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By *towin OP Man 24 weeks ago
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Alot of people as for verification and seems to be a big obstacle, not into groups or seeing lots of people, looking to meet individuals and if there a connection then see where it goes from there but only suggestions im getting is to go to a party etc but not really comfortable with the idea and feel id be out of place, any alternatives or just a case of hope doe the best? |
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By *oGDomMan 24 weeks ago
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"Alot of people as for verification and seems to be a big obstacle, not into groups or seeing lots of people, looking to meet individuals and if there a connection then see where it goes from there but only suggestions im getting is to go to a party etc but not really comfortable with the idea and feel id be out of place, any alternatives or just a case of hope doe the best?"
Do people really ask for verifications? Verifications on here are notoriously dodgy; judging by the number of men pretending to be women who are 'photo verified', it's difficult to see what actual checks are being made on people's identity. |
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"Alot of people as for verification and seems to be a big obstacle, not into groups or seeing lots of people, looking to meet individuals and if there a connection then see where it goes from there but only suggestions im getting is to go to a party etc but not really comfortable with the idea and feel id be out of place, any alternatives or just a case of hope doe the best?"
Unfortunately for you, you’ll get out of this site what you put into it. Going to socials, parties and clubs will show that you’re serious and not a time waster. Whereas right now with your approach you’ve been on here for over a year with no verifications by meeting. |
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"Alot of people as for verification and seems to be a big obstacle, not into groups or seeing lots of people, looking to meet individuals and if there a connection then see where it goes from there but only suggestions im getting is to go to a party etc but not really comfortable with the idea and feel id be out of place, any alternatives or just a case of hope doe the best?"
The best way, and I appreciate you’re not 100% comfortable with it, is to bite the bullet and go to one of the organised socials. They’ll be someone there who will talk to you and I’m sure verify you. But as the previous comment says, you need input to get output. Don’t just turn up to the social and stand in the corner. |
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You're tall, fit and decent looking. You already have a headstart over many just from that. Use it to your advantage and get out to socials etc. More single men like you is what Fab needs, but like others have said you have to be prepared to put a bit of effort in especially at the start  |
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