Here me out,
I have seen some profiles/ members on here that are also on sites for paid services, so I'm guessing that the people either love the lifestyle and this is their fun or they possibly charge. If that is the case should there be a section or an icon to let people know so they can then make an informed decision whether to engage or not.
Before people wade in and say swinging is a lifestyle choice and we know it is if people are using it for making money (and they may not I could be wrong) should people have a special icon.
Only asking a question before the keyboard warriors wade in |
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By *CBoyTV/TS 17 weeks ago
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"Here me out,
I have seen some profiles/ members on here that are also on sites for paid services, so I'm guessing that the people either love the lifestyle and this is their fun or they possibly charge. If that is the case should there be a section or an icon to let people know so they can then make an informed decision whether to engage or not.
Before people wade in and say swinging is a lifestyle choice and we know it is if people are using it for making money (and they may not I could be wrong) should people have a special icon.
Only asking a question before the keyboard warriors wade in"
I know people who do both and do keep them separate. They have swinging friends and different paid clients. I don't see any problem with that as long as they are not asking to be paid by people they meet via Fab. I've done both myself. |
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By *9alMan 17 weeks ago
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"Here me out,
I have seen some profiles/ members on here that are also on sites for paid services, so I'm guessing that the people either love the lifestyle and this is their fun or they possibly charge. If that is the case should there be a section or an icon to let people know so they can then make an informed decision whether to engage or not.
Before people wade in and say swinging is a lifestyle choice and we know it is if people are using it for making money (and they may not I could be wrong) should people have a special icon.
Only asking a question before the keyboard warriors wade in
I know people who do both and do keep them separate. They have swinging friends and different paid clients. I don't see any problem with that as long as they are not asking to be paid by people they meet via Fab. I've done both myself. "
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I’ve been contacted a few times then your get a msg with “£££” or. Bring a gift.
Is a big no from me, block and move on.
I personally don’t like the idea of paying for intimacy. My version of this lifestyle isn’t what they are looking for. |
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I know lots of people that have been offered money or gifts for a meet, it's quite offensive to the person being offered when this site isn't intended for selling yourself.
If someone asked me for money to meet I'd tell them I don't pay for it and block and report.
I'd also leave the site if they started allowing selling yourself here as it would ruin the site completely.
There's plenty of places to sell yourself and this isn't one or the right place. |
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"I know lots of people that have been offered money or gifts for a meet, it's quite offensive to the person being offered when this site isn't intended for selling yourself.
If someone asked me for money to meet I'd tell them I don't pay for it and block and report.
I'd also leave the site if they started allowing selling yourself here as it would ruin the site completely.
There's plenty of places to sell yourself and this isn't one or the right place. "
That's why I put this in the forum, it is a fairly common thing as a couple of people have said on the post, so that's why I asked should it be tolerated and either put in a specific place on the site forum or the people who charge have a different icon that you can choose to use or avoid  |
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"I know lots of people that have been offered money or gifts for a meet, it's quite offensive to the person being offered when this site isn't intended for selling yourself.
If someone asked me for money to meet I'd tell them I don't pay for it and block and report.
I'd also leave the site if they started allowing selling yourself here as it would ruin the site completely.
There's plenty of places to sell yourself and this isn't one or the right place.
That's why I put this in the forum, it is a fairly common thing as a couple of people have said on the post, so that's why I asked should it be tolerated and either put in a specific place on the site forum or the people who charge have a different icon that you can choose to use or avoid "
A option to filter them out would work because then you wouldn't see them in searches. Still no though from me  |
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Personal I know people who do both. Swinging is definitely different to paid services. However being paid for your time and body is often a kink for people. SW’s are allowed to enjoy swinging and their kinks outside of work hours. There is no pressure to pay . It’s not insulting. Just honesty and communication. If it’s not for you move on x |
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There have been times when I've received a cut and paste message from someone who has clearly not read my profile, detailing all Thier wants, with no interest in me, outside of being a dispenser ok kink.
My response has been to tell them to book an appointment through the correct channels with a professional. |
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"There have been times when I've received a cut and paste message from someone who has clearly not read my profile, detailing all Thier wants, with no interest in me, outside of being a dispenser ok kink.
My response has been to tell them to book an appointment through the correct channels with a professional."
A psychologist? Haha jk  |
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"I know lots of people that have been offered money or gifts for a meet, it's quite offensive to the person being offered when this site isn't intended for selling yourself.
If someone asked me for money to meet I'd tell them I don't pay for it and block and report.
I'd also leave the site if they started allowing selling yourself here as it would ruin the site completely.
There's plenty of places to sell yourself and this isn't one or the right place.
That's why I put this in the forum, it is a fairly common thing as a couple of people have said on the post, so that's why I asked should it be tolerated and either put in a specific place on the site forum or the people who charge have a different icon that you can choose to use or avoid "
Just really stop worrying about others and just be concerned with what your doing problem with the world today people just like to get involved in other people's business come on really |
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