Is it just me or does anyone else here have the problem of people not replying to messages. I am always respectful in the mails i send and always read a profile fully before mailing anyone.
Maybe I don't put the right things in but it isn't really that hard to reply is it??
I know the women on this site get inundated with mails and understand it would take them hours to reply to everyone, but Im not one of those guys who sends "fancy a fuck" type messages.
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Just feels like mailing anyone on this site is a waste of time at the moment. It takes time to read a profile and send a mail but people just don't seem to appreciate your time. Maybe Im just old school polite. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Get out from behind your screen - go to clubs, socials and parties and get to know people in person (real people who get out from behind their screens).
You'll do a lot better, and waste a hell of a lot less of your time. |
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"Get out from behind your screen - go to clubs, socials and parties and get to know people in person (real people who get out from behind their screens).
You'll do a lot better, and waste a hell of a lot less of your time."
I intend to.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I agree with you knight.i have the same thing and just like yourself the message i send is always polite.
ive wondered are you better off sayin fancy a fuck!
Lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think the guys who feel hard done by should take the time to search the forum for previous threads about the same subject & then they would be fully informed about the difficulties faced by women with single profiles. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I still dont get this moaning about messaging 
fab put a wink button on just for this reason ! You wink, they look, if they like you, they wink back,THEN you message !!!
If people used the site the way it was intended, there would be no problem ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If your not getting replies to messages, you have to wonder what are YOU are doing to improve your chances of getting your message read let alone responded to.
Poor content on profiles with no pics, hidden verification etc. Most people check a profile before reading a message - no effort with profile generally results in a message not being read.
(We are not actively looking for meets - therefore we do not have a proper profile)
If you are not getting replies, they aren't interested enough in you to check out your profile/read your message/reply.
Genuine people accept that's how it is. We've had plenty of ignored messages in the past, you don't hear us moaning about it.
People who think they deserve replies just because they send a polite message, are living in a fantasy land.
Single guys - there are many single guys on here that do very well for themselves, from having a well worded profile, plenty of good quality pics, plenty of validations on show and others go searching for them, they don't need to go messaging.
Food for thought there.. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I still dont get this moaning about messaging
fab put a wink button on just for this reason ! You wink, they look, if they like you, they wink back,THEN you message !!!
If people used the site the way it was intended, there would be no problem !"
I do just this all the time, if I like the look I wink, sometimes I get a message back & sometimes not. I prefer a wink to a message, I then have a choice where I message or delete x |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"I still dont get this moaning about messaging
fab put a wink button on just for this reason ! You wink, they look, if they like you, they wink back,THEN you message !!!
If people used the site the way it was intended, there would be no problem !"
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