"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)"
It might be a swingers site but people have their preferences in the age of the people they wish to play with.
Although site allows from 18 year olds that doesnt mean that lots on the site would be happy to meet them. some would but others wouldnt.
No one under 35 for us, we lowered it a few times but all that we have chatted to under that were not people we would have been happy to meet. for various reason.
Some of us have kids and not good to meet people to close to kids age.
Just because its a swingers site doesnt mean people will or have to meet everyone that wants to meet them. this is for fun and if people feel a certain age group or range is where their ideal fun is at thats what they are entitled to do.
There are people on here looking for younger men so you just have to find them.
Thats swinging for you.
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)"
You posted this very question some time ago, and the response was the same. Preference! Preference!
I think its not a case of your age you clearly have had some success here, but I think it is down to your attitude.
When single guys like yourself work out that ladies and couples are on here to enhance the quality of THEIR sex life not yours, guys might get looked in a different light.
Complaining about why guys haven't had 14 straight days of sex or why can't I get a meet or are people being ageist then post in the forums that they shouldn't be "because it's a swingers site" is insulting to me let alone the very people you are trying to attract.
I've had a hard day why am I not getting any
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)
You posted this very question some time ago, and the response was the same. Preference! Preference!
I think its not a case of your age you clearly have had some success here, but I think it is down to your attitude.
When single guys like yourself work out that ladies and couples are on here to enhance the quality of THEIR sex life not yours, guys might get looked in a different light.
Complaining about why guys haven't had 14 straight days of sex or why can't I get a meet or are people being ageist then post in the forums that they shouldn't be "because it's a swingers site" is insulting to me let alone the very people you are trying to attract.
I've had a hard day why am I not getting any
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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wait till you get to my age wish i was 18 again my brain and cock still think there 18 and can out perform most 25 year olds without tablets love younger ladies but as everyone says its preference just respect it its there's yes its a swinging site not a you can fuck anything that breaths site respect people and youll go far |
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Probably because you haven't had the experience or desire to work out what most older women are actually looking for.
Anyone with some common sense can work that out within 5 minutes on the site. Probably 80% of female profiles say:
"Send face pics". "Don't email cock pics"
So your entire profile is focused on your cock. While you might be big, a 99p cucumber is bigger.
Your profile is all about you. I am, I want... You obviously don't give a fuck about what others want or will get. Go and buy a book on sales/marketing as it may help you in life.
Woman want excitement, mystery, intrigue, to be taken control of , mental stimulation and also to be respected. When you learn that and can be consistent in your profile, your pictures and emails you will so ok.
My profile isn't perfect but I get what I want and don't feel the need to whine. |
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Your OP says it all, you ask why you can't 'get' older women not 'meet' them.
Yes this is a swingers site, its not a sex site, there is a fundamental difference in the two.
Most on here want more than just sex, they want, amongst other things, conversation
The fact that you even had to ask this question proves that you don't understand the basic premise of this site!
My opinion doesn't matter though as I don't meet single guys, or is that preference also not allowed? |
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By *roggMan
over a year ago
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i think that you have to respect that people are different and like any friendship if you are respectful of others needs and requirements and desires there is a better chance of other developments |
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)"
So what your saying is that women can't have a choice but you have a choice to put on your profile that men can't suck your cock... surely the same rule applies????
We are all ENTITLED to have our preferences when it comes to who we meet, when we meet them and what we do?
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)"
could have done with some guys your age last night at chams ,i thought i,d walked into an old people home lol  |
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)"
Could do with some guys your age at Fannys tonite mmmm |
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By (user no longer on site)
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17 yrs swinging and only had 2 let downs, both were under 25. Should you tar a certain age group with the same brush? No, and know there will be genuine people of that age group (infact we have swung with a 22yr old) but...... we just don't have the spare time to have failed meets, just ruins your day x |
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The youngest fem we have played with was 22. I do not have a problem with this (male) but my wife likes her men a bit older, at least late 20's early 30's. Nt sure we would arrange a meet with such a young couple but in a club it's all a bit different. |
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By *unnyfunCouple
over a year ago
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)
could have done with some guys your age last night at chams ,i thought i,d walked into an old people home lol "
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)
could have done with some guys your age last night at chams ,i thought i,d walked into an old people home lol "
My friend and I had a similar experience at BSC except we thought we had walked into a nursery given they were half our age  |
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"Why is my age always difficult to get older women? Really don't understand this, this is a swingers site after all for all ages (18-99)"
not yr fault that most of us are three times your age kiddo. Your not too young its just a lot of us ARE TOO OLD well i am. You will get some meets and happy hunting in the meantime kiddo x |
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