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By (user no longer on site) OP    52 weeks ago

How do you get your confidence back after being out the scene for months?

I use to be able to chat and firt with no problems before but finding it hard to get the confidence in myself.

Any tips would be helpful

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By *ental monkeysCouple 52 weeks ago

caerphilly

The same way you did before you left!

Be yourself.

Go to some of the organised socials and mingle.

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By (user no longer on site) 52 weeks ago


"How do you get your confidence back after being out the scene for months?

I use to be able to chat and firt with no problems before but finding it hard to get the confidence in myself.

Any tips would be helpful"

Fuck me, we ain't even past the first hurdle yet, turns out having varying tastes combined with not wanting to play alone is a difficult mix.

I suppose the motto is, if it happens it happens and not to push anything in between but you have the advantage of experience so I'm sure you'll get there again fella

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By *iscean_dreamMan 52 weeks ago

Llanelli

Just dive in I guess, confidence will soon come back again

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple 52 weeks ago

Neath valley.


"How do you get your confidence back after being out the scene for months?

I use to be able to chat and firt with no problems before but finding it hard to get the confidence in myself.

Any tips would be helpful

Fuck me, we ain't even past the first hurdle yet, turns out having varying tastes combined with not wanting to play alone is a difficult mix.

I suppose the motto is, if it happens it happens and not to push anything in between but you have the advantage of experience so I'm sure you'll get there again fella "

As soon as you have bicurious/bisexual for the male half you're very limited on here as most cpls don't like the makes bi. Like you we have limited ourselves but we are who we are and won't change that. To the OP just be who you are,you played before on here so once you get back in the saddle so to speak you will be fine. Fab has changed though from years ago and is now used as a hook up site by many and not a swingers site as it was originally intended to be. Good luck OP,just keep plugging away and you will be fine.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple 52 weeks ago

Neath valley.

Males

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By *randMrsMerthyrCouple 52 weeks ago

Merthyr Tydfil

Be yourself ... be brave, get to a few socials and build up connections. It doesn't have to be 'hi, wanna fuck' ... do what feels comfortable to you xxx

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By *ax-BangingMan 52 weeks ago

town

I've been wondering this pre co-vid, I was very active on here with socials and the club scene. Since covid my mental health and general health has left me hardly leaving the house.

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By *3xymamaWoman 52 weeks ago

Uptown Top Ranking


"I've been wondering this pre co-vid, I was very active on here with socials and the club scene. Since covid my mental health and general health has left me hardly leaving the house."

Aaawww Max, we all miss you. It's been so long since we've seen you.. why not meet up with a small group socially for a cuppa...

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By *coutDWoman 51 weeks ago

Pontypridd

How about joining a telegram chat group and go to Caerphilly quiz night or Cardiff / Newport social.

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