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By *3xymamaWoman 1 week ago
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"Just curious to know why people on here cheat on their partners? If you love them that much then why?Is it the thrill of not being caught?"
I often wonder that too. Especially when they say they love them, |
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"Just curious to know why people on here cheat on their partners? If you love them that much then why?Is it the thrill of not being caught?
I often wonder that too. Especially when they say they love them, "
exactly ..or they say things are great at home ..we just have no sex life like that makes it acceptable |
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Im not condoning either but it's a sad fact, I don't think it's a case of if you love someone, more that we allow them to do this or hear what we want to hear?
For example.. you meet at a party, social or club I'm not sure the first question you ask is "are you single?
If this a boundary or a no for you then maybe the first question you should ask is ... are you single, based on that you can decide before chatting/meeting/getting intimate.
Forearmed is forewarned so they say...
I'm sure there are a lot of opinions on this, that's just mine..  |
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"I’m not condoning or condemning but why are people so concerned with what others do when you don’t know their circumstances or situations ?"
For me, I don't agree with cheating, full stop. Whether that's a woman or a man. I do my best to avoid cheaters on here as I would in real life. My standards don't drop because I'm on a sex site.
Other people can do as they please, just respect my stance. |
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By *hyguy9iMan 7 days ago
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To me cheaters are people who have issues with themselves and that's why they cheat on the partners.
I've been in the spot when I caught my ex in bed with another guy after I came back from a mate birthday drinks. |
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Tbh I don’t really understand why people are on a sex site that’s full to the brim with self proclaimed sluts … looking for someone they can trust and settle down with… but then again, it’s none of my business. |
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"I find it funny that they show more respect to women who are strangers, than their wives.
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I day this as a man who has done a lot of work on himself in the last few years...
This is the truest and saddest statement.
Not even through cheating. A lot of men are brought up staying boys in thier heads and as a result take people for granted.
When the penny drops it drops like a stone.
I've no time for cheaters tbh.. because ultimately they are disrespecting someone they are supposed to care about.. and they are also kidding themselves |
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Sadly men and women always want more when it's offered and selfishly never considers the consequences
I've never cheated and will never do so either because I have too much respect for myself and the other person
You have to be one very selfish person to do so |
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"Tbh I don’t really understand why people are on a sex site that’s full to the brim with self proclaimed sluts … looking for someone they can trust and settle down with… but then again, it’s none of my business. "
This is a swingers site so many people will come on here to meet someone who is also interested in the swinging lifestyle
You say you don't understand why people are on here with self proclaimed sluts
Yet your on here ?? |
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The things that i often wonder at are, if the people (let’s be blunt it’s mainly the chaps) put as much effort into making their female partner feel desired and wanted as they do on sneaking around on here, simply put lol they would not be on here!
Observation number 2 is say one of these chaps (sorry lads) was browsing fab and happened apon a profile for a single female. Excitedly looked at the profile and then recognised his own house. Not only that but pictures of his wife in every room getting fucked senseless by various hunks who have left verifications saying how amazing she is. Then he looks at her verifications and sees they number over 30 all from men who have shagged her, how would he feel lol |
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I’m single. But….
On a website/in a lifestyle, which is built on casual sex between consenting adults, what difference does it genuinely make to any other site users if someone is cheating on someone to play with people they meet on here?
If you were looking for something more than a one off play then I get it, but one off?
And why does it seem more of an issue to people on here than it does in clubs? I’m not sure people in clubs are insisting on declarations of single ness before playing with someone, are they? |
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By *3xymamaWoman 6 days ago
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1: I don't class myself as a self proclaimed slut. In fact it's not a term I like.
2: I'm not looking for 'one offs' I prefer to meet someone regularly and get to know them. I feel the intimacy is better.
That is why I prefer to know whether someone is 'attached'
I can't contact said attached guy for a booth call can. All I ask for on here is honesty, that why I can make an informed decision  |
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"1 All I ask for on here is honesty, that why I can make an informed decision "
Exactly this! Everyone is here for their own reasons and I’m defo not here to judge anyone else’s choices. But honesty when getting to know someone the opportunity to make that informed decision is important.
Fab is a hive for some erm  Unusual behaviour and expectations from people. |
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There's women here cheating on their husbands with men cheating on their wife's.
Unfortunately it's a swinging site. This is going to happen wether we like it or not.
For me, I think if they're gonna cheat anyway, I'd rather them do it on a swingers site than in a pub or with a colleague from work lol |
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"There's women here cheating on their husbands with men cheating on their wife's.
Unfortunately it's a swinging site. This is going to happen wether we like it or not.
For me, I think if they're gonna cheat anyway, I'd rather them do it on a swingers site than in a pub or with a colleague from work lol"
Hmmmm I’d rather than not cheat at all to be honest. What difference does it make who it’s with? In a pub it could be on a wim and maybe a one off.. swinging site it’s planned and could get so sucked into it it becomes part of life.. my opinion… we are all different.. |
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I once went out with a woman who was separated from her husband, I found out the reason they had separated was she had cheated. I asked her and she said it was the thrill she got from having sex with someone who wasn’t her husband, it was the thrill of knowing she was doing something wrong, she had been brought up in a religious household and she said cheating on her husband gave her the same thrill as she had when she had sex outside of marriage. The thrill for her came from the feeling of rebellion. |
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