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Hi all, we had a lovely day out in cardiff yesterday, do you think it would be a good idea to nominate a pub, so like minded people could go to the pub and have a good chance of meeting other swingers.
Doesnt need to be official, just maybe by word of mouth.
What do you all think? x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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fantastic idea, maybe wearing some sort of badge something like the pink one for breast cancer maybe in a diff colour or something similar where u can spot the swingers easily lol  |
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over a year ago
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"Brilliant idea! We would love going and trying to work out the players. Or converting some of the non-players lol."
Can just imagine the fun in a place like the Tannerdy tavern |
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over a year ago
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I would suggest that we nominate several pubs or bars to cover each area. We could have a pub for Cardiff, Bridgend, Swansea and Carmarthen.
For Swansea I would suggest the Tug & Turbot in the Swansea Marina area.
Perhaps others can suggest pubs or bars in other areas. |
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all sounds great guys, let the thread run for a little while and we can decide on pubs/locations etc,
we're are interested.
oh and yes i'm sure there is an art to conversation, something a little more subtle than 'are you swingers'? some people hey, spend to much time cyber chatting, need to practice for real lol xx |
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over a year ago
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"Superb idea! When I worked out in Dublin there was a known pub that "swingers" frequented and worked very well!!"
Was it a guessing game or quite obvious who the swingers were? |
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"all sounds great guys, let the thread run for a little while and we can decide on pubs/locations etc,
we're are interested.
oh and yes i'm sure there is an art to conversation, something a little more subtle than 'are you swingers'? some people hey, spend to much time cyber chatting, need to practice for real lol xx"
Too much time cyber chatting ? I'm not the one having to post inane threads asking for people to adopt a pub ,I think I have enough verifications to prove I've mastered the art of conversation dont you LOL xxxxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"black cock nr caerphilly mountain "
Tha was once a meeting place for couples having affairs i spotted loads of men/women with the wrong partner lol
it would make a great pub for what we are on about though .  |
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"black cock nr caerphilly mountain
Tha was once a meeting place for couples having affairs i spotted loads of men/women with the wrong partner lol
it would make a great pub for what we are on about though . "
aye well known pub for marital affairs us lot in cardiff always used to check our hubbies werent there when they were late homefrom work pre swing days lol |
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By *obbo44Man
over a year ago
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"I would suggest that we nominate several pubs or bars to cover each area. We could have a pub for Cardiff, Bridgend, Swansea and Carmarthen.
For Swansea I would suggest the Tug & Turbot in the Swansea Marina area.
Perhaps others can suggest pubs or bars in other areas."
yeah been thinking about pubs in Swansea and the tug and turbot is a great shout  |
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over a year ago
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"Black cock it is then. Great location and quite central. Think it a drink there this evening mmmmmmm "
i best warn my son in law of a sudden influx of customers then!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi all, we had a lovely day out in cardiff yesterday, do you think it would be a good idea to nominate a pub, so like minded people could go to the pub and have a good chance of meeting other swingers.
Doesnt need to be official, just maybe by word of mouth.
What do you all think? x"
Super idea, there are a lot of empty pubs in north wales lets get swinging!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Idea sounds great and maybe deciding on the badge theme or similar to that effect would also help xx Cardiff defo got a gd few pubs that can be reclaimed but maybe looking for the quiet ones and approaching the owner as it can be a gd profit earner if they are struggling and see it to there advantage xx |
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Never mind watches on right hand, carnations or english rugby shirts(really be able to id then lol)what about the girls(and before anyone says it-no! not the boys1 lol) wear short skirts and no knickers! ill think ill be able to sus it out then! lol
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"Never mind watches on right hand, carnations or english rugby shirts(really be able to id then lol)what about the girls(and before anyone says it-no! not the boys1 lol) wear short skirts and no knickers! ill think ill be able to sus it out then! lol
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fair point lol .and there would be a great reason to go just to see the wildlife
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What about something simple like tearing the corner off a beer mat and leaving it in the centre of the table.
Obviously you would have to move it from the centre when you left otherwise it could cause a problem for the next person who sat down. lol |
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over a year ago
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So after a little discussion with Wild West we would like to announce that Carmarthens Swingers pub should be......
Drum Roll Please
" " " " The Tanerdy " " " "
nice and big with plenty of room to hide |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Hi all, we had a lovely day out in cardiff yesterday, do you think it would be a good idea to nominate a pub, so like minded people could go to the pub and have a good chance of meeting other swingers.
Doesnt need to be official, just maybe by word of mouth.
