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Fab terminology - men who are happy to do as they are asked
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Toying with the idea of inviting a man to join us to help me spoil Saffa.
This is a huge step for us so as a starting point we'd only be comfortable with someone who is happy to do only what they are asked. We've done this a few times in a club and loved it  and yes the 'control' was a buzz (just being honest)
Is there a fab term for such a man?
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"Toying with the idea of inviting a man to join us to help me spoil Saffa.
This is a huge step for us so as a starting point we'd only be comfortable with someone who is happy to do only what they are asked. We've done this a few times in a club and loved it and yes the 'control' was a buzz (just being honest)
Is there a fab term for such a man?
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Other than “Rare” you mean? |
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I don’t know if there’s any particular Fab terminology for this, although Obedient would possibly cover it, or Voyeur depending on what was being asked?
Either way, there are genuine men here who would be very interested in this and happy to follow instruction. I count myself in this.
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Thanks both for the replies.
I didn't want it to come across as anything super controlling. It's just that when we have involved another man in our dynamic in the past we didn't really know how far things would go until we were in the situation. It totally depends on both our moods and what we are comfortable with at a given time.
It has ranged from just watching to full sex but we aren't comfortable offering that from the off. More like come around and be happy to go with what we are comfortable with. |
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"Thanks both for the replies.
I didn't want it to come across as anything super controlling. It's just that when we have involved another man in our dynamic in the past we didn't really know how far things would go until we were in the situation. It totally depends on both our moods and what we are comfortable with at a given time.
It has ranged from just watching to full sex but we aren't comfortable offering that from the off. More like come around and be happy to go with what we are comfortable with."
I’ve had meets like this in the past.
As long as expectations are set early on as to what IS on offer and then with regards to what you want and how you want to control the situation, then it’s definitely achievable.
Ultimately, the guy in question should be sticking to whatever was agreed, so if you say you’re only guaranteeing them watching then that is the most they should expect… anything more is a bonus!
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"Toying with the idea of inviting a man to join us to help me spoil Saffa.
This is a huge step for us so as a starting point we'd only be comfortable with someone who is happy to do only what they are asked. We've done this a few times in a club and loved it and yes the 'control' was a buzz (just being honest)
Is there a fab term for such a man?
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yes .. . Its called me 👋😜🤣😉 |
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"Thanks both for the replies.
I didn't want it to come across as anything super controlling. It's just that when we have involved another man in our dynamic in the past we didn't really know how far things would go until we were in the situation. It totally depends on both our moods and what we are comfortable with at a given time.
It has ranged from just watching to full sex but we aren't comfortable offering that from the off. More like come around and be happy to go with what we are comfortable with."
It’s always a fine line between trying not to plan out a meet minute by minute and keeping the excitement of the unknown . From personal experience I always find that being a bit blunt and straight to the point with the first message and then being open about being ready for everything but prepared for nothing other than a conversation on the first meet. If the other guy is the right fit for you he will be on the same wavelength straight away |
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had meets like this is the past. what man wouldn’t be happy just getting to watch such a sexy couple! of more great if not then all good. also switch and very much enjoy helping to please a lady any way a couple would like x |
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It is absolutely possible. We have had meets similar.
Like your profile, ours spells out exactly what we are looking for & one someone messages, the first thing I do is check they've read the whole profile.
It's pretty easy to get a read of people within the first couple of messages.
As long as you set the expectation from the off, you'll be fine. |
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