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By *oby_2007 OP Man
over a year ago
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"Agree!! Ppl moan at me for not having any veri's but I always end up talking to the fakes & time wasters!!  x"
same hear endless chat but thay don't want to meet for even a chat but still sends friend requests drives me nuts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe swinging is going back towards it's purest form?
Remember, it used to be called 'Wife Swapping', which by definition means single men are excluded."
By fairness then, you'd have to eliminate single women. We're not swingers in that sense either. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In the six months since joining, there does seem to be more unverified single male and female profiles for longer times..as well as couple profiles also.
I have personally experienced a couple profile timewaster which i suspect was a male being a troll .
I also witnessed a troll attempting to cooerce/blackmail two fenale friends into sleeping with a man under threat of public exposure.
However.. the majority of people with whom i speak/chat are genuine people.
Also manage to get a few meets in myself.
Just like real/vanilla life i guess.. dont make friends unless your sure about someone.. even friends can have a falling out.
Happy swinging one and all..
Dave  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have trouble trying to find single females who are interested in meeting, most of my messages are from couples who's husband 'just wants to watch' grrrrr |
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One way to out those that are not genuine, ask them to attend a social.
Yes, I am aware that not everyone can get to every social, but bearing in mind that there are now socials in Cardiff, Newport, Swansea and Bridgend, surely its not beyond their capabilities to attend just one, get chatting, pick up an armload of verifs and do a bit of networking?
Yes, again I agree that some just don't like going to socials for a number of reasons, (most of which can be argued away lol) but if the bottom line is " I/we dont see why we should", then I guess you have to ask yourself, is that someone you want to meet?
You gets out what you puts in.  |
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By *anSusieCouple
over a year ago
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"Nah, its you."
piccolectors are easy to deal with:don't answer friendrequests from strangers.
timewasters:what are they? 12 month swinging + never been let down 
YOUR selection process isn't working if you only encounter timewasters and your last veri is from 2010 
Learn from your experiences on here and you may have more succes in chatting to the genuine swingers.
(susie)
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Maybe swinging is going back towards it's purest form?
Remember, it used to be called 'Wife Swapping', which by definition means single men are excluded.
By fairness then, you'd have to eliminate single women. We're not swingers in that sense either. "
well said just another excuse to slate single guys give us a break its boring me now |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"One way to out those that are not genuine, ask them to attend a social.
Yes, I am aware that not everyone can get to every social, but bearing in mind that there are now socials in Cardiff, Newport, Swansea and Bridgend, surely its not beyond their capabilities to attend just one, get chatting, pick up an armload of verifs and do a bit of networking?
Yes, again I agree that some just don't like going to socials for a number of reasons, (most of which can be argued away lol) but if the bottom line is " I/we dont see why we should", then I guess you have to ask yourself, is that someone you want tomeet?
You gets out what you puts in. "
you gets out what you put in or i get out what some one else puts in me or I put in them  bad poppyxx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had lots of meets off here you do have some fake profiles but they are easy to out .its always worth remembering that sometimes there are genuine reasons when people can't meet.if they arrange another one and cancel that then i be a bit more wary .we met lots off here .poppyxx   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have been on fab and swinging for nearly a year never had real problem and always reply if the person is polite in there message.
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We mpoved to wales 7 years and found hard find friends but this last year we have meet great couples and hope we are sble say they are now are friends.
Its not just sex its frendship |
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