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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I have over the years and years on swing site seen the saying "we are not hardened swingers" . What exactly is a hardened swinger. I still have yet to find out. Can someone explain ....... |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"No idea,can anyone enlighten me as to what soft swap is."
maybe its with a flaccid cock lol = its the NOT HARDENED SWINGERS whohave loads of sex veris puzzle me as to exactly WHAT IS A HARDENED SWINGER |
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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago
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I see quite a lot of people who like to continually 'advise' others of how to do things refer to themselves as 'experienced swingers'
Maybe they could be considered harderned swingers? I dont know really  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've often wondered & this thing with too many veris scaring people away  yeah some of us have been around a long time & some of us might meet often, some occasionally & some only socially not so sure it makes us hardened. But then again is down to those who view us to determine what they think of us x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Think hardened swingers are the Ross Kemp/Danny Dyer types. You know the "don't mug me off, or ill fack you up you slaaaaaaag" types.
Or just someone who sees this as a serious thing and not for the fun that it should be |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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My perception of a 'hardened swinger' is the'any hole a gole or any cock will do' type.They/he/she aren't interested in the social side anymore and lost the excitement of the build-up to a meet.As i only see it on profiles of fabsters who have been active swingers for some time or are returning after a break i think they want to reasure others that"yes we are experienced but we don't just play with anybody and enjoy the social side".........has anyone seen a profile were they/he/she called themselfes a Hardened Swinger?????May be that's the person/s to tell us 
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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago
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"My perception of a 'hardened swinger' is the'any hole a gole or any cock will do' type.They/he/she aren't interested in the social side anymore and lost the excitement of the build-up to a meet.As i only see it on profiles of fabsters who have been active swingers for some time or are returning after a break i think they want to reasure others that"yes we are experienced but we don't just play with anybody and enjoy the social side".........has anyone seen a profile were they/he/she called themselfes a Hardened Swinger?????May be that's the person/s to tell us
(susie)"
Ive seen quite a few profiles stating "We are by no means hardened swingers" which makes me wonder why they feel the need to explain themselves to others  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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so you get into the life of being swinger and enjoy meets.
The people you chose to meet become friends as well as swinging partners.
Then OMG we have reached our limit we better give up because somone might think we are hardened swingers!!!! shock horror! we better dump our friends and go back to sneakily watching porn for our weekend enjoyment.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"so you get into the life of being swinger and enjoy meets.
The people you chose to meet become friends as well as swinging partners.
Then OMG we have reached our limit we better give up because somone might think we are hardened swingers!!!! shock horror! we better dump our friends and go back to sneakily watching porn for our weekend enjoyment. "
so really there is no such thing as hardened swingers are there. We are who we are lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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deffo kitten . we are what we are.
Some have more time to meet and have higher sex drives so look to meet more , some meet occasionally, some are here just to be social and hardly ever meet for sex.
personally we meet mainly at our parties or with friends we have met. |
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I have been around quite a few years..(blush)...sorry to say..lol ..and have seen/heard this comment constantly, and the common meaning that has always been associated with "harden swingers" as people who are always meeting, and working their way through the phone book....this is NOT my opinion folks just what has been said around me...it's peoples judgment coming to the surface....even in swinging there is judgment that is why most of us keep it under cover...as for soft swing....yes it's everything except intercourse  Femme xx |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"so you get into the life of being swinger and enjoy meets.
The people you chose to meet become friends as well as swinging partners.
Then OMG we have reached our limit we better give up because somone might think we are hardened swingers!!!! shock horror! we better dump our friends and go back to sneakily watching porn for our weekend enjoyment. "
lol plenty of your friends be happy to sneakily watch porn with you.....could be the motto of your next party  ........well we have not reached our limit + will continue having naughty fun when time allows + ppl interest us.......funny thing: we never came across the term 'hardened kinkster' on the BDSM/fetish scene  
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By (user no longer on site)
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"so you get into the life of being swinger and enjoy meets.
The people you chose to meet become friends as well as swinging partners.
Then OMG we have reached our limit we better give up because somone might think we are hardened swingers!!!! shock horror! we better dump our friends and go back to sneakily watching porn for our weekend enjoyment. "
Well said. We've met cpls who've said they delayed meeting us because they thought we were hardened swingers yet when we actually met they realised that we were more nervous than them and thata it's not an everyday thing for us.
On one site we have 56 validations. These are a mixture of play and social meets (60% social). People look and think OMG that's loads but we've been in and out of the lifestyle for 12 years so that's 4.5 meets per year which is way less than many of the so called newbies lol |
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we might start having kink parties 