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Things that just put you off a profile
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I know that we are all looking for different things here, but what have you read on a profile that would put you off (say responding to a message) that other people may actually look for?
I'll start:
1. Heavy cummer
2. Alpha male
3. Not looking for friends, just fun
4. Guaranteed to make you squirt
Bev x
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"1. Been on over a year with no pictures
2. Over a year with no veris
3. Will fill in later as bio"
These profiles definitely don't get a response!
We've blocked accounts with no public pics from messaging us & it's surprising how many get around this by making 1 pic public for the amount of time it takes to click send! |
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By *ory_xWoman 43 weeks ago
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1. Profile pic is their cock
2. Only or mostly cock pics in their gallery
3. No bio
4. Silhouette profile pic
5. No veris after being on site for a long time
6. Text speak in bio
I could go on and on  |
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Genuine. Professional. Fun.
Overuse of buzz words that mean nothing and no personality put into their profile whatsoever. Doesn't need to be long, just something that actually shows a little personality. |
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1. Married playing away.
2. Alpha,Dom,hung,daddy,bull.
3. Heavy cummer's. Just equals more mess.
4.arrogant, full of themselves in messages like being the best fuck I will ever have ect.
We prefer people who are grounded and not gym bunnies as that is something we both aren't. |
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"1. Profile pic is their cock
2. Only or mostly cock pics in their gallery
3. No bio
4. Silhouette profile pic
5. No veris after being on site for a long time
6. Text speak in bio
I could go on and on "
Yep, all of the above! |
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"A profile bio that reads like the Constitution of the United States. Such a chore and boring to read although I appreciate the need to set boundaries and expectations."
Probably wouldn't be a fan of ours then  |
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"Genuine. Professional. Fun.
Overuse of buzz words that mean nothing and no personality put into their profile whatsoever. Doesn't need to be long, just something that actually shows a little personality."
Haha, yes! Particularly the professional one  |
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"1. Married playing away.
2. Alpha,Dom,hung,daddy,bull.
3. Heavy cummer's. Just equals more mess.
4.arrogant, full of themselves in messages like being the best fuck I will ever have ect.
We prefer people who are grounded and not gym bunnies as that is something we both aren't."
100% with you on all of the above! |
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One from a DM today which is very offputting:
Acrobatic with my tongue!!
I'm super Fucking hung
Blush, crush
Say my name but don't rush
Light me up with your touch
Let's get weird, I don't judge
Drugs, buzz
Destitute when I'm cussed
Good at getting you numb |
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"No public photos.
Looking for hung only.
Boring bio after being on for a while.
Cheating.
The no public pics baffles me. Why would anyone message/reply to a message from a silhouette "
Exactly, if they message me and send photos then I might reply |
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1. Shy- then check pics of them naked/ or videos of them fucking
2. Discretion needed for work- grrr doesn't stop you adding some information.
3. Massive lists of prerequisite requirements- just delete the ones you don't want
4.the disclaimer thing at the bottom- honestly.
5. Blank profiles, with no profile pic at all, just put up a picture of a cat or something!! |
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Endless dick pics from every angle - it doesn't look any bigger from any of them
Fill this in later - user has been on since the dawn of time
Looking for 18-99 - so literally you'll fuck anything then |
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Omg yes to all of these!
It doesn't take a lot of time or effort to have at least a little something on your profile.
And agree with no photos or veris after being on the site for a while. Like, what gives?
And the people who put the "it's a publicly traded entity...you have no authority to use my pics" I just assume dont know how the Internet works. Hahah |
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"I know that we are all looking for different things here, but what have you read on a profile that would put you off (say responding to a message) that other people may actually look for?
I'll start:
1. Heavy cummer
2. Alpha male
3. Not looking for friends, just fun
4. Guaranteed to make you squirt
Bev x
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1. Profiles with somewhere near you or something like that.
2. Hung.
3. Anus pics. Ughh.
4. No pics at all.
5. Alpha Male
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By (user no longer on site) 43 weeks ago
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• unclean bums: if you want to show the world your pie hole then for the love of god wipe it
• relentless lists of negatives: I dont want, I dont want, I don’t want. Cool…what do you want though? I suspect their letters to Santa were something
• close up genital shots and nothing else
• unclean genitals: literally vom
• use of the word “juicy” to describe your cock or vag
• professional: professional what? This is a swinging site not LinkedIn
• no photos on profile but demanding photos to open conversation.
