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what is it with people these days ?
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has any one else had this ? we had set a meet up with what seemed to be a very nice couple chatted and agreed to meet at 9.30pm, we messaged them at 9 asking if all was still ok and they said yes we'll call as soon as we are near. 9.30 they call and say they are by some shop and I get confused and pass them onto my partner, to give them directions they then say oh we'll phone you back in a minute needless to say we never heard form them again and being polite we messaged them at 10.45 saying it was getting late and that we both had work we didn't have a reply. we then notice this morning they were verified 9 hours previously by another couple. they had planned to meet us but gone to see some one else instead it has put us off meeting now as we feel pushed out after giving them no end of chances to say they had changed there minds about meeting us and they never showed any sign of not coming even phoning before hand to say they was on there way. we are slowly giving up on this site even tho the majority have been lovely sorry for the rant but didn't know where else to ut it  |
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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago
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Its a shame they couldnt have had the courtesy to just say they'd changed their mind rather than stringing you along. Thats just childish!! I agree with everyone don't let two fucktards spoil things for you ..... Block, move on and carry on enjoying yourselves  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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If you want a time waster tag, why not post the idea in the site feedback forum ? 
And as for naming and shaming, yes, we would all love to do it, but its not allowed in the forums |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been swinging years and have heard it all.
Some couple double book and go with what they consider to be the better cpl and don't give a toss who the mess around ,funnily enough though they usually have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profile.
also loads of single men pretend to be a couple and keep the deception going till the meet time . we dont understand why there isn't a name and shame policy.....probably because there will be 3 out of 5 couples named and shamed .
Its just rude and ill mannered but its the way society is these days .
people fuck each other over without blinking an eyelid .
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Had a meet not turn up again. He's online when he's supposed to be at mine!!! And all the meets I could have had whilst waiting for him, but no I gave him benefit of doubt x he is however found himself on my block list. Please may I also say sorry in advance if I have ever pissed anyone off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private notes are a godsend, whenever I get an arsey guy wanting to know why I responded in a certain way I'm able to check the note & tell them x"
how do you do that? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Private notes are a godsend, whenever I get an arsey guy wanting to know why I responded in a certain way I'm able to check the note & tell them x
how do you do that?"
It's one of the grey boxes for private notes on every profile, in between verify as genuine and block user. I use it a lot! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have been swinging years and have heard it all.
Some couple double book and go with what they consider to be the better cpl and don't give a toss who the mess around ,funnily enough though they usually have "HATE TIMEWASTERS" on their profile.
also loads of single men pretend to be a couple and keep the deception going till the meet time . we dont understand why there isn't a name and shame policy.....probably because there will be 3 out of 5 couples named and shamed .
Its just rude and ill mannered but its the way society is these days .
people fuck each other over without blinking an eyelid .
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Amen to that cos its spot |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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dont name and shame in forum or chat cos you get yourself a ban. Word of mouth when u meet ppl much better hun. not all couples are timewasters hope you get lucky xxx |
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The thing that get under our skin is some one agreeing a meet, then they go off line for the rest of the evening before you had chance to swap phone numbers and speak.
We dont blow them out the water because then we get the timewaster label, so we stupidly wait for them to come back on line, until its too late to get another meet. As we are pretty rural here mostly one of us has a bit of a drive, we cant just get a quicky arranged as we could if we lived in Cardiff say |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"You can always mention timewasters in your status!!!!!!!!!
Thank you xxxxx for a lovely night shame you didnt show up to enjoy it with us
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The best way then all who know you will ask for details x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In Full agreement we are lucky enough not to be badly treated.
But fab is still a great site we believe most couples are genuine.
Please don't loss faith it only helps them that treat couple badly to increase there percentage on this site.   |
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its nice to hear of so many nice people on here 