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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It rely pissis me off when people don't reply you to your messages wy cant they just say thanks but your just not my type rant over !!!!"
I see what your saying here it can be annoying but look at these points I don't know if they are valid as I always answer but
1) some females get lots of messages they'd be there ages replying to everyone there are far more males here than female
2) they say sorry your not my type then they get abuse or bombarded with messages from idiots that can't accept the female doesn't want to meet them
So in both circumstances just easier not to reply or entice these people unfortunately the tidy people suffer because some abuse others here we just have to accept it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Try walking in the shoes of a single female for a day. If we replied to every message even just to say we aren't interested we would barely get anything else done! Ok, slight exaggeration. But. . . .
I view the profile first. A good 2/5 times the message has come from someone who clearly hasn't read my profile. Then you get the " fancy meeting" " wanna fuck" " you're hot I want to lick your pussy" messages which get deleted. I try to reply to the decent messages from people who on paper fit what I'm asking for, even just to say " no thanks" but even that doesn't always happen  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I'm guilty of messaging after being told not my type example of which and I did apologise last time as I had forgotten was when I messaged punani but I imagine many people just like her get loads of messages on a daily basis |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"It would just be nice if people did "
I don't mean to be harsh, but if you are going to stick around on here, quickly get used to the fact that for single guys it's often like finding a needle in a haystack and most of the time you won't get reply. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I try and reply 2 all my messages even if its a no thanks........then i get why not????  "
Or you get abuse. and thats always fun to get after you have given a polite "No thank you".  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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too many messages - not enough time
take it as read that if they simply delete your message then its "thanks you are not my type" lol
my missus had over 30 replies within 10 minutes of a meet request
its simply not possible to reply to all
dont take it personally |
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Do you reply to any spam emails you get, or spam mail through your letterbox?
No?
How rude!
I know, I'm taking the michael a bit.. but you get the idea, just because people are on a swinging site doesnt mean they have to answer every offer of sex. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We clearly say we're not looking for guys on out profile yet we still get messages asking for meets.
If guys are gonna ignore our profile we simply ignore their message , nothing rude or unfair about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If we don't get a reply and the other party have read the message, we figure are not interested. We then save their details so we never bother them again. Try this method! x |
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"We clearly say we're not looking for guys on out profile yet we still get messages asking for meets.
If guys are gonna ignore our profile we simply ignore their message , nothing rude or unfair about it "
We had the same problem, so now single males are blocked from messaging us. |
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By *kip123Man
over a year ago
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simple solution is to politly reply that you are not interested then hit the block button straight away. No message, no abuse. If someone messages you after you have declined then more fool you for opening the message. |
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"Try walking in the shoes of a single female for a day. If we replied to every message even just to say we aren't interested we would barely get anything else done! Ok, slight exaggeration. But. . . .
I view the profile first. A good 2/5 times the message has come from someone who clearly hasn't read my profile. Then you get the " fancy meeting" " wanna fuck" " you're hot I want to lick your pussy" messages which get deleted. I try to reply to the decent messages from people who on paper fit what I'm asking for, even just to say " no thanks" but even that doesn't always happen "
Just give them a mobile number to txt.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I get hate mail, but honestly wouldnt message anyone pestering them for a meet.
I prefer word of mouth or socials.
Its never done me any harm on here going by the rule "if they want me they will find me"
There is nothing wrong with a friendly wink to say hiya ! Come look at me !
Thats what the winks are for, and if your not what they are looking for, you havent had a wink back. Simples ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ow, I've come to give my expert advice on dealing with the syndrome commonly referred to as "why the fuck does everyone ignore me".....
I feel that I'm more than qualified in this field as I think I hold the record for being the most ignored message sender on FAB....even this will probably be ignored....and it's all about turning it into a positive.....
There are many plus points....
1) never have to worry about messages to wade through and delete
2) never have to worry about an outfit for a meet....as there never is a meet
3) never worry about having to accommodating or paying for a hotel...as no fucker ever wants to come...
Etc etc etc..... So my ignored friends....
Every cloud has a silver lining....
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