• cannot accom and cannot travel…where are you having sex then? A parallel dimension?
• blurry photos from decades ago. Come on guys this isn’t back to the future
• athletic… what? Like a shot putter?
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By *3xymamaWoman 43 weeks ago
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"• unclean bums: if you want to show the world your pie hole then for the love of god wipe it
• relentless lists of negatives: I dont want, I dont want, I don’t want. Cool…what do you want though? I suspect their letters to Santa were something
• close up genital shots and nothing else
• unclean genitals: literally vom
• use of the word “juicy” to describe your cock or vag
• professional: professional what? This is a swinging site not LinkedIn
• no photos on profile but demanding photos to open conversation.
• cannot accom and cannot travel…where are you having sex then? A parallel dimension?
• blurry photos from decades ago. Come on guys this isn’t back to the future
• athletic… what? Like a shot putter?
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This ^^^ the unclean pics really make me vom  |
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I'm always amazed people are able to take such clear close-up photos of their anus. I'm not sure what I'm supposed to infer from seeing their starfish anyway? Instant close snd if it's particularly gross, block so I don't have to risk seeing it again.
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By (user no longer on site) 42 weeks ago
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"Sticking their tongue out in their face pics, although I see that more on the dating apps than here to be honest. It still puts me right off though
This. Puts me right off someone  "
I 3rd this!
I thought I was being weird but a photo with a tongue out is massive turn off.
(I can touch then end of my nose with my tongue but almost nobody has see it  ) |
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Well said.
Literally nothing about their personality or what they actually want. I’ve had a more interesting reports from the MOT station.
In so glad LinkedIn in has a ban against starfish profile pics |
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Yes to so many of these
Big no for me from people who say they're only looking for people 'BIOLOGICALLY' female or male and people discriminating against different races and body types
Men trying to show their 'dominance' and alpha males *projectile vomit* |
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Any "420" or other references.
Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.
No pics.
Brief or non-existent bio.
Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine. |
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"Any "420" or other references.
Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.
No pics.
Brief or non-existent bio.
Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine."
I get this, I do have a few hidden veris because some of them used my name and others have since left the site |
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By (user no longer on site) 41 weeks ago
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"Any "420" or other references.
Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.
No pics.
Brief or non-existent bio.
Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine."
My veris aren’t hidden, just that the people who left them closed their accounts and are no longer on the site. At that point they disappear. Which is very frustrating |
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"Any "420" or other references.
Dont mind if people do the above, its their life, but not during a meet please.
No pics.
Brief or non-existent bio.
Hidden veries....if someone went to the trouble of writing one, they obviously want folks to know you are genuine."
But there again mart we don't show ours all the time as who we play with is our business. Last thing anyone wants is being bothered by someone who reads other peoples veris on your profile and message you hoping they get a Shag off it. There are two sides of the coin when you show veris. Shows you are genuine but opens up to being abused also. |
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"A profile bio that reads like the Constitution of the United States. Such a chore and boring to read although I appreciate the need to set boundaries and expectations.
Probably wouldn't be a fan of ours then "
Haha nor mine.
Long constitution profile bios are such a turn on for me. I want confidence and clarity. |
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So many true comments!
To add to the list;
Arrogance
Expectation to meet very quickly and fuck because they get bored easily
People who arnt safe sex
Gym fit types
Poor grammar and text speak
Generic info in their profile |
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Profiles that are just entirely negative and full of “won’t meet” statements.
Those without any pics that demand face pic in first message
Hidden verification summaries
Awful spelling/grammar
Pics showing that they live in a shit tip! |
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"Profiles that are just entirely negative and full of “won’t meet” statements.
Those without any pics that demand face pic in first message
Hidden verification summaries
Awful spelling/grammar
Pics showing that they live in a shit tip!"
Or those that won't send a face pic until you send a face pic, even though you asked for a face pic first |
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Profile names like cervix basher etc.
Status updates full of drama and aimed at people.
Dom or alpha male.
Constant references to dick size.
Gaping ass hole pics that put you off your food.. 
Dick pics over a toilet even worse if it's a dirty toilet.. .
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Just dick pics picture of cum . Alpha . Daddy .dom heavy cummer/big loads .we meet separately .long list of rules and just narcissistic women as we are layed back honest this just seems like a whole lot of trouble if you can't be chill its a no ! |
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