What do you all think? x
Super idea, there are a lot of empty pubs in north wales lets get swinging!! "
we should certainly include a north wales pub in this. Maybe in Mold area that close enough for our chester friends as well as wrexham is close as is A55 access |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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black cock pub-think we will pop in for a drink this cumming(pun intended lol)sunday afternoon around 3ish!
bangers!- please have a look at our profile, tried to msg you, but outside your age range so cant make contact!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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OK GUYS/GALS!
Weather good for sunday, Black cock pub around 3ish, meet people have a chat, im sure we can all use the word "fab" in the conversation to establish if others are swingers too!
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OK GUYS/GALS!
Weather good for sunday, Black cock pub around 3ish, meet people have a chat, im sure we can all use the word "fab" in the conversation to establish if others are swingers too!
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over a year ago
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The ta nerdy sounds like a good choice for the cams area. It's a great idea but we will need a real sign of who we are. Any idea what this should be. There are loads of swingers round here, we need our own meeting place...   |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
"What about something simple like tearing the corner off a beer mat and leaving it in the centre of the table.
Obviously you would have to move it from the centre when you left otherwise it could cause a problem for the next person who sat down. lol "
great idea
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"The ta nerdy sounds like a good choice for the cams area. It's a great idea but we will need a real sign of who we are. Any idea what this should be. There are loads of swingers round here, we need our own meeting place... "
quite often go there for lunch xxx i like the idea. . Lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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will defo have to take a motorbike ride up to the pub, and partake of a drink or two...soft ones of course, unlike my Cock, that will be throbbing at teh thought of meeting other swingers.. |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
"we could all just say "wow what a FAB pub"
or put the " sultans of swing" by dire straits on the jukebox.
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as more i hear about the Black Cock as more i want to check it out....may be a drink tomorrow afternoon in the beergarden.....must make sure i tear of the corner of a beermat 
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i think it be good to have a multi pub kind of signal so too speak what ever it may be, at least if any one is traveling to a diff pub they will know what the score is and not miss a chance or be made to look a fool or offend any one
just my 2 pence worth |
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"Beer mats no good if u sat outside There isn't any lol
LOL.....we bring our own 
(susie)"
buy your drink, and take a beer mat outside for the "sign", corner torn off, if looking to meet a single, two corners off for a couple, and if you want to meet a guy, all 4 corners off...,
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"Beer mats no good if u sat outside There isn't any lol
LOL.....we bring our own
(susie)
buy your drink, and take a beer mat outside for the "sign", corner torn off, if looking to meet a single, two corners off for a couple, and if you want to meet a guy, all 4 corners off...,
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how about:1 corner=single wanted
2 corners=cplwanted
3= either single or cpl
4=gangbang or big group fun
Mind you we happy just to chat to other swingers for starters so might just write FAB on the beermat
(susie) |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
"This thread and suggestion seemed a good idea, but as usual it has been hi-jacked by idiots, clowns and time wasters."
you sure you talking about the right threat?i only see positiv fabsters here....well apart from 
(susie) |
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"Beer mats no good if u sat outside There isn't any lol
LOL.....we bring our own
(susie)
buy your drink, and take a beer mat outside for the "sign", corner torn off, if looking to meet a single, two corners off for a couple, and if you want to meet a guy, all 4 corners off...,
how about:1 corner=single wanted
2 corners=cplwanted
3= either single or cpl
4=gangbang or big group fun
Mind you we happy just to chat to other swingers for starters so might just write FAB on the beermat
(susie)"
why not just put it on ur status and save all the messing around |
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"Sounds an interesting idea...not sure how to make it work without the landlord/lady knowing and agreeing though?"
Not their problem, providing we are all grown up about it, no playing in public, just a sign showing that we are "fabsters" and want to socialise. Maybe after chatting we can play, but if no chemistry, what have you lost, bugger all except a couple of quid for a pint.
Hopefully we will all get to meet up soon enough.
