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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks."
no thanks thats ageist please dont apply for any socials/parties/dogging we organise  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no thanks thats ageist please dont apply for any socials/parties/dogging we organise "
Personal preferences isn't Warren. |
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks."
What about couples where on is under 40 and one is over? Would only the younger person be allowed to attend? |
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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago
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That's very ageist
Many couples over 40 act and look younger than most 35 year olds.
They are also more sensible, carry less baggage and know how to conduct themselves better than "younger" couples |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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No ones gunna be checking id
Please can we keep this thread for positives and not BS ta |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Wtf!! How would u feel if someone organised a social not allowing single males, I'm sure that would be classed as sexist |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I know there is a interest for such an event, tbh it should be no couples too ideally.... Here come the keyboard warriors!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Steve is over forty so we defo can't come |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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This thread will be very long if everyone who can't come posts |
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(Pulls up a chair, and grabs some popcorn)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"(Pulls up a chair, and grabs some popcorn)
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Salted or sweet ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Would be ok if fab was a dating site and not a swinging site |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No ones gunna be checking id
Please can we keep this thread for positives and not BS ta"
The OP started the bullshit, others just responding |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Who decides what allowed en??
The swingers committee??
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By *iggers4uCouple
over a year ago
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks."
So are these 'friends' members or non members expecting a quick shag?? oh, and ayways least we now know why we dont get invites as we are over the hill......... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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no thanks thats ageist please dont apply for any socials/parties/dogging we organise
Personal preferences isn't Warren. "
lol no just taking the mick i got enough going on
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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago
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"Who decides what allowed en??
The swingers committee??
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Bet you wish you were not ageist on this now. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Non if ypur business your not invited
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks.
your invited to mine anytime tiggs m8 sorry mart got no popcorn but your invited also
So are these 'friends' members or non members expecting a quick shag?? oh, and ayways least we now know why we dont get invites as we are over the hill......... "
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Wazza do me a favour, and go post somewhere else old chum |
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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago
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"Who decides what allowed en??
The swingers committee??
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Yes the swinging committee
You can't be on it your too young |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks."
are u fecking serious?  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hold ONI grab my violin now |
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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks.
your invited to mine anytime tiggs m8 sorry mart got no popcorn but your invited also
So are these 'friends' members or non members expecting a quick shag?? oh, and ayways least we now know why we dont get invites as we are over the hill......... "
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By *andyMooCouple
over a year ago
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks.are u fecking serious? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wazza do me a favour, and go post somewhere else old chum"
is there another forum in wales ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Over forties ?
Sooo last century !  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Dunno Wazza mate
If there is let me know I'll go wind them up too cheers kid |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Rude and childish, good luck!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Totes soz about me |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Wow, so many defensive people , do none of you have preferences yourselves?
Please leave the thread to any people that might want this kind of social  |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Please leave the thread to any people that might want this kind of social "
Actually strike that as the man asked for views so can't complain when you give them.
My first half still stands though, all of us have preferences  |
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Please leave the thread to any people that might want this kind of social
Actually strike that as the man asked for views so can't complain when you give them.
My first half still stands though, all of us have preferences "
I didn't mean to start anything when asking about couples on both sides of the age limit, I was just curious as to how it would work. I know quite a few couples where they are both sides of 40 |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Only one half can go ...the other has to sit outside with their nose pressed up against the window  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Silly place this
Just gotta laugh mun |
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By *rsK69Woman
over a year ago
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"Silly place this
Just gotta laugh mun"
No laughter allowed in the Wales forum my dear  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ah ok thanks
I'll keep that for my friends in the real world , |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Less queuing for the bar anyhow  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Ok ok new rules
Free for under 40's, over 40s and pensioners £8 |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pmsfl...that's 75% of the site that aren't going to meet you now lol. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Think ill do alright thanks |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Thank god I'm free. £8 is extortionate. Especially on a pension |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish i was as good in bed in my thirties as i am in my forties.
The thing is you always think your better when your younger but youth is no substitute for experience but you don't know that until your older. You'll find out lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Who said it's anything to do with being good in bed?
I have my age limit set on here at 38. . . Not because I doubt the abilities of older people in bed, just because I rarely find anyone over that age attractive enough to find out. Like said further up, it comes down to preferences, which everyone's entitled to. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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under 40 ?.............i'm fucked then lol  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Thanks for that useful comment bitch |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Who said it's anything to do with being good in bed?
