe it's your initial approach that's wrong because that pic is very yummy. Be polite, respectful & funny & always, always show that you've read a person's profile fully & understood it by referring to it in that 1st message. All the best X |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"This comes up all the time mate,, you've only been on a week lol
Get your name down and go to social,, that way people can see your genuine...
Socials are the way to go! Last Saturday was the Bridgend social, organised by jadex, she always has a good turn out!! Apparently the Newport one is good, that's on the 7th June and good old ( sorry young ) Jade is organising another Bridgend one 14th, you should def put your name down for that one!!'"
I'm sure Newport currently has a waiting list for single men
You could try attending a club get chatting to ppl there I'm sure most ppl do veris |
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As has been said, socials are the way to go.
Remember also, although this is a swinging site, its not called "Instashag", a week is nothing, some guys can he waiting months for their first play meet!
Your profile could do with a bit more detail, check out some other guys who have had some success, and ask yourself, "how does my profile compare to his?" |
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"As has been said, socials are the way to go.
Remember also, although this is a swinging site, its not called "Instashag", a week is nothing, some guys can he waiting months for their first play meet!
Your profile could do with a bit more detail, check out some other guys who have had some success, and ask yourself, "how does my profile compare to his?""
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By (user no longer on site)
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"As has been said, socials are the way to go.
Remember also, although this is a swinging site, its not called "Instashag", a week is nothing, some guys can he waiting months for their first play meet!
Your profile could do with a bit more detail, check out some other guys who have had some success, and ask yourself, "how does my profile compare to his?""
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"plenty of people on here that are not interested in socials, i dont want to socialise, just meet ?"
Like I said b4, its hard for a single guys, and there are some people who will just meet,, but a lot prefer meeting at the socials as this does out the time wasters, fakes and married single guys lol |
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"plenty of people on here that are not interested in socials, i dont want to socialise, just meet ?"
I kinda guessed before looking that you might be married, this is the kind of attitude that means you only have one veri in over a year!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its only as hard as you make it! Sorry to be blunt but that's the way it is.1 thing you have to be is a realist.Im sure you will understand what Im saying |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Put it this way when a new women comes on site she gets 200 odd messages I know that because I have met new member and she showed me so your one message have got to stand out I suppose |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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its really difficult!!! even for us couples....Just remember as a single guy you are looking to shag someone elses wife/girlfriend..You have to have something diff to offer on your profile..Doesnt ness..have to be a 6 pack and a big cock!!!!!!!!!!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just looked at your profile1!! duuuuurrrrr needs loads of work..and more pics..cock pics dont do it for a lot of couples!!! and you need to put more in about yourself..You dont really say if you can accomodate..when single guys Can't..it usually a sign they are involved and looking for a bit on the side..or still living at home..... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We like to meet single guys but, as said before, there really are hundreds to choose from. A face pic makes all the difference and if you don't want it on your profile, send one in a mail. Also, one line or crude mails don't impress. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You also have to remember this is a swingers site NOT a shagging site. You want free shags when ever you feel horny your on the wrong site. This is for like minded people to chat and have fun and who may be open to naughty fun with the right peeps. Yes some peeps on here will meet anyone, anywhere but for most swingers this is just for occasional fun. Most people on here have real lives with all the problems that go with that and can't/won't drop everything because someone wants to shag em.
We turn down offers and we are far from stunners. Various reason such as lack of funds to go out, kids around that day, working or often we just don't fancy the peeps that way.
But if you want to make good friends and occasionally more best of luck.
Socials definitely the way to go starting out though. Also BE POLITE and no means NO. Their reasons are none of your business. A few basic rules that a lot of single males forget on here unfortunately. Wishing any serious new peeps all the best of luck.
Sorry that was longer than I intended lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just meeting meets done that in the past some were great others were not . People didnt look like their pictures which some were ten to 15 years out of date ! Have to say most if these offenders were single guys ! We now only meet single guys at socials and when we do play with then that's the pool of people we chose from . We know they are reAl, genuine and what they look like also they have a good attitude are personable and sexy . You can be the best looking person on the site with the biggest cock but if your heads up your own ass very few will
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. Sounds like a social is the way forward! I'll give it a go xx
