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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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rite i am not having a go lol believe me but......
i have been amazed at how many people (single males mostly) who do not have their own condoms when they come/arrange a meet?
i am a bit confused by this as the majority of us are very strict regarding safe sex.. and we have had the incident 3 times in the past where the male has either turned up or said they couldnt meet becuase they didnt have any.
am not a walking chemist lol
or am i wrong xxxx  |
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"rite i am not having a go lol believe me but......
i have been amazed at how many people (single males mostly) who do not have their own condoms when they come/arrange a meet?
i am a bit confused by this as the majority of us are very strict regarding safe sex.. and we have had the incident 3 times in the
past where the male has either turned up or said they couldnt meet becuase they didnt have any.
am not a walking chemist lol
or am i wrong xxxx "
I know what you mean, in 90% of the cases, turns out they are not single and it would cause problems at home if there other half finds condoms in their pockets .......
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I would have thought that if anyone intended to play they would have condoms with them . We always have a supply and would never turn up without any and tbvh if we did turn up and who we were meeting had nothing i do think i would highly unlikely want to play .... if they cant be assed to buy protection why even bother xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"I would have thought that if anyone intended to play they would have condoms with them . We always have a supply and would never turn up without any and tbvh if we did turn up and who we were meeting had nothing i do think i would highly unlikely want to play .... if they cant be assed to buy protection why even bother xx"
exactly like xx
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I went to a shop once and the sign in the window stated try before you buy.... i picked up a box of condoms and asked the assistant which changing room could i use..... do you know how much it hurts being thrown out of a shop onto a pavement ffs!!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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well its just like the guys who wilt when they see a condom its irresponsible and rude always carry my own and extra just in case i can go more than once lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Call me old fashioned but I still carry femidoms.. Not as restricting on the penis and I like to carry my own protection than relying on guys. I have encountered some that have met and forgotten condoms, deliberately or not.. Priceless look on their face when you say, its ok I have my own!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Everyone should take responsibility for their own health so there are two options
A: Tell the gentleman that "Because he has failed to provide adequate protection on this occasion entry to the lady garden is forbidden"
B: Tell the gentleman "Its okay that you seemingly mislaid the rubber man cover, but he is in luck he can use the ones you have"
I have mislaid them in the past so it genuinely could happen, I provide my own.
What would concern me more is if the guy refused to cover up
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone should take responsibility for their own health so there are two options
A: Tell the gentleman that "Because he has failed to provide adequate protection on this occasion entry to the lady garden is forbidden"
B: Tell the gentleman "Its okay that you seemingly mislaid the rubber man cover, but he is in luck he can use the ones you have"
I have mislaid them in the past so it genuinely could happen, I provide my own.
What would concern me more is if the guy refused to cover up
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More fool anyone who went with a guy who refused to cover up |
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"Must say the single guys we have met all had a supply of condoms.We do bring our own as well in case he runs out when there's multiple rounds of play + all over the house  
We're more surprised + dissapointed about the number of cpl's who state'safe sex only' but ask for bareback during meet   .....no chance obviously 
(susie)"
Cant believe people would suggest bareback on an actual meet... like you'd change your mind coz they're there in front of you... weird!!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I always carry my own condoms in a range of sizes etc, rather be with one than without & have to limit the play. At least I know mine are safe & untampered with x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Its a very common problem.we seem to spend lots on condoms and ensuring there are a lot available for meets .its surprising how any dont bring any at all.single men are the worst we find .xx |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"theres no excuse visit any family health center tell them your a swinger and they give you big bag of the things for free
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The lovely nurses at our GUM clinic know we Swingers and give us loads for free
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have to use the non latex Mates "Skyns" so always use my own.. H has to have extra large so he uses his own too! They are expensive, but they dont taste and apparently more sensitive.. At the end of the day whats a couple of quid to protect your sexual health  |
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You are spot on M/s. Fire
I can't get over the stupidity or lack of common sense with some single guys not bringing condoms along to a club, a party or a greedy girl night.
Some examples I have come across are at several parties I have attended, one or two single guys have turned up without any condoms and still expect to join in the fun!
Also at Chams in Newport, having taken several single women there, we have had threesomes with single guys. On a couple of occasions I have had to give the guys (usually in there 20s, but that is no excuse!) condoms to do the deed.
Also at one of the greedy girl nights I arranged, one guy even turned up there without any condoms. Needless to say he wasn't invited back again
Come on guys if you are invited along for fun, or going to a club, please take a packet with you, They aren't that expensive! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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theres no excuse really though, i will admit on one of my meets i forgot to take comdoms, but that was because i was in a rush because i was late for the meet because of my exwife deciding to turn up late at her home for me to take my daughter home.
when i was meeting i always took my own supplies with me, such as condoms and sachets of lube (always handy lol) |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I would have thought that if anyone intended to play they would have condoms with them . We always have a supply and would never turn up without any and tbvh if we did turn up and who we were meeting had nothing i do think i would highly unlikely want to play .... if they cant be assed to buy protection why even bother xx"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Everyone should take responsibility for their own health so there are two options
A: Tell the gentleman that "Because he has failed to provide adequate protection on this occasion entry to the lady garden is forbidden"
B: Tell the gentleman "Its okay that you seemingly mislaid the rubber man cover, but he is in luck he can use the ones you have"
I have mislaid them in the past so it genuinely could happen, I provide my own.
What would concern me more is if the guy refused to cover up
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It's annoying when others treat your playbag like its a free branch of Boots lol.
Lost count of the times we have been in a club, or at a party, and end up with a few of us playing, and notice that others are delving into our condom and lube stash... Ffs, get your own!!!! |
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"It's annoying when others treat your playbag like its a free branch of Boots lol.
Lost count of the times we have been in a club, or at a party, and end up with a few of us playing, and notice that others are delving into our condom and lube stash... Ffs, get your own!!!! "
loved your playbag , mart ...... you even take into consideration those guys who are 'allergic' to condoms 
in response to the thread though - i provide all my own condoms. take about 20 to chams (wishful thinking!) and end up coming home with more haha |
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