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"Beer mats no good if u sat outside There isn't any lol
LOL.....we bring our own
(susie)
buy your drink, and take a beer mat outside for the "sign", corner torn off, if looking to meet a single, two corners off for a couple, and if you want to meet a guy, all 4 corners off...,
how about:1 corner=single wanted
2 corners=cplwanted
3= either single or cpl
4=gangbang or big group fun
Mind you we happy just to chat to other swingers for starters so might just write FAB on the beermat
(susie)
why not just put it on ur status and save all the messing around "
we just kicking around harmless ideas on here.Not everybody looks at'local updates'.It's all just a bit of fun which could lead to sexy fun
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"Beer mats no good if u sat outside There isn't any lol
LOL.....we bring our own
(susie)
buy your drink, and take a beer mat outside for the "sign", corner torn off, if looking to meet a single, two corners off for a couple, and if you want to meet a guy, all 4 corners off...,
how about:1 corner=single wanted
2 corners=cplwanted
3= either single or cpl
4=gangbang or big group fun
Mind you we happy just to chat to other swingers for starters so might just write FAB on the beermat
(susie)
why not just put it on ur status and save all the messing around
we just kicking around harmless ideas on here.Not everybody looks at'local updates'.It's all just a bit of fun which could lead to sexy fun
(susie)"
I agree its all a bit of fun but having worked in the black myself, I know that the staff pick up on peoples habits quite quickly. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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2 OF US WENT THERE TODAY and guess what?
lol .
Nevermind all the signals if nobody goes it means nothing!.
IF WE GO NEXT TIME WE WILL POST IT ON THE MEET TODAY.
AND LETS ALL HAVE ONE THING TO RECOGNISE US..A PACKET OF CRISPS IN THE CENTRE OF THE TABLE the outside tables have a hole for unbrella) AND IF SOMEONE LOOKS NOD BACK .SIMPLEZ |
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"Sounds an interesting idea...not sure how to make it work without the landlord/lady knowing and agreeing though?"
ERRRRR? we are just people going for a drink.
why would they need to know .you dont tell your neighbours that you are swingers do you? so why tell a landlord??/ |
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Think the staff might get a bit funny if they keep finding beer mats with corners ripped off, or what happens if a couple/guy is playing with a beer mat and rips corner of and leaves it, but they are not swingers!!!
Guess you have to take chances in this life and just go for it.
Let's see if we can make an effort to get this going, and keep it to the swinging fraternity, something that can be used the whole country over. |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
"2 OF US WENT THERE TODAY and guess what?
lol .
Nevermind all the signals if nobody goes it means nothing!.
IF WE GO NEXT TIME WE WILL POST IT ON THE MEET TODAY.
AND LETS ALL HAVE ONE THING TO RECOGNISE US..A PACKET OF CRISPS IN THE CENTRE OF THE TABLE the outside tables have a hole for unbrella) AND IF SOMEONE LOOKS NOD BACK .SIMPLEZ "
wont need a crisp packet to reconize you so if you already have people sitting with you(on days you posted in meet section!!) we know they swingers .......isn't the Wales swinging world a small world?  may be a lot easier to reconize others than we all think
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
Midlothian |
"All well and good having all these little signs etc etc etc but how many people would dare broach the topic with complete strangers? "
Not many for sure.
If we both think that high chance they are due to signs or lots of flirty smiles we would ask if there's room at their table and use the word 'fab'......think i just wear my collar(not my slut one obviously!!!)kinky fabsters understand that 'sign' and vanilla's take me as a Rockchick so a win win as we love talking Download as well as swinging
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"2 OF US WENT THERE TODAY and guess what?
lol .
Nevermind all the signals if nobody goes it means nothing!.
IF WE GO NEXT TIME WE WILL POST IT ON THE MEET TODAY.
AND LETS ALL HAVE ONE THING TO RECOGNISE US..A PACKET OF CRISPS IN THE CENTRE OF THE TABLE the outside tables have a hole for unbrella) AND IF SOMEONE LOOKS NOD BACK .SIMPLEZ
wont need a crisp packet to reconize you so if you already have people sitting with you(on days you posted in meet section!!) we know they swingers .......isn't the Wales swinging world a small world? may be a lot easier to reconize others than we all think
(susie)"
you got a point there suzie lol there is a smoking shed /gazebo there most chose the tables at the front. hope to see you and dan up there soon .its got a big carpark too. we would get to know each others cars as well if its regular. so we could pop in for a pint and a bj
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"2 OF US WENT THERE TODAY and guess what?
lol .
Nevermind all the signals if nobody goes it means nothing!.
IF WE GO NEXT TIME WE WILL POST IT ON THE MEET TODAY.
AND LETS ALL HAVE ONE THING TO RECOGNISE US..A PACKET OF CRISPS IN THE CENTRE OF THE TABLE the outside tables have a hole for unbrella) AND IF SOMEONE LOOKS NOD BACK .SIMPLEZ
wont need a crisp packet to reconize you so if you already have people sitting with you(on days you posted in meet section!!) we know they swingers .......isn't the Wales swinging world a small world? may be a lot easier to reconize others than we all think
(susie)you got a point there suzie lol there is a smoking shed /gazebo there most chose the tables at the front. hope to see you and dan up there soon .its got a big carpark too. we would get to know each others cars as well if its regular. so we could pop in for a pint and a bj
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Just so u know, there are CCTV cameras in the carpark |
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Well that is a good idea Vampy . Maybe my lunch times won't be so boring. I am up for that tomorrow and Wednesday for sure. Such great weather shame to waste it. |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"2 OF US WENT THERE TODAY and guess what?
lol .