I have my age limit set on here at 38. . . Not because I doubt the abilities of older people in bed, just because I rarely find anyone over that age attractive enough to find out. Like said further up, it comes down to preferences, which everyone's entitled to. "
i know but I can't message you a pic to find out if i would be an exclusion to that .poor pervy poppy xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think theres lots on here that say they are under forty but aren't either .i been told by everyone i met i don't look in my forties more early thirties lno wrinkles for me .poppyxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Aw pops, I'll wink you now. I wanna see bad poppy!! X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Lol.can I message you now you winked then?poppyxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yup . I'll be back on soon. Doing my 'mum' duties x |
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"No ones gunna be checking id
Please can we keep this thread for positives and not BS ta"
Ok, so I'll be serious for a moment.
Dude, posting something like this in here is bound to attract attention, and not all of it will be positive. Using an arbitrary "line in the sand" to exclude people from a "social" seems to go against everything that these socials stand for.
IMHO, after the first few posts you should perhaps have just joked along with it, rather than trying to antagonize those that were posting... you did, after all, invite comments.
You can invite whoever you like to a private party, set whatever parameters you feel like, but when you open it up to "Mr and Mrs Swinger", especially in a public forum, be prepared for opposing views.
Now, normal silliness will resume.... jelly wrestling anyone? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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oh well that's us out lol..... maybe we will organise one , and NO 40 or under!!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No ones gunna be checking id
Please can we keep this thread for positives and not BS ta
Ok, so I'll be serious for a moment.
Dude, posting something like this in here is bound to attract attention, and not all of it will be positive. Using an arbitrary "line in the sand" to exclude people from a "social" seems to go against everything that these socials stand for.
IMHO, after the first few posts you should perhaps have just joked along with it, rather than trying to antagonize those that were posting... you did, after all, invite comments.
You can invite whoever you like to a private party, set whatever parameters you feel like, but when you open it up to "Mr and Mrs Swinger", especially in a public forum, be prepared for opposing views.
Now, normal silliness will resume.... jelly wrestling anyone? "
Jelly wrestling for over 40's sounds good lol !!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Wondered if any would be interested in a few beverages during the festive period?? I've spoken to a few friends about it they seemed keen.
This is prob gunna cause some agro but I would like to arrange an under 40's night out, in Swansea somewhere, nothing too formal, just wondered people's views thanks."
Its everyone's choice not to want to socialise with over 40s now me im a very oldie but its also a very unethical and extremely ageist post. It might have been better for you not to be ageist in post and just pick out the under 40s that put their names down lo0l |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Either way ur not invited
Please see over 40s night out
Thanks all the same
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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On everyone's profile we stipulate age ranges that we are looking for, doesn't mean we are all ageist. Not sure why it is so bad to have a more age specific social. There are lots of socials that anyone is able to go to. If anyone is offended then attend a different social. If anyone likes the thought of the event then show support. No need to turn it into an argument |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well said
Trolls ruined the thread
People are to afraid to reply
But I've had some encouraging messages and the show will go on!!
So tough titties |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No ones gunna be checking id
Please can we keep this thread for positives and not BS ta
Ok, so I'll be serious for a moment.
Dude, posting something like this in here is bound to attract attention, and not all of it will be positive. Using an arbitrary "line in the sand" to exclude
people from a "social" seems to go against everything that these socials stand for.
IMHO, after the first few posts you should perhaps have just joked along with it, rather than trying to antagonize those that were posting... you did,
after all, invite comments.
You can invite whoever you like to a private party, set whatever parameters you feel like, but when
you open it up to "Mr and Mrs Swinger", especially in a public forum, be prepared for opposing views.
Now, normal silliness will resume.... jelly wrestling
anyone? Jelly wrestling for over 40's sounds good lol !!! "
yes i up for that i bring the ice cream and sprinkles toooo.bad poppy .i like licking ice cream. xxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I bet the two ladies you met who are over 40 feel fantastic reading all this.
Good luck with your night though, takes balls to arrange a night like this. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Well said
Trolls ruined the thread
People are to afraid to reply
But I've had some encouraging messages and the show will go on!!
So tough titties "
i resent being called a troll and I must say you have been quite rude to people .there are nice ways of declining people .it costs nothing to be nice to people .xx |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
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Asking for people of a certain age isn't ageist
To the OP....you asked for views, you got some, because you don't like those views it isn't very polite to call people trolls because of it.
If you want people to just add to a thread names of people who want to go to your social then maybe just say that on the first post when you are organising it.
Time to shut this I think. |
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