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Whats with all the bitching?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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There seems to be an awful lot of bitching going on lately on the forums. This is an adult site so why do a percentage act like children?
Not everyone likes everyones opinions, which is only human, but why the need to turn it into personal vendettas? I just dont get it?!?!!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Too many people on this site got their heads up their own arses and think they better than anyone else thats why they all bitching like kids arrogant b...ards |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe it's just me feeling a little jaded but the majority of posts nowadays seem to be from either single guys complaining about how difficult it is here or single guys posting comments that seem to be aimed at causing upset. Topics for discussion of debate seem to be free & far between & the fun seems very sparse. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Too many people on this site got their heads up their own arses and think they better than anyone else thats why they all bitching like kids arrogant b...ards"
Does having a view = having ones head up ones own arse? I'm not sure what's arrogant about having a say. Some of the threads lose me nowadays |
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I think some people try and offend others with their strong opinions to try and get a rise from them. I take it with a pinch of salt really. I actually find some of the comments quite funny, unless obviously someone is really offended by a comment |
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"your one of the single guy haters i see oww they such evil single guys aint they
your comment ecactly what i mean head up their arses"
Who is a single guy hater? Not sure who that was aimed at ... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your one of the single guy haters i see oww they such evil single guys aint they
your comment ecactly what i mean head up their arses"
Some single guys do themselves no favours |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your one of the single guy haters i see oww they such evil single guys aint they
your comment ecactly what i mean head up their arses"
Can't see for the shit nowadays, I suppose that's to be expected when my heads up my arse x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"your one of the single guy haters i see oww they such evil single guys aint they
your comment ecactly what i mean head up their arses"
she is one of the least people who have there head up there arses on this site!!!!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The problem is, that the forums are an open discussion, and some feel empowered when they are behind a keyboard and I think they would not be so blunt in person.
I comment on the pointless threads just as much as the next person.
Tbh, some of the single guys that have posted, requesting help with their profiles, have actually taken on board what the long time users have told them.
so surely its a good thing ?
If you don't like the thread, dont comment on it ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"If you don't like the thread, dont comment on it ? "
This.. 
Some people just like stoking fires when they get no where on here or rejected by many.
It seems the many take the bait, when they should just take a step back and ignore.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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There are always ppl who make things difficult, whinge and moan.
My advice is chill out and relax, be yourself treat others as you would like to be treated yourself.
We are all here to have fun, life's too short ... Simple
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Umm is head up your arse a sexual position coz that I've got to see
Well mine is up my arse right now, shame I can't get a pic for you  "
Haha peachy well you looked quite flexible last night at the social but I didn't realise how flexible lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Umm is head up your arse a sexual position coz that I've got to see
Well mine is up my arse right now, shame I can't get a pic for you
Haha peachy well you looked quite flexible last night at the social but I didn't realise how flexible lol "
I am a woman of many surprises & the ability to fit my head up my own arse is just one x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe it's just me feeling a little jaded but the majority of posts nowadays seem to be from either single guys complaining about how difficult it is here or single guys posting comments that seem to be aimed at causing upset. Topics for discussion of debate seem to be free & far between & the fun seems very sparse. "
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By *aydee65Man
over a year ago
Near Merthyr |
Lots of threads are full of people complaining that the original comment was pointless/repetative/inane. It makes me wonder why people spend the time to write replies if the posts irritate them so much. If its that annoying,surely it would be better to just ignore it or not open it in the first place. Agreed there are lots of posts complaining of the same things (can't get a meet etc...)and people seem to be replying to them all telling them how annoying their post is. |
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"Lots of threads are full of people complaining that the original comment was pointless/repetative/inane. It makes me wonder why people spend the time to write replies if the posts irritate them so much. If its that annoying,surely it would be better to just ignore it or not open it in the first place. Agreed there are lots of posts complaining of the same things (can't get a meet etc...)and people seem to be replying to them all telling them how annoying their post is. "
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
having attended a couple of socials,lot's of party's + Clubs don't know were all these 'up their own arses' people are?? We found the Welsh Swinging scene quiete a friendly scene ......have discovered however that some fabsters are quick to give that description for no other reason than they've been turned down.Which in my eyes realy makes them 'up their own arses' because they obviously assume everybody wants to play with them + how dare they get turned down  ......well Happy Swinging everybody
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How does one define having ones head up ones arse. Having met peachy on several occasions I can honestly say shes never smelt of shit. Just because cause someone has an opinion that differs from yours doesn't make it any less valid. Xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its like mecca bingo thesedays
Never been there. Jeese sounds a jungle
What's it like at Mecca bingo then? Never been x"
OMG mecca bingo rocks and they do a lovely hot dog  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"its like mecca bingo thesedays
Never been there. Jeese sounds a jungle
What's it like at Mecca bingo then? Never been xOMG mecca bingo rocks and they do a lovely hot dog "
luvs ya giggles you always happy bunny lovely girl xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it seems the same old sh*t comes up over and over.