Nevermind all the signals if nobody goes it means nothing!.
IF WE GO NEXT TIME WE WILL POST IT ON THE MEET TODAY.
AND LETS ALL HAVE ONE THING TO RECOGNISE US..A PACKET OF CRISPS IN THE CENTRE OF THE TABLE the outside tables have a hole for unbrella) AND IF SOMEONE LOOKS NOD BACK .SIMPLEZ
wont need a crisp packet to reconize you so if you already have people sitting with you(on days you posted in meet section!!) we know they swingers .......isn't the Wales swinging world a small world? may be a lot easier to reconize others than we all think
(susie)you got a point there suzie lol there is a smoking shed /gazebo there most chose the tables at the front. hope to see you and dan up there soon .its got a big carpark too. we would get to know each others cars as well if its regular. so we could pop in for a pint and a bj
Just so u know, there are CCTV cameras in the carpark "
Yes like most pubs,no Bj's in carparks unless it's a well secluded one in the middle of nowhere.i'm a good girl .........honest
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its a lovly week , so hopefully some of us can go up there.
I'm prob going to call in it will be on the message board meet today will be nice to have a chat and a drink. |
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"Think the staff might get a bit funny if they keep finding beer mats with corners ripped off, or what happens if a couple/guy is playing with a beer mat and rips corner of and leaves it, but they are not swingers!!!
Guess you have to take chances in this life and just go for it.
Let's see if we can make an effort to get this going, and keep it to the swinging fraternity, something that can be used the whole country over. "
Better still, tear the beermat into the letter "F", no chance that its a random 'nilla with a beermat tearing fetish then lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Don't think it will happen. No organisation. It takes someone to lead and others to agree. The chameleon pendants etc on an earlier comment in this thread looks good. Only £5 each lots of choices. |
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"Popped in the black, couldn't find a beer mat and who s near wont work. No signal there if your on vodafone.
But had a lovely drink in the sun xxxx"
Going to the pub later , look out for the torn beer mat guys |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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Our personal verdict on the Black Cock:yes it's private and has a great under cover smoking area BUT we were surprised how small the bar area is full of locals and wouldn't work for 'private' chatting.
The beergarden/terrace!is bigger but no cover if bad weather.
Think we try another pub,may be in Swansea next time.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Was at the black cock earlier and saw a woman in a real short skirt...she was flashing her knickers, was it anyone off here?! "
we were there sunday and yes caz was flashing
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Glad everyone embraced this subject, was a little worried it wouldn't take off.
Been to the black cock, nice pub if the weather is good like the previous 2 weeks, but not if it's raining lol.
Now how about pubs in the centres of our towns or cities. Just a thought? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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anything arranged in swansea yet? a few people mentioned the tug and turbot on the marina,I think it's worth a try one friday or saturday (or sunday) evening ? who wants to give it a go? |
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By *otswoldMan
over a year ago
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"Was it a guessing game or quite obvious who the swingers were? "
It wasn't a Welsh pub, but nevertheless when she stooped down to pick something from her handbag there was a brief glimpse that confirmed she was going commando. A smile and a compliment was all that was necessary to start a brief but pleasant chat. However, just my luck, they were there to meet another couple. |
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By *edcandyCouple
over a year ago
Oxford |
The pub in Cardiff needs to be close to the station & bus station . Who wants to meet Friday night the bar of the Royal Hotel St Mary's ? The bar is upstairs discreet, very modern and friendly .
This bar being so close to the station means people can travel home without driving.
The sign is to tip the bar staff - even it its 20 p - if you fancy somebody stand next to them when they order a drink & their signal is to give a few bob tip to the bar staff. They wont complain will they !
Also , because its a discreet upstairs hotel rooms can be booked.
Meet tomorrow night 8 pm . |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Think we will be going to the black cock in caerphilly this afternoon if we get time an the beermats sounds a good idea lol. "
i fancied a bit of black cock lat night lol.bad poppyxx |
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excellent idea !! We often use the fab mobile app to see who's near when we are out, so nominated pubs in various towns would be great, and a good way to start meeting socially if you have never had any meets before. Please let us know which pubs and where ... |
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