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"For safety reasons you could always ask the person first where there location is it’s no biggie "
That's not for safety reasons ie Cardiff is a big place ponty is a big place. Wales could be anywhere |
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"For safety reasons you could always ask the person first where there location is it’s no biggie
That's not for safety reasons ie Cardiff is a big place ponty is a big place. Wales could be anywhere"
Or maybe they personally want to keep their location secret as a preference. Single ladies have to be careful about their safety. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"For safety reasons you could always ask the person first where there location is it’s no biggie
That's not for safety reasons ie Cardiff is a big place ponty is a big place. Wales could be anywhere
Or maybe they personally want to keep their location secret as a preference. Single ladies have to be careful about their safety."
Personal reasons make more sense and is fair enough |
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"Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue."
All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Wales is more than just Cardiff though. Safety definitely is an issue. Pembs whilst spread over a large area is made up of small towns and villages and everyone knows everyone. "
Cardiff was just an example and im sure it you said ponty or Newport that won't be a safety issue if you said the street or village you was in than that would be different. |
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you. "
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area."
Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol |
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
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Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol"
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
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Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
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If you upgrade to Platinum Site Supporter you can then see their exact location, irrespective of their filters."
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
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Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
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If you upgrade to Platinum Site Supporter you can then see their exact location, irrespective of their filters. "
Well I did not know that but is that only if they have who is near on |
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
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Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
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If you upgrade to Platinum Site Supporter you can then see their exact location, irrespective of their filters.
Well I did not know that but is that only if they have who is near on "
no I can see the radius of someone & I haven’t got my who’s near by on |
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By *coutDWoman 38 weeks ago
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
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Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
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If you upgrade to Platinum Site Supporter you can then see their exact location, irrespective of their filters.
Well I did not know that but is that only if they have who is near on "
You don't even need platinum. Silver will show me you are 5 miles from me.
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
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Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
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If you upgrade to Platinum Site Supporter you can then see their exact location, irrespective of their filters.
Well I did not know that but is that only if they have who is near on
You don't even need platinum. Silver will show me you are 5 miles from me.
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Well if you put your from Wales on it make no difference for safety reasons as they will still know |
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By (user no longer on site) 38 weeks ago
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I think we just all need to respect different peoples boundaries...
Some people my want to only put Wales..
Some people may like to put post code and work email..
You can do a 5 mile are if that helps |
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol"
You can learn more about a person through the lost art of conversation. Depending how well you get on, they may feel comfortable to disclose the area they live in. |
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By *3xymamaWoman 38 weeks ago
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
You can learn more about a person through the lost art of conversation. Depending how well you get on, they may feel comfortable to disclose the area they live in. "
Exactly this ^^^
If you chat to someone and they like you, they may disclose what area they are from.
Personally, I never divulge anything in the first message. Even if asked where I'm based. As stated by a few others it's about safety first.
Also, if you subscribe to fab, would get a rough mileage for reference  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
You can learn more about a person through the lost art of conversation. Depending how well you get on, they may feel comfortable to disclose the area they live in. "
Yes you could if they only reply lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 38 weeks ago
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"Because they don’t want to… end of conversation!!
They don’t need to give a reason or justify themselves.
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No one asked anyone to justify them selfs its just a comment it's not aimed at anyone |
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""Safety reasons" are personal reasons too. Most people use fictitious locations because they want to exercise privacy and discretion for whatever benign reason/s.
Also, not everyone is looking to meet. Some are here for voyeuristic purposes, some for the forums, some for the group socials, some for the cam rooms and some to maintain a form of mystique and intrigue.
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All I'm saying is it's not for safety reasons as saying your from Cardiff for instance is not giving out your address it's a big place they are not going to be stalking you.
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I know of several women who don't wish to meet in their own locale or home town. For example someone who lives in Newport will only want to meet someone in, say, Cardiff. Their rationale - and prerogative - is to avoid any drama and tossers within the Newport area.
Yes I understand that but you won't know they are from the same area as you if they put Wales on there profile same as you lol
You can learn more about a person through the lost art of conversation. Depending how well you get on, they may feel comfortable to disclose the area they live in.
Yes you could if they only reply lol"
Maybe they're not interested, and if that's the case, their location is irrelevant. |
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"You can learn more about a person through the lost art of conversation. Depending how well you get on, they may feel comfortable to disclose the area they live in."
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It's a rare trait on here. Sometimes I wish there were more people on here who could handle a conversation better than they can handle a cock. The lost årt of written conversation, how I lament profusely. The joy attributed to exchanging some wonderfully thought-provoking words, keeping two people enthused and excited. |
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By *unnybunsWoman 37 weeks ago
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"Because they don’t want to… end of conversation!!
They don’t need to give a reason or justify themselves.
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Exactly this ! Jesus, don’t understand why he’s arguing the point…… it is what it is - move on.
I don’t want to be linked to a town or city for PRIVACY reasons. It’s up to the individual profile.  |
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"Because they don’t want to… end of conversation!!
They don’t need to give a reason or justify themselves.
Exactly this ! Jesus, don’t understand why he’s arguing the point…… it is what it is - move on.
I don’t want to be linked to a town or city for PRIVACY reasons. It’s up to the individual profile. "
Bunny you moaning again. I can give you something too moan about again if you want? |
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"Because they don’t want to… end of conversation!!
They don’t need to give a reason or justify themselves.
Exactly this ! Jesus, don’t understand why he’s arguing the point…… it is what it is - move on.
I don’t want to be linked to a town or city for PRIVACY reasons. It’s up to the individual profile. "
Exactly this. I don't like these posts which question others preferences. It's their choice end off. |
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We used to be more specific, but we've had messages off people trying to pin down whether they've seen Lou working at a specific place, or whether they've passed her in the street.
We don't get them as much anymore since we've 'vagued' up our location; but yeah, safety is the big one. In smaller communities or areas, you don't necessarily want anyone knowing what you're up to. Bigger areas have the luxury of a little more anonymity. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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Wow people get offended easily by a simple question. I was not complaining or putting anyone down for not putting there location on there profile. Yes it's up to who ever what they put on there profile. I was just curious why you would not put your location on. Simple as that |
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"Wow people get offended easily by a simple question. I was not complaining or putting anyone down for not putting there location on there profile. Yes it's up to who ever what they put on there profile. I was just curious why you would not put your location on. Simple as that "
Purely more annonomus protection. On here even you must realise there are a few who don't take no for an answer. A lady on here years ago had a guy turn up at her workplace because she turned him down on meeting up. That's it really in a nutshell. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP 37 weeks ago
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I can imagine that was very scary and the sick feeling she felt. Unfortunately there are sick people in this world. No one deserves that unwanted treatment |
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