Guys bitching and whinging that they don't get meets, females and couples bitching about guys (probably justifiably in most cases).
How about this for an idea?
Everyone stop airing their petty insecurities and gripes and everyone play nice m'kay? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"it seems the same old sh*t comes up over and over.
Guys bitching and whinging that they don't get meets, females and couples bitching about guys (probably justifiably in most cases).
How about this for an idea?
Everyone stop airing their petty insecurities and gripes and everyone play nice m'kay?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it seems the same old sh*t comes up over and over.
Guys bitching and whinging that they don't get meets, females and couples bitching about guys (probably justifiably in most cases).
How about this for an idea?
Everyone stop airing their petty insecurities and gripes and everyone play nice m'kay?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"it seems the same old sh*t comes up over and over.
Guys bitching and whinging that they don't get meets, females and couples bitching about guys (probably justifiably in most cases).
How about this for an idea?
Everyone stop airing their petty insecurities and gripes and everyone play nice m'kay?"
Some sense at last |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Anyway, can anyone tell me how to get a meet on here?
I hate women, detest couples and am purely heterosexual but I get no luck....
Forgot to mention I would never ever go to a social.....so any ideas would be appreciated......
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Personally, I think most of the "bitching" is down to two things.
Firstly, sometimes it's hard to judge the "tone" of what's being said when you read the written word, and a light-hearted comment, meant as a joke or flippant reply, can be mis-read and suddenly daggers are drawn.
Secondly...and there seems to be a proliferation of these lately... we have the professional "outraged of Pinner" merchants, who can take offense at the slightest thing, often when it has nothing to do with them, and turn it into a hanging offense to even have an opinion.
(There is a third reason, but cos you aint in the "clique" I cant discuss it with you, so there!)
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Personally, I think most of the "bitching" is down to two things.
Firstly, sometimes it's hard to judge the "tone" of what's being said when you read the written word, and a light-hearted comment, meant as a joke or flippant reply, can be mis-read and suddenly daggers are drawn.
Secondly...and there seems to be a proliferation of these lately... we have the professional "outraged of Pinner" merchants, who can take offense at the slightest thing, often when it has nothing to do with them, and turn it into a hanging offense to even have an opinion.
(There is a third reason, but cos you aint in the "clique" I cant discuss it with you, so there!)
"This is a public-information message, brought to you on behalf of The Forum Royalty". "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personally, I think most of the "bitching" is down to two things.
Firstly, sometimes it's hard to judge the "tone" of what's being said when you read the written word, and a light-hearted comment, meant as a joke or flippant reply, can be mis-read and suddenly daggers are drawn.
Secondly...and there seems to be a proliferation of these lately... we have the professional "outraged of Pinner" merchants, who can take offense at the slightest thing, often when it has nothing to do with them, and turn it into a hanging offense to even have an opinion.
(There is a third reason, but cos you aint in the "clique" I cant discuss it with you, so there!)
"This is a public-information message, brought to you on behalf of The Forum Royalty". "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm a single guy who doesn't complain and gets on with why were all here.
I really wish I was flexible enough to put my head up my own arse....what fun could be had! Lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Personally, I think most of the "bitching" is down to two things.
Firstly, sometimes it's hard to judge the "tone" of what's being said when you read the written word, and a light-hearted comment, meant as a joke or flippant reply, can be mis-read and suddenly daggers are drawn.
Secondly...and there seems to be a proliferation of these lately... we have the professional "outraged of Pinner" merchants, who can take offense at the slightest thing, often when it has nothing to do with them, and turn it into a hanging offense to even have an opinion.
(There is a third reason, but cos you aint in the "clique" I cant discuss it with you, so there!)
"This is a public-information message, brought to you on behalf of The Forum Royalty". "
So which "clique" do I have to join to find out the third reason and is there a test to pass?  |
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